Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

i'm older then my boyfriend, so should i be the leader in the relationship?

2007-01-26 04:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friends birthday party in a couple days, and a former friend of mine (who seriously betrayed me) will be there. i have never been in this situation b4, so is there any advice i can get to deal with this awkward situation? i know i will be civil, but what if she isn't . (read my question from the other day to understand what this girl did)

2007-01-26 04:26:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend let me down big time . He told me he needed some time alone for several days cause he felt ashamed he let me down so much.

I thought he would contact me after a few days but he didn't. So I tried to contact him but got no reply.( I still love him and thought I should give him another chance) We were out of touch for about two weeks. I got very worried about him so I contacted one of his friends, and asked if she could contact him and see if he was ok. She did and told me he was fine and that he said he didn't like his friend being disturbed like that.

My boyfriend actually contacted me before his friend called him. I told him about me contacting his friend and stuff , and he said nothing, expect that they were out of touch for a while too.

Why didn't he let me know he was unhappy about me bothering his friend, but instead, told his friend he didn't like that? It made me think he didn't tell me everything & he cared about his friends more than me.

2007-01-26 04:25:29 · 18 answers · asked by Y 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm broke, he knows this, we're in a long distant relationship. When I pay for the flight to go see him, he'll give me the money back in cash when I get there, do you think it would be unreasonable to ask HIM to book it online? he's loaded with cash! and it's only £30, money that I haven't got cuz i'm a full-time student. how should I approach it as I want to go see him, and I'll bring it up, but I don't wanna say "lets book the next flight, you pay". Do you guys know what I mean? how should I go around it?

2007-01-26 04:25:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 04:25:02 · 19 answers · asked by DazzleMe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do older people have more power over younger people?

2007-01-26 04:24:39 · 15 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 04:24:10 · 10 answers · asked by meily m 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 04:23:02 · 16 answers · asked by roxi 1 in Friends

2007-01-26 04:22:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 17 and i'm still going to high school so of course there drama, even if your someone like me who try to ignore it, it finds you anyway, my problem is that i have changed from what i used to be (a little kid with an anger problem to one who is trying to grow up to be somebody) i'm losing friends of it because i'm serious about school i feel as if i don't have time to relax and have fun when i know i'm hear for something important as my future, but really even if i'm losing friends, should i look at this as a bad thing that i'm taking my life more serious and forgeting the ones who always want me to have fun when i'm in school, i just don't want to look back on this one day and think i made a wrong chose even if it did help my future.

i don't really care for friend because my goal is larger that the thought of me having friends but there ae alot of people that care for me thinking that i'm not thinking of them.....i'm i wrong for that

2007-01-26 04:21:59 · 13 answers · asked by dfrost16 1 in Friends

2007-01-26 04:21:25 · 25 answers · asked by noele i 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty, attractive and have a interesting personality. I always know how to make my man happy. I've never been dumped before. I'm 25 and i have gone 4 relationships and I dumped them all.

I am Not being cocky or promoting myself, I'm just being honest. and yeah.. i'm confident or maybe over-confident. I'm a perfectionist. I know they tried so hard to give me what they have, but I just can't get enough. There are always someone better out there for me. I always have guys admiring me and chasing me all my life. so i have a high expectation.

Don't blame me for that because i just want to find the best one for me. But i really don't wish to hurt any guy that's with me. and yeah... I can simply tell you I AM NOT HAPPY! because i might be alone all my life! I really wanna know how I can change my thinking?

2007-01-26 04:21:10 · 16 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been bestmates with this lad for 10 years sins we were kids, now im 19 and he is 18 and i have watched him grow up and now i find myself realy atracted to him i was going out with his best m8 but its my friend i want how can i let him no this with out distroying what we have already, i dont know if he feels the same or not, but we spend alot of time alone and even do sum sexual stuff but i dont know if this is just because we trust each other what can i do?

2007-01-26 04:19:55 · 18 answers · asked by Charlene G 1 in Singles & Dating

if I had anal and oral?...and I had anal sex without protection...is there a problem? or ... is it dangerous? for him and for me? I hope I'm not a *****...I just had this things with my exboyfriend...I am 16...what do you say?

2007-01-26 04:19:42 · 23 answers · asked by teen 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you, or do you know someone who got married and right before getting married were in a huge fight and then magically everything came together at the end? Or has someone ran into the church (or wherever) breaking up the ceremony to tell either the bride or groom they were in love with them? Or is this just all the stuff of movies?

2007-01-26 04:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by Nora 2 in Weddings

This guy is called the oracle at work cuz he's up on women. He's read phychological books and has studied their behaviour from being in previous relationships. Therefore, I'm sure that he'll use all the tricks of the trade on me! How do I avoid this? He plays hard to get quite abit, and blows hot and cold!

2007-01-26 04:17:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 04:17:20 · 14 answers · asked by angel 1 in Weddings

I recently started dating this woman who is a very sexual person. She likes to dominate and humiliate me every chance she gets. While we are in the act she sometimes likes to call me names that I certainly can’t type out here. I really like this woman but her antics inside of the bedroom have been getting more and more violent. I find myself with cuts and bruises in the mornings after we make love. She has also started using various “tools” to “explore” parts of my body that have never been seen by a woman before. Is this normal sexual behavior? This is my first, and I’ve never experienced anything like this before. Is there any way I can make her stop?

2007-01-26 04:15:58 · 14 answers · asked by pheco 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always herd both points argued. On one hand, "if you screwed up, you have to face the consequences and if she/he decides to ...", on the other hand, there is the argument "that by confessing, you ease your guilt and feel better at the expense of the partner's (who would carry the pain from there on), and therefore it is the ultimate selfish act in an affair". What are your thoughts?

2007-01-26 04:15:40 · 6 answers · asked by Dull 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After I gets married, my life completely change. For the first month, everything was so cool and my husband was sweet and all that. However, later I start to feel like I am the one doing all the house-works. I go to work from 8 a.m to 5 p.m, then when I go home, I cook, I clean house, I take the trash, I pay bill, wash clothes. Sometime I feel like run-out-of-energy. My husband doesn't do anything at home. When he comes home from work, he just sits down and watches T.V. Sometimes I feel like I am his slave; I feel like : the only thing that I get out from my marriage is s-x. I feel like my husband does not care for me anymore. Ladies, have you ever felt this way after you gets married? Do women have to do all the chores at home? Question for men: How do you feel after you gets married?. Also, what can I do to improve my situation. I know that the first thing I should do is talk to him how I feel. Any other suggestions? Thank for your help.

2007-01-26 04:15:02 · 29 answers · asked by yenhu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if i don't know the name of a song but i know part of the lyrics, is there a website were i could type the part of the lyrics in and it gives me the name of the song??

2007-01-26 04:14:41 · 12 answers · asked by HEARTBROKEN 1 in Friends

should i show my boyfriend in body language that i'm vulnerable?

2007-01-26 04:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

But, I can't stand night clubs! My friends all say this is the only place I will meet girls. I would try a dating agency, but I have no idea whether they work or not. The fact is I believe it will just happen and we will meet one day. Does anyone have any advice to give? I would appreciate non derogatory advice, thanks!

2007-01-26 04:13:59 · 45 answers · asked by Mr Sarcastic 3 in Singles & Dating

which do you work with...why...and how does it pan out practically for you???...just curious....;0)

2007-01-26 04:13:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm doing all the calling, but he answers all of my calls, and even calls me back straightaway to save my phone bill without me having to ask. There is a special flight offer for me to go see him, it ends in a couple of days, shall I just call him again to tell him about it or shall I just wait till he calls me? help!

2007-01-26 04:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 6'5 275 lbs, and do not look one bit fat. Do I appeal to women more than a smaller guy ?

2007-01-26 04:12:25 · 18 answers · asked by GREATJJ 1 in Singles & Dating

on the other hand I always give him my paycheck everyweek to handle all the bills and what ever we need but this check he want get so what shall I do if he ask me why she gave me that money?

2007-01-26 04:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by two boyz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just so that it's easiser for them to tell who already has confidence naturally and who is still working on it?

2007-01-26 04:12:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend of over a year used to be a pothead when he was younger but quit - however he still likes to have a toke when we're around his friends who still do it. Which is all of them - and makes it all the more difficult for us not to be around it. He doesn't purchase it, or necessarily desire it .. he does it socially whenever it is around. I'm having a difficult time accepting this as I'm opposed to smoking. We've talked it over many times ... I have asked him not to do it around me because I do not like it but he feels I'm taking away a right he should have. Sometimes he'll go months without doing it - other times he'll do it once a week - usually never more than that. Its dependent on who we see when we go out. Its made me not interested in going out anymore because I don't want to see him smoking.

So I'm not looking for responses like "dump him" - I'm looking for an open-minded response - one that may help me learn to accept our differences.

2007-01-26 04:11:41 · 12 answers · asked by Sara B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

HE IS ALWAYS GETTING ON ME ABOUT OH YOU SHOUDL GO OUT WITH ME BECAUSE I REALLY LIKE YOU MAYBE WE CAN GO OUT SOME TIME I KEEP TELLING HIM NO BECAUSE I REALLY LIKE THIS OTHER GUY I AM TRYING TO GET WITH WHAT SHOULD I DO .............?

2007-01-26 04:11:18 · 5 answers · asked by alisha bessette 2 in Other - Family & Relationships