Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

I have a fiance and we have been together for 3 years we are supposed to get married this summer. Lately I have been having second thoughts about the marriage. I sometimes feel that we are not compatible. I do love him very much but he likes to stay home and do nothing to where I like getting out there and I also want to start traveling. when I try to talk to him about my feelings he typically gets mad and wont speak to me for hours after. We also have different views on children, i am ready and he wont be for a very long time. To make a long story short I just dont think we are compatible anymore. Can someone give me advice on how to talk to him or break things off and how I can get him to really listen to me?

2007-01-26 02:41:11 · 32 answers · asked by kerra c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you break up with your GF/BF if they suspected you of cheating & snooped thru your phone?
Would you break up with your GF/BF if they suspected you of cheating & decided to follow you one day?
Would you break up with your GF/BF if they got caught following you & then lied about it but later admitted to it?
I understand that relationships have their limits but if you're significant other is suspicious & they have every right to be but you still care for them & they're willing to work things out with you, would you?

2007-01-26 02:40:43 · 12 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

they are natural with only some lipstick on.And boys would you like to kiss them?

2007-01-26 02:40:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been told theis many times

2007-01-26 02:39:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I of 3 1/2 years ago broke up. I was raped in October, and that put alot of stress on our relationship. I was upset and moody and kept alot of things to myself, because people thought I was just feeling sorry for myself all the time. But then when I didn't tell him everything, no matter what, he got mad. But other times he would tell me it's getting to repetitive, to quit repeating myself. I gave up on myself after to much stress just before Christmas. I stopped my counseling, and my bipolar medication. And now Chris has given up on me too. I have restarted my counseling and meds to get him back. To make him see that I will try again, that I didn't realize what I was doing before, like pushing him away and stuff. I have pleaded with him to come back. But instead he said we'll go on a break for a month, see eachother every 3 or 4 days, and not see or sleep with anyone of the opposite sex what so ever. I don't know what to do. Does this means he's just waiting to see if

2007-01-26 02:39:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that I can't stand up for myself??? I always get picked on and I always talk about standing up for myself but when the time comes I guess I chicken out Because I don't want to hurt anyones feelings. I don't know what to do. I am tired of being picked on but I am scared to stand up for myself in fear of hurting someone!!! What should I do???
A Senior In High School
aka
Bookworm

2007-01-26 02:38:28 · 16 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 02:37:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 02:36:41 · 16 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is seriouly hurt and there is no way to get him to the hospital hes to damn stubborn hes to annoying hes been shot really bad what should i do i will take any advice

2007-01-26 02:36:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a gurlfriend but im still in love with my ex what do i do cause i mean i love my ex with all my heart but i love my gurlfriend to.. Im so confused....

2007-01-26 02:36:23 · 9 answers · asked by kat velez 1 in Family

with one of the barmaids she left this pub and went to work in other in the town. I found text messages on his phone from her and he was sending them back ie were they would meet up for a drink.
I asked he about this said there was nothing in just friends. he said he would give up this so called freind for me. which I said YES because she flirts with him and does not care who is about even ME. all off a sudden he starts to keep his mobile phone on him yet again never lets it out of sight until last night. were I found more text meesages from her and him to her. He does not know I looked at his phone so when I asked him if he had broken his promise to me about this he said NO which I know is a lie cause I seen the text. told me I should trust him and that he would never have affair. what do you guys think please be nice cause I am very upset about this

2007-01-26 02:35:12 · 45 answers · asked by jambo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My roommate has recently got a boyfriend that I don't exactly care for.. they are always here at the house and I basically hide in my bedroom to avoid being a 3rd wheel. The thing that is bugging me is that we both go halfers on groceries, and yet he is over all the time for supper and breakfast. I don't really want to pay for him to eat. Is it reasonable to want him to chip in for groceries if he is going to be eating them all the time? Also, he brings his daughter over (not my roommates kid) and I just think it is weird.. I like kids, but don't exactly wanting them running around the house (our place isn't a damn daycare)... are these things that I should just get over? or should I talk to my roommate about it? If you think I should talk to her, can you give me ideas about what to say? Thanks.

2007-01-26 02:34:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance was really depressed yesterday and I have no idea why. I want to do something nice for him today and suprise him with something. What can I do to cheer him up? i thought about sending him flowers, but I think that is more of a girl thing. Please help me with an idea.

2007-01-26 02:34:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a good time..on the way home we saw a "nice deer" right near our home...we were driving real slow and he said he was coming back to kill it...i tooted the horn so it would run away and oh my gosh he blew up...i have seen him mad before but i think this was the worst...he said F.... you and everything... he gets out of the car and throws his glass and liquor bottle at the side of the trailer and puts a whole in the siding...was i that much of a bi....ch to do what i did... i mean he was drunk and he did not need to be driving with a gun to shoot a deer illegally -not even being deer season anymore and to at night....was i so wrong

2007-01-26 02:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I remember that a punishment in school when the boys, or girls were acting up, was to seat us, or line us up, boy-girl-boy-girl.

I dunno if this is a good practice, and thinking of the awkwardness when I sought a girlfriend a few years later, I'm sure that didn't help.

2007-01-26 02:32:36 · 12 answers · asked by Benjamin W 3 in Singles & Dating

If i like a guy i keep it to myself,even though it drives me insane inside. I like this guy and he is the first guy i am attracted to that i feel i can still speak to and not freak out.I feel comfortable is what i am saying. Something about him makes me comfortable. In the past i have liked men and stopped talking to them altogether. But with him i could talk forever. I can sometimes be a bit standoffish because i am shy and i want to overcome this. He probably thinks i couldn't care less about him but he's on my mind 24/7. how do i overcome my shyness and how do i know if he's thinking of me 24/7.

2007-01-26 02:32:30 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

in front of a crowd of strangers, than in front of the person they fantasize about and have them laugh at you?

2007-01-26 02:32:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i get my boyfriend for v-day

2007-01-26 02:31:27 · 3 answers · asked by BRAT09 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 02:31:26 · 6 answers · asked by namrata 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-26 02:30:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

should I then stop collecting phone #s from other women?

I mean, thats a pretty drastic life style change for me!

2007-01-26 02:30:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i havent talked to my mom or my dad in over 7months and me and my fiancee are about to get married!Well i have been wanting to spend some time with my mom and get close to her like i used to be.but me and my fiancee has been argueing alot. i dont know if i should marry tis guy or not.i mean weve been rgueing alot and we cant even talk w/o argueing and im not even in my state.im in Tn and i was born and raised in GA.i hav no friends what so ever or nothing!! please help me but i dont want alot of people answering my problem. not over 15 people ok thanxz!!!

2007-01-26 02:30:04 · 4 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Weddings

2007-01-26 02:29:57 · 10 answers · asked by poppins5456 1 in Singles & Dating

something interesting or unusual about yourself?

2007-01-26 02:29:01 · 13 answers · asked by SONNY_D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 02:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by vikram m 1 in Family

my sister will be 16 in the beginning of march. i hadn't been around for a few years but now we're talking and getting along fabulously. she's coming across state to see me at the end of febuary and i want to get her something special for her birthday showing her i care for her but also something she'd like. i know i'm giving her a poem i wrote... see below to read it and comment on that if you will. but what else would she like or any suggestions whatsoever?

2007-01-26 02:28:07 · 6 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family

Please, I need to find the cheapest way to find a dead beat dad. He is over $20,000 behind in his child support. The child support place doesn't seem like they want to help and they won't tell me where he is. My girls would like to know where he is so they can talk to him and find out what is going on with him. They are 15 & 16 yrs old and haven't seen or heard from him since they were 2 & 3. Any advice?

2007-01-26 02:27:50 · 14 answers · asked by DawnC36 2 in Family

2007-01-26 02:27:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you let them make fun of you now and then. If you let them laugh at you. Why is it that when you stand up for yourself you lose them. These people are supposed to be family...

2007-01-26 02:27:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Story in a nutshell: My daughter's birth father left the state (MI) and went to Georgia when my daughter was 6 months old. I initiated a child support case within a week of him leaving town.

Since then, some child support was sent (wages garnished, liens were placed on a couple of his tax refunds). It was barely enough to cover half her day care for a month let alone anything else....! Last payment we received was in 2002.

Since then, I tried to locate him but couldn't, and the GA Child Support Enforcement agency could not locate him either. He owes us about $16.5K. No attempt on his part has been made to contact us in over 5 years.

Well, he popped out of the woodwork recently and got in touch with me. He is still in GA and wants to reinstate his child support, claiming he has "matured" and wants to have contact with "his daughter". Needless to say, I have not welcomed him with happy open arms. He claims I am being difficult but I really don't want my daugher hurt..(continued)

2007-01-26 02:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by Rach 3 in Marriage & Divorce