One is very attractive, 10 years older, but has a very demanding job and teenage kids so he doesn't have much time for me. He is a very sweet man. He is not that emotional but I know he love me very much. More than he has ever loved anyone. The other guy is less attractive, 18 years older, has a good job, but always has time for me. He is a rock for me as I am going through a hard time (mom has cancer). He loves me very much and wants us to be together forever. We have history together. They both know about the other - so there are not secrets. Who do I choose?
2007-01-29 02:25:13 · 21 answers · asked by Kitt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At this point you don't have to, but there will come a time where you will. If you could only combine the two into one you'd have it made! You won't be able to build a life with someone based toatally on physical attractiveness, and you also won't want to "settle" for someone strictly on the basis of comfort and stability. Enjoy what you have for now - the second partner may decide at a later point in time that he is no longer willing to share you, at which time you will have to make a choice.
2007-01-29 02:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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Wait, don't report me, I just couldn't stop laughing. Good job, way to go. Can I be your third guy on the side that you spoil with money from the other two?
Hmm, who to choose? Do you have to choose? *Sigh*. If you can't decide based solely on love or even like then look at compatibility.
First figure out what you want out of the relationship, marriage, children, security. Once you have that, pick the one who best matches that.
Seriously though, good job!
2007-01-29 02:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off how old are u. Second I think u should go for the 18 year old if u aren't too old ur self b/c it seems that he has more time for u and a better future but if u are like 25 or older then u need to stick to the older guy.
2007-01-29 02:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by sweety_8620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people are confused, because there thinking that he's 18 when really u say he's 18 years OLDER. hehehe go for the one you love the most. It's not right to be kind of leading them on.
2007-01-29 02:33:13 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know how you feel about them but it sounds like if i loved someone more than i have ever loved anyone before. i would want to be with them and want to make them the happiest person in the world. at all times. see what im getting at i sounds like yea he loves you but he loves the sex more. i would go for the guy that is there and does care not only about you but your family too. trust will always be there sex comes and goes.
2007-01-29 02:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by wesblackdodge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need to choose? I'd deal with mom and the cancer right now. Worry about choosing one of these guys later.
2007-01-29 02:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't expect a bunch of strangers to choose between these men can you? It sounds like they are both good men and you have a tough decision to make. You have to follow your heart on this one and make a real decision for yourself. Good luck.
2007-01-29 02:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really HAVE to choose.It doesent seem like you have to.If neither has ask you to choose,then whats the need?We only have one life.Just have fun and dont worry about choosing.Be kind to both of them.Its ok to have two boyfriends.And its ok not to get married.
2007-01-29 02:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by GranGran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the 18 year old.
2007-01-29 02:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by D.ROCK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's simple. If you want a serious relationship, you should pick the second guy.
2007-01-29 02:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Marko C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋