Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

I feel sad. Like he died or something. He won't stop, he laughs at me when i ask for respect. I now am going to follow through by missing family get togethers. I feel sad. Did I do the right thing? He makes fun of me and picks on me in front of other family, in front of my kids, and alone. He won't stop wrestling with my kids when they say 'stop' or 'ouch'.. and when I tell him to stop, he doesn't. When stand up for myself or my kids, he lashes out at me and calls me names like stubborn, sensitve, serious, etc. He argues with me over my decisions in life as if I owe him an explaination. I have wrote him a letter because he wont' listen to me in person. He wrote a sarasctic email back, basically saying that I am wrong (again.. sigh). So I told him that we won't be attending family functions until he can respect bounderies... Did I do the right thing. He won't give in, I am sure.. .and if he does, he will never like me again.. we were kinda close when I played by his rules..

2007-01-26 01:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi, I just had a quarrel wid my sis on a very little subject. I was searching my fav and lucky pen for a long time and then I saw HER USING THAT PEN TO WRITE, AND I SHOUTED AT HER AND TOLD HER DAT SHE WAS A THIEF. BUT LATER I FOUND MY PEN IN MY BAG. I AM FEELING GUILTY NOW. WAT TO DO?

2007-01-26 01:50:05 · 2 answers · asked by dizzy wizzy 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend has been on the pill for id say a good 5 months now and yet she still makes me use a condom every time and freaks out if i even think about not. i think its a little overkill. does anyone else do this? what can i do to convince her its ok to not use one every once in a while?

2007-01-26 01:49:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a senior in Highschool I am 18 yet I get picked on by the guys here because I am the bookworm! I thought Picking on people ended in the 5th Grade!!! what is up with them?? why they picking on me??? And what should I do to get them to leave me alone???Because a week ago my hair was past my waist. well now it is to about the middle of my back because some guy I know and dislike spit gum in my hair!!!! And they are always taking my stuff. and asking me to do their homework yet they pick on me! I am confused and need help! Because I am getting mad about this. Don't do anything to anyone And I get picked on!!!
Thanks for your answer,
Kimimila

2007-01-26 01:49:55 · 3 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

and its been hard and a struggle since then. Last week my nan was told she had lung cancer and is dying. My boyfriend of 7 years told me he does't want to b with me anymore as he's been seeing someone else. My best friend (my younger sis is going away 2 uni in sept. I know this is nothing compared to what some people have to go through, but with everything happening all at once i frankly can't cope. Will anti-depressents help. I'm only 24 and am worried that takin these may affect future jobs as I know it affects things like life insurance and national insurance payments become higher as your viewed as a higher risk. I really don't know what else 2 do. I'm normally a very logical person

2007-01-26 01:49:20 · 10 answers · asked by Maz 1 in Friends

music is strangely powerful to us...it produces a range of emotions and causes the same pleasure centres to be stimulated in your brain as taking cocaine or eating chocolate according to science....it can make us laugh, cry, have goosebumps...have a manic high,relax us,can increase or decrease our physical energy...animals and unborn babies respond to sounds even....so what does music do for you and how do you explain this amazing ability music has to affect us???

2007-01-26 01:48:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 01:47:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend was shot and he doesnt want to go to the hospital. he has 4 bullet holes he is in bad shape and he wont go .we have tried everything. and nothing has helped. we pulled out 2 bullets but hes still in pain i need all the idaes i can get. no matter how bad they are.

2007-01-26 01:47:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-26 01:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i get this fun feeling everytime i stay alongtime without making love

2007-01-26 01:46:15 · 22 answers · asked by chiko 2 in Singles & Dating

can anyone give some good suggestions on some fun, inexpesnive activities to do? i'm going to visit my girlfreind and would like to take her to do something fun, other than bowling or other cheesy stuff..
any ideas?
thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-26 01:45:41 · 6 answers · asked by mike 2 in Singles & Dating

maybe take me down the pub and buy me a drink to celebrate ?

2007-01-26 01:45:34 · 6 answers · asked by jennybuttins 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some like it in the bed,some on table,some in the garden.
Where do u like it n why? Tell us what positions are u more comfortable with while having sex ? Come on girls would like to know, some of yours as well.

2007-01-26 01:44:45 · 18 answers · asked by DJ101 3 in Singles & Dating

you never know when these kind of things would sooo come in handy!

2007-01-26 01:44:36 · 6 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

In spite of years of efforts, talking, therapy, begging, visits to the doctor for hormone level checks, and all the attention she could hope for, my wife only will give up sex for me, at best, 3 times a month. I am made to feel like she is doing me some huge favor and I am unreasonable in asking for anything more than her telling me to "hurry up" and "don't waste time trying to make me come".

We used to be a 10 times a week and orgasms-a-plenty couple. She isn't cheating on me. I have checked up very thoroughly on her.

We find ourselves at this point: she has pretty much lost all interest in sex and has no interest in trying to bring it back. She also finds it offensive if I get off on internet porn or even "take care of myself" in the shower. She will try and catch me in the act in the morning and yell at me.

I love her in every other way. Our kids are 14 and 15. I don't want to leave her but my choices are: cheat, divorce, or be miserable forever.
Which one???

2007-01-26 01:44:22 · 10 answers · asked by SuperDude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work second shift 4PM to midnight. My husband is home with our 4 children, ages 8-15. Every night my house looks like its been trashed. No one will put anything away, dishes are left with food stuck to them. I have tried "striking" but they are content to live like pigs. I clean a school, I do not feel like doing a major overhaul to my house [every night] after 8 hours of cleaning.

I have begged, pleaded, given positive feed back, etc to no avail.

2007-01-26 01:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Taners 2 in Family

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2007-01-26 01:41:46 · 21 answers · asked by barbaros1 1 in Singles & Dating

The problem that I have had though is not sometimes getting a 2nd date or something beyond a 2nd date. IS there anything I can
do to create this attraction to connect ? I have seen caucasian women with asian men together who looked like they were
beyond the 1st/2nd date stage and the asian guy was no better
looking than I. So, what am I doing wrong ???

2007-01-26 01:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

I have...and I did not feel good when I heard that...Maybe sometimes I'm too nice and guys get the wrong idea...

2007-01-26 01:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by n 5 in Singles & Dating

is it totally seperate? What about height and job? Clue me in. Thanks!!

2007-01-26 01:39:45 · 17 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Singles & Dating

There use to be a time when a man wanted to take his time getting to know you...He'd wine and dine you until he's won your heart over and then your his and his only.

Now you can barely get a cheese burger out of them lessmore a date... It's either straight to the no tell motel or his or your place and he's off for the next hunt.

I've had serveral situations like that and they usually only want to come out after 12am and you know what that's about "BTY call" they could at least bring a snack or something... and soon as it's over it's like "I gotta bounce babe!"

I flip the script one day, I invited this fella over stripped at the door and as soon as it was over, hopped up and said, "You ain't gotta go but you gots to get the hell up out of here!" as I got dressed and stood at the door. "He thought I was kidding but I wasn't, he got upset and said, "you ain't gonna hold me or nothing, we can't cuddle?" They don't like it when the shoe is on the other foot do they?

2007-01-26 01:39:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got a bf, i like him a lot but my parents dont, my mom is now being a complete b*tch with me like yells at me for anything, im always wrong, i do everything bad and she doesnt let me even go out like i did before... and i want then to accpet him... the reason that they dont like him is cuz he is isnt 100% white, he has tanned skin... (my mom is very racist, everyone in thsi country is) what can i do so my mom accepts him and leaves me alone and me not breaking up with him....?... talking doesnt work....

2007-01-26 01:39:01 · 6 answers · asked by gaby f 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

When we first got married, I was the only one who had a checking account, but I ended up putting him on mine. Well, I soon discovered how poorly he managed money, because every month we had alot less in the bank, than my checkbook register showed. I would sit for hours trying to rebalance my register, and every month I would discover that he had been using his debit card and not writing down the purchases in the check book and loosing the receipts. This habit caused us to overdraft our account more than once. Even after I took him off my account and made him get his own, he kept doing it. I can't tell you how many times we have fought and argued over him doing this. He was giving me at least 1/2 his paycheck to pay bills, but he was still overdrawing his account, so when he would go to cash his paycheck and get me the cash, the bank would first take out whatever amount he was overdrawn. He has been out of work on medical leave for 4 months, and just went back. I want to start fresh.

2007-01-26 01:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF broke up with me on Monday, for what he said was because he caught me following him & I lied about it. Yesterday, I called & asked if we could make up & he said it wasn't about the lie at all, that he didn't want the relationship. He does this to me at least once a month whenever he wants space & then he calls me a couple of days to a week later & I always take him back. He said all these things that didn't make any sense. He always wants to punish me for the things that I do, I guess to get me to not do them anymore. My question is do you think he'll come back this time, or how do I know if he's really done? What are the signs that this may just be another of his foolish games or is he really done with me? I followed him & caught him with a girl that he said was a friend of a friend but I was still willing to work things out & he left me anyway. I still love him & want to be mature enough to work this thing out. So what do you think...will he be back this time?

2007-01-26 01:37:35 · 16 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean as in totally love you more than anything else. Give you all what you want. And He's love is only for you. Even sexy naked lady come to his room, he will just ignore it and think only for your feelings.

2007-01-26 01:37:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would you feel and what would you do?? advice please

2007-01-26 01:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and if it is.. what the hell does that say about me?

2007-01-26 01:37:20 · 15 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

I saw some pictures of my gf when we first met: She's about 15 pounds lighter, smiling more and hot!

2007-01-26 01:36:26 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This man who I work with (different depts) has asked me to have dinner with him via e mail, he said he would buy. The problem is I'm not at all interested in a romantic relationship. I am 30, he is 50. This all started because we had read the same book and discussed it. We began talking occasionally and one time ate together in the work cafeteria. That is it! I simply thought we had similar interests in books, business, etc. How do I nicely reply to this man's e mail.

2007-01-26 01:34:57 · 15 answers · asked by laughalot 1 in Singles & Dating

how and when are you most likely to dominate and submit...and how and when do you refuse to dominate and submit....in any respect not just in relation to sex...;0)

2007-01-26 01:34:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating