Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

2007-01-26 03:11:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There’s one thing going around and around in my head and I can’t quite seem to figure it out. Based upon what people have been telling me all this time, I understand that there are a really neat people in my life…… like they are always trying to help other people, they have said that it is absolutely necessary that I ask questions on yahoo and answer them. So here is my question: What is most important……………. to get up from my desk and walk down toward to the front of the office and announce to everyone else that I am totally nuts…… or, on the other hand, to spend the rest of my life doing the best I can in order to be crazy………. you know, to live, to think and act like a nutcase? What do you think?

2007-01-26 03:10:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been friends with and in love with this young lady for years, and we lost touch for a few years but she and I have started talking again and haning out. The problem is that I still have those feeling of love for her and I mean real love not get you in the bed love. Now she is in a relationship, but I think she still has those feelings for me as well. What do I do? How do I tell her with out messing up our freindship?

2007-01-26 03:10:33 · 2 answers · asked by The Teacher 2 in Singles & Dating

My kids are 9 nearly 10 and 6 nearly 7,eldest is a girl and the other is a boy. My problem is when they get on there great but when they don't it's like all out war-fare! There both driving me nuts as there both taurians (typical ones) and i'm getting to the end of my tether and don't know what to do. I've tried keeping them apart in there own rooms but then next minute they want to go in eachothers rooms and it starts up again! My daughter was very ill as a baby and because of this has a very short fuse and can lash out to which my son can wind her up and make her worse then he wonders why she does! The illness my daughter had was mengicocal septecemia(hope i've spelt it right) which anyone who has it is a victim to it luckily my daughter came away with learning difficulties etc ,but i see that as no excuse as to why they are like this towards eachother. But my son does act beyond his years as sometimes i feel there ages are reversed.

2007-01-26 03:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by sez75 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you do in your new body? How would you dress?

2007-01-26 03:10:15 · 9 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 03:09:57 · 9 answers · asked by Manjit 1 in Weddings

2007-01-26 03:09:56 · 21 answers · asked by angbsbluver_fan_5 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 6 ft tall and weight 190 pounds, that is not fat. But why I have big fat face with lots and lots of fat? That makes me look even uglier. Even if I lose weight, my face's fat is still there.

2007-01-26 03:09:48 · 15 answers · asked by lol 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been gong out for just 1 and a half months and already im starting to mess things up. so much has happened to her in her life and all i want to do is help her. But when she is upset or depressed all i do is make things worse, i say all the wrong things, and none of the right ones. I myself never know what to say in these situations and always say the wrong things, i try to say what i feel but it doesnt work that way. She has asked me what was wrong a few times when i was depressed and i said nothing, she found out and now i know she doesnt trust me, im so worried im going to loose her and thats not what i want, she is everything to me and ill do anything to improve myself, any help greatly appreciated, thanks

2007-01-26 03:09:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im in school and my bf goes to a different school than me.....I want to send him a cute text message to let him know that im thinking about him.......what is something cute that i can send him?????? I just want to make him smile!!!

2007-01-26 03:08:09 · 14 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is in the process of separating from the dad of her 2 children (2 year old and a 1-year old). She is not getting along with him and does not want the kids to see their dad (he's been an ******...not to thekids but to her)..and whenever they meet they argue.

What in experts view is good for hte kids? That they don#t witness an argument between their parents or would it be better not to see their dad until the situation is settled between the two?

Also...if parents argue...do children as little as 2 to 3 year olds kinda understand something wrong is going on? Can it leave emotional scars?

2007-01-26 03:08:06 · 2 answers · asked by modernlifeisrubbish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she have to have if anything,any body know?

2007-01-26 03:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by kmgabbard07 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a job offer in a city about 3 hours away. It would mean a big pay increase, which would be great for us. My mom is giving me an awful guilt trip. How can I get her to be supportive instead of "I guess I'll just pray hard that you won't move". I mean, come on, it's only 3 hours away. She's making me nuts. How can she be so selfish instead of glad we have this opportunity? Any suggestions how to make her understand that this is a good thing?

2007-01-26 03:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by Lotus 6 in Family

all we ever do at home is just watch movies, and its really boring for me.my man is always tired from work, but also he needs to make time for me and his son. were at home all the time. thats really boring for a 21 year old girl. so hes 27, is he gettimg to old 4 me.. what should i do

2007-01-26 03:07:00 · 16 answers · asked by glitter girl 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this boi that i've known for almost 6months i went out with him for like 3, then we broke up due to problems he was facing and didnt want me to get caught up in. I miss him so much after the break up i didnt talk 2 him for 2 weeks cause i didnt kno why we broke up, I thought he just did'nt want to be with me. But anyway i called him by mistake and hung up and he called me back saying he miss talkin to me and even though where not 2gether he still wants to talk to me. So after that we've been talking. Gettin to my problem during some of our convos hes been saying that he misses me and expressing his feelings but he hasn't ask me back out, He still calls me baby or whatever. the other night i went to see him with my friend and she was tryin to hook us up but i wasnt letting him get a word in when she was askin him questions about us. I wanna get back with him i don't wanna wait until its to late to tell him this i want him to kno that i crave him.What should i Do

2007-01-26 03:06:22 · 5 answers · asked by Tjmaxx is my world 1 in Singles & Dating

My soon to be exhusband and I have been together for 4 and a half years. We have a beautiful baby girl. Well 5 months ago he decided he wanted me to go back home with my parents. He said we needed space and since he has been talking to his ex fiancee. We have had a lot of problems over the last year. He told me that he is willing to give her a chance but not me. I want him back and I dont know how to get him back. Please help.

2007-01-26 03:05:41 · 24 answers · asked by mommyof1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Boyfriend's ex had been calling him since last yr, & this yr paid him a visit. I didnt find out until she came, & spent the night at his place where some intimacy occured . He confessed 2me the following day when she left & promised it wouldnt happen again but he had 3keep housing her until he got her bearing in this town(she plans to relocate). This week He told me she was coming 2day, he wanted us to be friends etc, & I said I'd try to be nice. Yesterday he didnt show up and when I called him his phone was ded. I called this morning & in the course of the conversation i find out that she came in yesterday, they even went to my house to visit my brother's family with her and didnt come to see me at my office which is 3 minutes away from my house! He says they'll come together to visit me at home after work (9pm), like I'm a nobody!! I feel he should have told me she came earlier, I dont like being taken off guard. What do I do when I see them? I dont even want to see them!

2007-01-26 03:05:23 · 13 answers · asked by blueheartz 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you do if you are a brother and see your sister with a different guy every week?

2007-01-26 03:05:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if this guy is really cute but but he needs a make over in everything should i go out with him for who he is and get made fun of or get him a upgrade and have the finest guy in school?

2007-01-26 03:04:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iv been getting close to this guy that i like and lately when we start talking he always grabs my arms and speaks right into my face.this isnt the first time either and now we always end up mucking about and laughing .does this mean he likes me too???

2007-01-26 03:04:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The wife's great, but she's really tired lately with the kids. She's kind, beautiful and really appreciates romance.

I'm usually pretty good at this but would love your ideas.

Thanks.

2007-01-26 03:04:11 · 19 answers · asked by Yowza! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okey i have a boy friend from another state and me and him r in perrty good relationship so far, but it came to this day when he actally ask's me to pay his ''phone bill'' well of course he dont have a job, and i had never in my life met a boy that ask's there gurl friends for money and that day wat was going to my mind was damn'' he actally asked me even thow i never payed my owns mom or dads bill he really did ask me.. well i did and now her wants me to pay for his bus ticket for him to come to visit me and now i dont know wat to do so should i just stop because i think i've weasted money on him and he had bought me stuff but still he keeps on asking so i think if i dont stop now he will keep on asking me....

2007-01-26 03:03:43 · 7 answers · asked by *@FricanQueeN* 1 in Friends

I recently had back surgery and am unable to do much. My boyfriend is the one that takes care of almost everything, from cleaning the house to punishing my girls by wanting to make them cry. Before doing some research myself, I wasn't very nice either (yelling, spanking, and threatening to harm them physically). It is almost as if I were competing with my boyfriend as to who should be the more dominant parent. I just want my kids to respect me and my rules and not grow to hate my boyfriend ,out of fear of his deep voice yelling in there face. NOTE: He has never touched them in a harmful manner. I just feel like I'm loosing it, their respect that is, because of letting him take over especially since we've only been together 8 months. Although he is tired of hearing me yell at them, which I'm now working on that on my behalf, but what do I do about my boyfriend not feeling respected because I question his methods? He says that I am underminding his decision, I don't feel he's right!HELP

2007-01-26 03:03:14 · 24 answers · asked by corcett 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ladies: How do you define a hot man? Here are some categories or make some of your own! We are only talking about the physical characteristics of a man that you find really hot.

1.) Buff or athletic tone but not too good looking like football players/wrestlers/basketball players/etc

2.) Buff but very good looking like Brad Pitt/Tom Cruise/etc.

2007-01-26 03:02:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my friend asked out this girl. And he thinks shes perfect. Not only in the looks but her personality. But one day when she came to school in flip flops, he was shocked. He saw that she has crooked toes. And now hes thinking about breaking up with her just becuase her toes arent straight. Is that right??.. I kept telling him that i thought he only liked her about her personality. Does it even matter if a girl has crooked toes?? I feel sorry for her

2007-01-26 03:01:48 · 18 answers · asked by little one 2 in Friends

There is a girl who is all over my fiancee when I'm not around, and then doesn't touch him when I am around. What would you do?

2007-01-26 03:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend just had a baby boy in oct. but unfortunately we have had a rocky relationship.when he went away to school i would drive up and visit him or get him and take him back when he wanted to come home, when i moved away he moved away with me. we break up and get back together all the time. but the bads of this realtionship are, he cheated on me while i was pregnant, he cheated on me through out our relationship, he put his hands on me once and i took out a PFA on him to teach him a lession, when he lived with me he mooched off of me so i sent him home and broke up with him, when i moved back to my home town we got back together and i got pregnant that month. i love him more than i ever thought i could ever love someone and he obviously loves me too but i dont trust him.but since he was there for my labor he changed for the good, but then i went thru his phone cuz i dont trust him and he let me know he took my ring back, which i didnt knw he was goin to propose christmas.

2007-01-26 03:01:18 · 7 answers · asked by foxzie006 3 in Singles & Dating

wants to have sex anymore and i want it every day!!! why is this its like i have to force him to do it!? what the hell is that about and how do i get him to pay more attention to me he wont listen to what i have to say?!

2007-01-26 03:01:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Mine is tomorrow and I am going to be 39....Boo Hooo....

2007-01-26 03:00:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with him for 8 months.
&& hes going czy talking about kids.
marriage. FUTURE...

i dont even know if were gonna last!!!

i hate this. cuz i have a feeling that by the i wanna leave him, it gonna be so hard for him....

what should i do?

2007-01-26 02:59:32 · 16 answers · asked by miichellee 1 in Singles & Dating