Am I still a virgin?

Question

if I had anal and oral?...and I had anal sex without protection...is there a problem? or ... is it dangerous? for him and for me? I hope I'm not a *****...I just had this things with my exboyfriend...I am 16...what do you say?

Answer 1

No matter what happened, if you still have your hymen you're still a virgin and the only real way to lose your virginity is to have vaginal sex. If you haven't had it, you're still a virgin. Anal sex isn't a bad thing unless you have some reason to fear HIV or AIDS in other words, is your ex bisexual or has he had any dealings with homosexuals sexually?

You're more than likely fine, I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.

Answer 2

Anal sex isn't dangerous if you use protection and lots of lube. Now if it hurts for you, then its not a good idea to continue with the anal sex, you could tear something. The main thing you have to think about it is #1 if you are using protection (condoms!!!) #2 if you are doing this because you are truly enjoying it and getting pleasure out of it and that your not being pressured from anyone (boyfriend, ex, friends, who ever!). If you are doing all the right things then you should be ok, although I do think you are kind of young to be this kind of intense relationship.

Answer 3

Technically, you are still a virgin as long as you have not had sexual intercourse. The only danger in having anal sex without protection is if your boyfriend has an std such as AIDS. In my personal opinion, 16 is a bit young to be doing these things, but that is just me.

Answer 4

I would say you're not a virgin, but you are technically you are since you haven't had vaginal sex.

YES, having anal sex - or any other form - without protection is dangerous. Having to even ask that shows that you are not mature enough to be having sex. You are young - wait!

Answer 5

STDS can still be transferred by anal. Hopefully you were both young so this shouldn't be a problem but you need to be more carefull and I recommend maturing a little bit more. As for a virgin. Yes I would say you are because you didn't break your Himen but if you lose that soon, then yes you are a *****. Slow down a bit, you still have time to save your rep

Answer 6

Anal is potentially more dangerous than vaginal intercourse. Reason being that you can rupture veins and bleed a lot in your rectum enabling the passing of STD's through your bloodstream. The fluids in your vagina will actually try to kill anything that gets inside. It's still not safe, but it is safer. Of course, then you need to worry about pregnancy which is a whole different sort of disaster.

Answer 7

anal and you're 16. that's getting a little ahead of yourself. and it could be potentially dangerous to take it in the EXIT ONLY. usually, if you do not have lube it could cause bleeding for both or you and could lead to an STD. and unprotected sex is never a good idea, unless you're trying to conceive cause exchange of fluids can cause STDs or other complications. if i were you i'd be more careful.

Answer 8

Technically, yes, your are a virgin because you haven't had vaginal sex. But in almost every opinion, you're not. Any thing deemed "sexual", including even fingering and oral, is still sex. That's not a bad thing. The only thing that matters is that you're comfortable with what you're doing.

Answer 9

Why do anal and not frontal.I think the guy is gay since he won't hit it from the front. And no...you're not a virgin!

Answer 10

well ya ur still consdered a virgin...but u should not have unprotected sex anally...u can get hiv or ne other std. so ya its very dangerous. do u enjot it?? das weird lol i never knew some1 da did anal sex 1st..but do you. just use protectioN!!!!