okey i have a boy friend from another state and me and him r in perrty good relationship so far, but it came to this day when he actally ask's me to pay his ''phone bill'' well of course he dont have a job, and i had never in my life met a boy that ask's there gurl friends for money and that day wat was going to my mind was damn'' he actally asked me even thow i never payed my owns mom or dads bill he really did ask me.. well i did and now her wants me to pay for his bus ticket for him to come to visit me and now i dont know wat to do so should i just stop because i think i've weasted money on him and he had bought me stuff but still he keeps on asking so i think if i dont stop now he will keep on asking me....
2007-01-26 03:03:43 · 7 answers · asked by *@FricanQueeN* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Don't send him any more money. He's just using you! You should tell him that if he needs money he needs to find him a job. Then when he gets some money, he can come and see u. Or what if he moved to your state. Then he could look for a job. Paying that bill just showed him that he can use you. You need to be treated better than that. If any thing, he should be paying or buying something for u! I don't feel that ladies should be buying men anything unless the want to. He shouldn't have asked u to do that for him. If your not married to him or plan on getting married to him, then you need to love him from a distance. That's your hard earned money, you spend it on something that u choose to buy, or u can even save it, that's how people get broke. KEEP YOUR MONEY, It's Not Worth IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-01-26 03:24:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is you need to ask yourself if you can see dating a guy that doesn't have a job. It's not a matter of how many times he is going to ask you to pay for his bills but how long he's going to be doing that. Tell him to get a job.
2007-01-26 03:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by atgilleland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not really sure what to say about this. I hope you are not out of high school yet, because your spelling and grammar is horrible.
That's a decision that only you can make. If the bus ticket is reasonably cheap and you really want to see him, then buy it.
2007-01-26 03:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Natedogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's he doing with all of his money?? If you decide to help him, specify to him that you expect to be paid back and give him a date when the money is due. In my opinion, though, if you loan money to someone, you should never expect to get it back, just in case.
2007-01-26 03:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by jframeisu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best you stop now before getting to the dead end and have bigger problems.
2007-01-26 03:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend you money on classes to improve your spelling and grammar.
2007-01-26 03:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO
2007-01-26 04:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by 0110111001101111 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋