If i like a guy i keep it to myself,even though it drives me insane inside. I like this guy and he is the first guy i am attracted to that i feel i can still speak to and not freak out.I feel comfortable is what i am saying. Something about him makes me comfortable. In the past i have liked men and stopped talking to them altogether. But with him i could talk forever. I can sometimes be a bit standoffish because i am shy and i want to overcome this. He probably thinks i couldn't care less about him but he's on my mind 24/7. how do i overcome my shyness and how do i know if he's thinking of me 24/7.
2007-01-26 02:32:30 · 8 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie, i understand, i always felt strange talking to guys too. ok so i did this maybe it will help you. v. day is coming soon , write something like ( you know i really like you and cupid says... we need to get to know eachother better!) have a friend give him the card. then blow him a kiss when you see him to seal the deal. whatever happends at least you have let him know you would not mind getting closer. good luck and GOD BLESS.
2007-01-26 02:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by reann4239 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a hypothetical situation and judge his response.
"So if we were dating......(come up with a scenario and question for him)" Or use some other couple as an example and put that situation back on the two of you.
"So if we were dating, would you want to ever adopt a kid from namibia like brad and angelina?" Granted that's stupid, but you can apply that to your own situation.
At the very least, this will get him thinking about it.
2007-01-26 10:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him some flowers and on the card say you want to have a blind date at the movies,bar or something. That would flip him out he will luv it
2007-01-26 10:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear you have to speak try some general conversation like Hi how are you and talk about school work or anything just a little conversation since you like him this much
2007-01-26 10:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by john t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A smile and a friendly hi is all that is needed. Be a good listener. He will let you know eventually how he feels.
2007-01-26 10:38:45 · answer #5 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
24/7 is a ludicrous phrase...plus, there are times that you are not even aware of what or if you are thinking.
2007-01-26 10:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move and talk to him. Ask him if he wanted to go out... I love when girls ask me out!
2007-01-26 10:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by walkingdeath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him talk to him about it. tell him how you feel about him and go from there. good luck
2007-01-26 10:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋