What makes a couple divorce after a previous long loving story?

Answer 1

I'll tell you what I rhink. A "loving story" not necessaryly is a Love Story. So many times we aren't honest in our relationships, and we hide a lot of things about our personality, what we like and what we dislike, we put up with each other when something bothers us thinking that we will be fine. Romance before marriage is so often unreal, we want to impress our other half, so we have to be fake.
Once we don't have to impress anybody, the relity come to the surface, and then we say things like "that's the way I am, if you like it fine, if you don't, you just say it" and that is the end of dreams and romance.
We need to be wiser and more honest in our relationships, and realize that marriage is a commitment, it is not like a job, that you can quit any time you want. When we marry, we make promises, what hapens then with our honor and intrgrity? Well, it seems like we let it go down the drain. It doesn't need to be this way.
So when someone marries and there are things you wouldn't be willing to live with about your "future" spouse, don't think that with love and patience you will change him/her. The change has to come from within, not from the outside.
Take care. God Bless.

Answer 2

A couple will divorce after a long lasting love if they fail to communicate their feelings, desires, and love towards one another. By love for one another, they both must give and take from their partner, share and compromise. My late neighbors retired in the 1960's after 45 years of marriage they moved into a retirement village in the early 90's after 75 years of marriage. After the lady died the man lived another couple more years. Before he died I asked him how he managed to live and love the same person all this time. He said,"We talked every day to each other. We listened to the other. And lastly, we never tried to change the other." Words to live by , if not at least to think about. She lived to 97, he lived to 101. Best wishes and good luck

Answer 3

Well, obviously each situation is different, but there are a number of factors that can cause a couple to divorce. For example, they were too young when they got married, one cheats on the other, they weren't right for each other, or sometimes people just get bored with each other. Lastly, sometimes people want different things out of life, and they need to split to accomplish their goals.

Answer 4

The kids have finally left the house. And the man wakes up and realizes he is in the twilight of his life and has not done anything yet and is tired of playing make believe. So he tries to explain it to his wife and she doesn't get it and thinks it is all about her so he is forced to go off on his own because she just doesn't understand what he meant and that he wanted her to come climb all those mountains with him but she doesn't want to leave the grand kids and now he must go alone because she won't allow him to go back to playing make believe

Answer 5

alot of marriages now days cant survive the stress of two jobs, money issues, cheating and everything that goes on. there is no communication and they just grow apart, and instead of staying and fighting for the marriage they choose to give up and divorce.

Answer 6

Once the kids are moved out, a common connection is removed and a couple ca grow apart if they don't reconnect.

Answer 7

They lose focus and needs go unforfilled. A need can be anything from respect, activities together, admiration, sex and so on, once those needs aren't filled it isn't hard to see how easy it is to drift apart.

Answer 8

there are many reasons; but the main one is that we dont live in that house so we dont know what goes one behind closed doors.

if they divorce, there's a good reason.

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Answer 9

means that people have changed, and someone has been lying..
it doesn't go from long and loving to divorce..

Answer 10

Someone thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence.