i havent talked to my mom or my dad in over 7months and me and my fiancee are about to get married!Well i have been wanting to spend some time with my mom and get close to her like i used to be.but me and my fiancee has been argueing alot. i dont know if i should marry tis guy or not.i mean weve been rgueing alot and we cant even talk w/o argueing and im not even in my state.im in Tn and i was born and raised in GA.i hav no friends what so ever or nothing!! please help me but i dont want alot of people answering my problem. not over 15 people ok thanxz!!!
2007-01-26 02:30:04 · 4 answers · asked by peaches 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you have serious doubts about this wedding, don't go through it. It sounds like you've lost your sense of self, like you're living in transition and don't have a firm standing anywhere. Take some time to get YOU grounded, and then think about getting married. Spending time with your folks will certainly help.
2007-01-26 02:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to talk to your family for one. Secondly, a lot of couples argue a lot during the wedding planning, but I get the feeling it's more than that. If so, maybe some "time off" would be a good idea. If you can, go home for a visit-that'll help on both ends of the problem.
If you're seriously having doubts, at least postpone the wedding. Once you're married, there's no easy way out. In fact, it's very difficult.
2007-01-26 03:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. breath in and then breath out..
This is all normal. Its normal to be scared, first of all u are about to get into a relationship that will be a forever... everything changes after marriage and trust me he is as scard as u are. You have moved, u don't know anybody so it's normal for u to be upset and he is probably upset cuz he can't do anything to fix u'r problems.
Talk to him about how u are missing u'r family. Tell him u want to spend some time with them cuz after u are married all u'r time will be for him (butter him up, I do that with my hubby and it always works.) Spend some time with his family, it will make him happy and u'r sacrifice will pay out in the long run...
Just smile and breath in and out. Congratulations and I hope u guys can work it out.
2007-01-26 02:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by This is life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, talk to your family. Family's are forever. If you can not love your family or yourself, how can you love anybody else? Give in, make contact, you will be glad you did, really.
2007-01-26 02:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋