I have been dating a guy for about a month and we have slept together twice. The last time he was holding me and told me that he loved me. I didn't even breathe! I didn't respond either. It was the middle of the night and I just faked like I was still sleeping. Bad move? He was very cranky the next day and hasn't returned any of my messages over the weekend. Two text msgs and two voice mails. Now I don't know what to think! Have I hurt him or is he just scared because he said it too soon and didn't mean for it to slip out?
2007-01-29 00:50:04 · 13 answers · asked by spiritual.rollercoaster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel like joey k. what the hell the after glow yeah he did mean it then for you to not say any thing that's just messed up girl. no wonder he hasn't called you back, and that he was "cranky" the next morning. how would you of felt if it was the other way around?
2007-01-29 00:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHA you faked being asleep on the guy while he was being affectionate. Did you also look at your watch while in the middle of sex?????
Really, if ya love the guy and want to continue the relationship you better meet with him physically. You notice I didn’t say MEAT him physically. Show up at his home and talk to him. That is if you feel like he won't harm you.
I just had the best laugh of my day.
2007-01-29 01:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yeah id say that he is probably hurt
not to mention a little bit embarrassed
wouldnt you be, if you told someone you loved them and they faked sleep instead of answering
im sure he regrets saying it since he didnt get the response he had hoped for
if you care for him straighten it out right away
if you dont then dont keep messaging the guy i mean he does have some pride you know
2007-01-29 00:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by iammissmess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was just scare he said it early he would probably speak to you. You probably did hurt him and his anger is the way he handles it. If he is this upset about it he probably did mean it. If he did mean it let him stew and get over it a little and he'll come back around.
2007-01-29 00:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by 1dollar4corn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm bit of both really... I woudl be scared and hurt.... i think u have to decide whether you love him or not if u love him simple say u love him...
If you do not explain to him ur feelings are growing and you woudl like them to grow further before you can use the word love...
in both cases explain to him that i love you was a bit sudden and you were ntoprepared for after especially as he rocked ur world earlier (not meant ot be rude) mean to message his ego.. us guys love it
2007-01-29 00:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably both. A lot of times guys foolishly think they are supposed to say something like that. Say something like, "I heard what you said the other night, but I'm not sure if you meant it or if that was just your way of thanking me"!
2007-01-29 00:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only say it if you mean it, but apparently he did and now he is hurt. Guess you need to decide exactly where your relationship is headed.
2007-01-29 00:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he's hurt, and probably embarassed. You need to talk to him about this - before his imagination runs wild. It's too soon for this kind of frivilous talk - tell him so.
2007-01-29 00:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he did want an answer.
he is not very mature for acting this way.
give him time to get over this.
if after talking, he acts weird -
move on.
2007-01-29 00:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Elvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he said it too soon? The dude's stuck his sausage in you twice, what is that, hate?
2007-01-29 00:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋