okay, so this boy i like right, i was at his house the other night, and we were watching movies and cuddleing and he held me in his arms like all night and just sat there and kissed my forehead and like we were acctually dating, and that is what it felt like, and prior to that night he had told me that he had liked me as long as i have liked him (since 7th grade) which would be lik 3 years now. and he said that he wanted to go out and stuff.. so i was talking to him last night, and he was really drunk from like 16 shots and really high from quite a few blunts, and he said that he didn't like me and didn't want to go out anymore, do i liten to him, or do i ask him again when he is sober??? i really need help on this.
2007-01-29 00:48:53 · 20 answers · asked by HisSweetestSin235 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, so this boy i like right, i was at his house the other night, and we were watching movies and cuddleing and he held me in his arms like all night and just sat there and kissed my forehead and like we were acctually dating, and that is what it felt like, and prior to that night he had told me that he had liked me as long as i have liked him (since 7th grade) which would be lik 4 years now. and he said that he wanted to go out and stuff.. so i was talking to him last night, and he was really drunk from like 16 shots and really high from quite a few blunts, and he said that he didn't like me and didn't want to go out anymore, do i liten to him, or do i ask him again when he is sober??? i really need help on this.
2007-01-29 00:59:38 · update #1
idk why it pasted my question twice... i just tried to changed 3 yrs to 4 yrs, idk.. sry
2007-01-29 01:00:23 · update #2
I wouldn't go out with him if he is drinking and smoking illegal things. My kids are teenagers. One of them behaved like that, when he got a girlfriend she put her foot down and said drugs or her. Thankfully, he chose her. You don't need to date someone who does addictive things. And he isn't old enough to even drink.
2007-01-29 00:53:24 · answer #1 · answered by lisa s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LISTEN carefully: you avoid him and wait for him to come to you and apologise. But don't wait as in sit by the phone, look around for other guys in the meantime or just chill and don't think about it. If he doesn't come on those terms get rid of him. Lifes too short and you women have the power. You have to be strong and stand away from situations like this to come across the good guys. If he comes and apologises hes a good guy.
2007-01-29 01:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask him when he gets sober because you need to see how he really feels about you. I mean, you also need to ask yourself is this the type of person you want a relationship with. He can turn on you when he gets drunk and high. Are you willing to put yourself on this emotional rollercoaster? Set your sights and standards higher.
2007-01-29 00:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds as if he does like you...speak to him when he's sober! he's probably feeling insecure, and so is rejecting you because of his fear of YOU rejecting HIM... we all do silly things when we've had one too many. PS! DO NOT PUT UP WITH THAT KIND OF TREATMENT AGAIN...hear him out and that is where the buck stops...if he does it again, he seriously needs to get a grip ... and then you move on... good luck x
2007-01-29 01:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is in 9th grade and doing 16 shots.......run and don't look back. He is an alcholic in the making. Your life with him would be nothing but misery.
2007-01-29 00:54:22 · answer #5 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him...More truthful words are said when a person is drunk.....Besides,why would you want to be with anybody that drinks that much....It shows weakness.
2007-01-29 00:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by oohJOHNNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely he was telling the truth.. take it for what it is and move on.. it shouldn't matter if he was sober or drunk the point is he said it and u should accept it..
all guys care about us and stuff when were giving them attn or being their 2nd choice...
2007-01-29 00:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, if a man said that to me, drunk or not, it would be a cold day in hell before I'd talk to him again.
2007-01-29 00:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If my boyfriend had drunk 16 shots I'd walk away. What a loser.
2007-01-29 00:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Velouria 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to go out with someone like that? You're only asking for trouble my dear. Stay away from him!!!!
2007-01-29 00:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Nunya 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋