What are the possibilities of your partners coming back to you?
2007-01-29 00:47:38 · 17 answers · asked by sheneverhappened 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It all depends upon why the person left and all of the other circumstances surrounding the leaving and relationship. But if someone could leave you for another, think seriously if you'd actually want them back or not.
2007-01-29 00:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by samthecatrocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. You need to heal from the hurt, and deal with what happened, so u can move on. The love that u feel would probably be for the person she "was", and the relationship u "had" at one point. If u honestly sat and thought about it, how good was she to u in this past while? and how good was the relationship? If she was great, and the relationship was loving and wonderful, then she never would have left u, especially for someone else. So don't focus on the past and what used to be. Realize it just wasn't meant to be with this person. As far as her coming back......would u really want that?? Right now u probably feel u do want that because it would stop the hurt u are feeling, but believe me it would never be the same between u. You would end up having trust issues with her, and u would be very insecure that she would hurt u again, and u may even end up resenting her for what she did to u. You are much better off just letting your heart heal and in time u will meet someone who is as committed to u as u are to them. You will look back and see that she was not the one for u. Stay strong, and good luck.
2007-01-29 01:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, you simply can't. You will never forget them, and they will always be a part of you. The most you can do is lessen the felling that you still for them. It will also take time,. This is not somethign that can happen in a matter of months. The possibilities of someone like that coming back are scarce. If said person left for another, there is a reason why that said person did that.
Look inside and see what that reason could be, either bad habits, hygeine, tempermant, personality. Then work on it, and let the other person see the change that was made.
2007-01-29 00:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by tracy82_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't forget, but in a while, you won't care much. It's the grieving process. You'll feel better when you get to "anger". The possibilities of her coming back? That means you are right now in the "denial" stage of grieving. There IS a chance, but if she should "come back", it will be to use you until the next fellow comes along.
I have all the sympathy in the world for you. We've ALL been there. Time WILL heal it and then you will be glad that she left. You deserve better.
2007-01-29 00:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to look inward for the strength to let go. It's okay to still love that person but you have to love them enough to let go, that means loving yourself more. It takes time to get over someone, especially the longer you have been with them but things happen for a reason, it is up to you to use the time apart to search inwardly for what you truly need out of life, love and a relationship.You should take the time to get to know yourself so that when you are ready to love again it will be without hesitation that you will build a stronger relationship with someone based partly on how well you know yourself. I don't know about the possibilites of a partner coming back to you because I don't know your ex. but I don't think I would want someone to take me back who dumped me in the first place.
2007-01-29 00:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want her back? All you can do is LEARN from this experience and move on with life. It hurts like hell, I know, because I've spent the past year (1.31.06 was the last time I saw him) waiting on a ghost.
I can give a million cliches: Time heals all wounds, If you love someone let them go.... None of them mean anything without your willingness to let go and move on. Remember to take it day by day, sooner or later you'll begin to heal, you'll only think of her 5x's a day insted of 100. Then, when you meet someone new you'll only think of her once a week, maybe, then once a month.
2007-01-29 01:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by redslippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pathetic, pathetic. Forget her, get a life. Billions of humans around you, can't you see that. Oh, by the way, the possibilities of your partners coming back to you? From zero to impossible. If she does, it won't last. She is gone gone gone. GO AND LIVE, U LUCKY BASTARD.
2007-01-29 00:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible, but it will never be the same. Trust me, you really DON'T want her back. You'll never get over the betrayal. Once you break up - the relationship is broken. Spend your energy looking for someone who wants to be with YOU.
2007-01-29 00:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont forget.......Nothing you do will ever make you forget it her...BUT you can learn to let go and move on...She obviously wasnt meant to be with you...so just learn to expect it for what it is and your heartache will eventually go away..and by then you will probably have someone else you love 2!
2007-01-29 01:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kell bell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i left the guy who adored me soo much, i still couldn't go out with anyone because i just cant stop comparing him with other boys but he on the other hand started seeing soemone else after 3 years of breaking up with me. i on the other hand couldn't forget him. different people deal with situation differently i will sure try to date soemone soon now!!! you do that too
2007-01-29 00:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by samina m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋