Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

I have a really bad view of myself. To others I have accomplished a lot and am realyl creative. I know that I am not heavily overweight, but I am so unhappy with myself. I hate the way that I look. After having the baby, my body has changed dramatically. My husband says that I look great, and I know that he loves me and he wouldn't lie to me. But, I just do not see what he sees.

Can anyone help me with the view that I have about myself.
I need to lose weight and I know that I need to excercise. This is part of it all, and it is my fault for not getting into it more.

2007-01-26 04:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by sweetybaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 04:09:27 · 12 answers · asked by Calvin James Hammer 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my ex girlfreind dumped me 2 weeks ago for this other guy. She is very popular in school and her friends always tell her she should get back with me because they dont see anything in this other guy she only likes him cuz he is super hot she thinks and we fight but i still love her and she woudl always get jelous when girls flirt with me but how do i make her want me again???

2007-01-26 04:08:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 04:08:35 · 25 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont get it, some even (cant add) want to know where the money goes. ARE THEY KIDDING? Someone please tell me how its possible that some cant add living expenses, daycare, insurance, over the counter medicine, dental, school supplies, class trips, laundry det, lunches, etc?

2007-01-26 04:08:10 · 13 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

SKINNY, CHUBBY, MEDiUM , BUiLT AND WHY?

AND DONT GiMMiEY THE CRAP ON SAiNYiN ON PERSONALiTY? BECAUSE THATS A WHOLE LOUD OF CRA!P

2007-01-26 04:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by BLiZz 1 in Singles & Dating

I have low self-esteem(I'm not good looking) but I'm really working on improving it,I'm just wondering How am I supposed to feel about it when I'm talking to someone but he/she doesn't look me at me(because of my looks)?or when people say bad things about me?

2007-01-26 04:07:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are currently living overseas and plan to move back to the US in 2 months. We have a baby and a house in the US. It's a difficult step to take and I want to plan correctly so I am not taken advantage of by my husband and not left out in the cold.

2007-01-26 04:06:29 · 4 answers · asked by Wilma P. Flintstone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 04:06:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to know because I don't want to waste my time or his.

2007-01-26 04:04:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My X's lawyer told X & my son that my son doesn't have to come for court ordered visitation! Still disabled, still can't afford a lawyer. Can I do anything on my own?

2007-01-26 04:04:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been going on dating sites, and found everyone I met on there to be disapointments. Met them in person, and I wasnt impressed.

My friends tell me Im too picky, but I just dont want to settle. I have met some very nice guys, who want to date me, but im not attracted to them, theres no chemistry. I did like one guy but he turned out to be a complete ***.

It seems I always fall for the jerks, and not the nice guys. I dont want to date a man, I want to date the man. Am I too picky? I just want the whole package.....someone that is great and wonderful, but also someone I have chemistry with. Am I really asking for too much?

2007-01-26 04:03:36 · 34 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Or would say that your just person with a very strong sex habbit?

2007-01-26 04:03:18 · 9 answers · asked by SMILEY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i have been for seven years, since freshman year highschool.. we have never broken up never took a break from each other.. all on.. and now.... i have to move away... to another country. i got offered a full nursing scholarship all the way across the globe... and i'm gonna do it of course.. but what about us? do you think were gonna work out?



-i have to come back like at least once a year (visa purposes)
-i will graduate by march of 2009
-we are 21 years old
-he's willing to wait but..... i'm still skeptical...
-he was my first and only boyfriend...



heeeeelllppp!

2007-01-26 04:03:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The crazy thing is, her Dad likes me a lot, and tells me all the time how his daughter likes me,and talks about me constantly....what do I do!?!?!? Do I date the 17 year old....or what? So far I have avoided her totaly....I've kissed her once thats all....But trust me she wants more....Waaayyyy more. AND IT'S SO HARD CAUSE SHE'S DROP DEAD GORGEOUS!! I think it's just a faze....she says otherwise....what do I do.....SERIOUSLY

2007-01-26 04:02:40 · 17 answers · asked by Mikey 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl at work... and I think that she likes me to. She's 18 and I'm 17, shes 3 months older than me...
Anyway I want to ask her out but loads oi people at work keep messing about saying that I'm chattin her up...I would like to, but I don't do it all the time. Im worried that if I ask her out it would just confirm everyones suspicisons, even if they are true.

Should I really care what they think?

2007-01-26 04:02:32 · 26 answers · asked by Shaun W 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend hes so fine i love him to death but i really know he loves me for real.

2007-01-26 04:02:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 04:02:25 · 5 answers · asked by scotty 1 in Friends

For instance when your in the club and a girl has a low cut top revealing her breast and you look or say something about it, they have such a problem with it. Or when they put on extremely tight clothing. Why are you doing this?

2007-01-26 04:02:09 · 13 answers · asked by Briand K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-26 04:01:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 04:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

years old and my child's mother is currently pregnant again. I don't want to be with her. I never really did we weren't together when she conceived or when she gave birth I got into a relationship with her because my girlfriend, my true love, was devastatingly hurt by the situation re: my first child. Now shes pregnant again. My baby's mother is an ex stripper and has no money and she was on welfare. I love my ex and I want to talk to her and tell her she's right and that my baby's mother is only a gold digger looking for a way to nab a man. She's calculated, manipulative and mean. She hates my ex because she deep down knows that I truely love her. How do get my ex back.... I am a good guy who's just made some really stupid mistakes. I want my family but I want my ex. I know that my child 's mother will fight me to death because she's vindictive. My ex knows. Eventhough we haven't spoken she knows, she has a weird sixth sense on things like that. I want to be with and my 2 kids.

2007-01-26 04:00:15 · 10 answers · asked by dee dee s 1 in Family

We have a experiment about why guys like the girls that act like that they are all that. why not go for the ones that act like them? and if they do like them then they aren't really into them.

2007-01-26 03:59:38 · 26 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 03:58:54 · 14 answers · asked by mangal singh rana 1 in Singles & Dating

I know my sister is cheating on her husband what should I do? She is married with 3 kids, and the guys she is with is married to her "best friend" and they have 4 kids. I don't think she is a good mother and I feel sorry for my BIL and nieces. Advice please.

2007-01-26 03:58:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you still want to sleep(literally) with your girlfriend when she is "on"? or Are you too grossed out to just lay there and talk then fall asleep no activites need to occur.

2007-01-26 03:57:59 · 28 answers · asked by FASHION*DIVA 3 in Singles & Dating

above average intelligent, does that mean that all the advice that says "just be yourself" won't get me anywhere with the ladies, because it definately hasn't so far.

2007-01-26 03:57:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with a good job and nice home and all that he isn't interested in you and won't even give you a chance even though you have many practical things in common but when you come across a guy who is not too attractive, a little overweight, twice divorced, in a financial mess, lives with family, has low paying job, and children to support, you can't get rid of him? It just seems the good ones are unattainable and those with all the baggage are too anxious.

2007-01-26 03:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I have recently separated from my husband and feel ready to go out on the town again, but most of my friends are either married or have children, I work 5 days a week with special needs children and don't really mix with any adults.
I want to make some new friends to go out socialising with, but really can't think of a way to do this (I am quite shy) I would never walk into somewhere alone, and am not interested in art galleries or doing any courses or things like that, cant join a gym as I am slim, does anyone know where I can make new friends?????
I am in Manchester, UK

2007-01-26 03:56:36 · 35 answers · asked by lisalou1970 1 in Friends

2007-01-26 03:56:28 · 27 answers · asked by Husain F 2 in Friends