How do you get past feeling angry toward someone who's not treating you right?

Question

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he's in a long-term long-distance relationship. I told him I liked him and that it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is he's ignoring me and has been for the past 4 weeks. Last week, was my birthday and I got a card from some coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday, but didn't sign his name and he's still not talking to me.

Answer 1

I think he is doing exactly what you want him to do. Go on about your business and get over him. Don't waste another second worrying about it. Do your job and if your looking for love, look somewhere else other than the workplace.

HTH

Answer 2

I think your friend is doing just as you asked. You have done all you can by apologizing for your actions even though he may have deserved it. He did at least acknowledge your birthday on the group card so it isn't as if he has totally forgotten about you. Perhaps he is giving you time to adjust and he may also be feeling some latent guilt for his part but does not want to own up to it. Just let it go for now. It will take time to get over being angry just as any serious emotion does. Just try to occupy yourself with other friends or your work.

Answer 3

GIRL, YOU POST THIS QUESTION EVERY DAY!!!
LEAVE HIM ALONE. HE OBVIOUSLY DOES NOT WANNA BE WITH YOU AND IS A PLAYER FOR LEADING YOU ON.