Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

me and my husband have been married almost a year. we have no kids, and nothing together really. he never wants to do anything with me, he is obsessed with playing video games in ALL his free time. we never go have fun. he never talks about his life with me, work or whatever. we argue alot and fight. i've tried talking to him many many times but nothing ever comes from it, ive tried to work with it but im so sick of feeling ignored and unwanted. i dont know whats wrong from his side, he never tells me anything when i ask. i dont know what to do anymore.i do love him and wish it could be worked out but neither of us are happy, and he doesnt try to work anything out. i have a chance to leave him and if i do we will probobly divorce. should we?

2007-01-26 00:06:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me married- Never in Love,Her married never in Love- She has kids...we met on line looking for friendship- we met in person and fell in Love. We talked about being together fulltime some day. Anyway,She got discovered by her husband. I have told her to go make it work at home. Figure out what she wants. She has been told by her councelor to not contact me. she still calls me. I have warned her to count the cost. She needs to work it out at home then come find me. I would be there 4 her NOW but she needs to choose. She is playing both sides. I love her enought to let her go. if I keep talking to her it is not good for me and certainly not fair to her situation at home. Was I a home wrecker? Did she ever really Love me? Will I not be true to my word if I cut off all contact?

2007-01-26 00:05:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this boy and he's been in my class at school for 2 years and I've been on the same swim team as him for 2 years. No one really knows how it all started, but I hate him! First we just sorta made fun of each other until the cracks for ruder and more personal until finally we just couldn't stand it! So a couple of days ago, my Friend A and I shook with him on it that we would be nice to each other. Naturally, we broke it at the swim team party last night. But did we really break it or not? We were really just teasing... so is that really breaking the promise? Next, he pulled up a chair and sat with me and Friend B. He was actually being nice to us, and sort of flirting! Do you think he likes me?

2007-01-26 00:04:47 · 5 answers · asked by HoTbOd sWiMmeR 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a Chinese guy and I like this Chinese girl. Bot of us is single. I am a conversative Christian. I am not sure about her religion. Anyway, some people says we look alike as if we are brothers. She is a very conservative girl. I am about 6 months older than her. I am 28 and she is 27. She knows I like her but still goes out lunch with me and she initiated talking with me and she is a shy girl. More shy than me as. One day during lunch, she told me she is married and has kids and show me a photo of a kid. Then I was sad and just laughed. When I started to believe her, she told me she was just kidding and told me in a rush 4-6 or more times she is not married. She even show hand gestures she is not married. Usually when I first know her lunch time she just eat quietly and after eating look left and right and don't dare to look ahead. Nowadays at lunch she is so talkative and dare to look and be friendly to people around her. She is a very nice girl and I love her so much.

2007-01-26 00:03:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how come so many young woman feel the need to starve themselves to be skinny im a reasonable 16 and happy with my body so is my man lol i feel sorry for these girls and wish they cud understand that being skinny isnt what lifes all about but when they keep getting bombarded with celeb diet plans and dvds what do we expect dont people realise that many young woman are killing themselves so not to be fat because they think thats what people expect of them and why dont we see slightly larger woman modelling who made a law saying that big girls cant model im so annoyed at the fact that people think fatter woman aint so hot i say the larger lady is much better than a skinned rabbit



do you think woman should be stick thin and unhappy or pudgy and bubbly

2007-01-26 00:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i m in love with a celebrity n i know that he has no such feeling..he is more like a celebrity n every grl is so much into him..i got to know him being social activist...i know we too have so many things in common n i can help in his career too..i m very younger than him n i think he has a galfren too...but i think he too likes me in some ways...last time he asked me for a night out that really made me depressed..was it just a physical thing he was looking with me or wants sth more....i m happy being his fren only too..do i have to sleep with him to maintain the frenship? can i get him that way? i m nt being able to love anyone bcoz of him..its my time to settle down n i m nt being able to decide

2007-01-26 00:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by sami 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering how they treat you

2007-01-26 00:01:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In this world there are different types of girls: slim,fat,blonde,dark hair,tall,small,stupid,smart....What's the type of girl with what a boy would like to spend his rest of his life?

2007-01-26 00:01:20 · 18 answers · asked by CrisTynutza 2 in Other - Family & Relationships