Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

my g/f and i have been dating for about 4 and a half yrs, she's 29, im 22 and a half. About 2 weeks ago she informed me that she was preg and will be keeping the baby. she was on the pill the whole time we were dating (allegedly) so i never used a condom or any other type of birth control. i have a few reasons why i think she got preg on purpose the main one being that i ran into a friend of hers yesterday who congratulated me and said she was happy for us b/c "she knew how much my g/f wanted a baby" which was news to me! i just graduated from college and have a good job now and my g/f has been out of college for 7 yrs so financially this isnt a problem, i just am in no way ready to be a dad b/c of the huge change that bringing a child into the world will have on someone's life. just a few month ago she and i were talking about how neither one of us is ready for marriage yet so that isnt an option. on top of this, my mom is gonna kill me! any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanx.

2007-01-26 03:56:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 03:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by Lakecia S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 03:55:23 · 4 answers · asked by Husain F 2 in Friends

im 12 years old and i want to practice making out on somthing what should i practice on because i want to to feel really real like its a guy help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-26 03:54:13 · 12 answers · asked by Aidan S 1 in Singles & Dating

He was 23 and she 37 at the time. Now he's 31 and shes 44 she has two daughters from a previous relationship that are 2 and 4 years younger than him. This woman is a sweetheart, but for the sake of being nice, very unattractive. She is now a Grandma, and he has confided in having feeling of cheating on her. Not with me, but just cheating in general. Is this the natural progression of wide age gaps in men? Or is it something else? She treats him like god, and lets him have all the freedom he wants, she is faithful and good to him.

2007-01-26 03:54:07 · 3 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I LOVE cutting my man's nails.

And he always looks at me sooo ~deep~ and he was like "wanting-to-hug-me-so-badly" kinda look.

It makes me love doin' it even more.

2007-01-26 03:52:30 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

she goes with this dude and he's 19. on the side she has a friend that really likes her and he's 16. every body is telling her that she should go with the 16 year old because she's 15 and I don't know what to tell her, so can somebody tell me something plz.

2007-01-26 03:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Who you ask? My butt cheeks! hehe

2007-01-26 03:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Knowitall 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 03:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by sweetangle 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 03:50:58 · 6 answers · asked by caryL 1 in Singles & Dating

Move to different state she had a baby,it was just crazy.

2007-01-26 03:50:44 · 4 answers · asked by SMILEY 1 in Singles & Dating

WHATS THE LENGTH A PERSON WHO WAS IN LOVE TAKE TO BE NOT IN LOVE AGAIN IN WEKKS MONTHS YEARS PLS TY

2007-01-26 03:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by lovetwosweat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend has been going out for 4 yrs and we have a 4 month girl and for the sake of the child I think that she should grow up in the household with 2 parents because I never had that second parent in my life,do you think that we should be together for the child

2007-01-26 03:49:55 · 29 answers · asked by so fly girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy at school who I've found attractive ever since the first day I saw him. I mean, extremely attractive. However, I know nothing about him! I would like to strike up conversation somehow, but I'm not sure how to do it. I'm not looking to ask him out, I just want to get to know him a little bit. I'm not very confident when talking to guys (never had a decent date, let alone a boyfriend), so I'm clueless! Thanks for any help!

2007-01-26 03:49:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I'm a confident girl. I consider myself pretty, attractive and has a good personality. I like to make my man laugh, do little things to make him smile when he's in bad mood. I am a good listener, I give some great useful -necessary-advice but not TOO MUCH! I always make my conversation with my man interesting. I like to make him curious all the time. I play naughty yet funny, sexy but not b*tchy. I'm fun-loving! I Act like a baby sometimes but not irritating yet very cute that can make him smile and tickle his heart every time. I always tell him straight what I want, for example: I'd say "I want to eat Chinese food! i sooo want!" then do my little naughty face!.

What Do you think?


Whatever.. just make him fall in love with you every single day! never get tired and bored of you!!

2007-01-26 03:48:28 · 30 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 03:47:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i am currently working as a part time nanny form 3-6 pm
I love the family and their son to death, they are awesome people but i got a full time job offer from another family full time working 55 hours a week. How can i brake the news to them without hurting them, i know they said a million time that they don't ever want to loose me as a their babysitter, so now i kinda feel so bad and guilty.
PLEASE HELP i would really appreciate it
THANKD!

2007-01-26 03:46:57 · 17 answers · asked by bcb 1 in Family

Is it true that most women have "one true love" in their lives, one man they fell head over heels in love with and can never forget?

2007-01-26 03:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my BF and i are in love frome the day we both became 8 and we are BF & GF since 4 years and 1 week ago we was telling each other how much we love each other but after 10 m it turned into a fight over how love the other more and it just became big and i said you know we don't love each other (i was saying that just to make things go dawn) but he said you know what we don't that make me so angry so i just left and we didn't talk since then what sould i do we really love each other he tried to call me 4 tims i missed it 2 times and the other 2 times i let the answer machin take it really i need to know what to do?

2007-01-26 03:46:07 · 12 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

i would like to know complete details on my personolity, personal life, luck , business, starting new adventure, kids etc

2007-01-26 03:45:30 · 5 answers · asked by S.R.MURTHY N 1 in Singles & Dating

Does the mother (primary custdoy) have to let child go with the grandparent. We are in Texas.

2007-01-26 03:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by jocila826 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister who is 14 met a man on holiday aged 27. He kissed her twice but no-one saw. I have been keeping it a secret from our parents for months and eventually now they know. My sister says she is in love with him but I'm scared for her. I'm scared she will run away or do something stupid like that. He smokes and can barely speak english. He has made a pervy joke with her, it is getting serious what can I do?

2007-01-26 03:44:37 · 39 answers · asked by samara c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am twenty-two years old and is a virgin. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months without sex. My girlfriend had had a boyfriend before she met me, and they broke up. I can feel that we are about to have s_x very soon, and I am just curious if my girlfriend is still a virgin. How do you know if your girlfriend/wife is a virgin or not (without asking her). (Assuming that she and I are willing to have s-x).

2007-01-26 03:44:02 · 3 answers · asked by funguy 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your advice?

2007-01-26 03:43:05 · 19 answers · asked by Amy R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep looking but my girlfriend says they are in her head.

2007-01-26 03:42:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-I sent my brother an email to establish bounderies since he won't listen in person. (he tends to blame me instead resepcting my bounderies)
-he writes me back a 'I guess I am bad person... I'll try to be better' email
-I write him back and say, 'Don't be hard on yourself, but I am surprised and glad that you heard me!'
-then he writes back 'uh, that was sarcasm'.... how would you take that email?

2007-01-26 03:42:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my brother seems to think that I am over serious, over senstive, over protective... anytime I say something he doesn't like, he retaliates with telling me I am one of those things. If I tell him not to be so rough with my kids, I am over protective. If I say STOP IT, then I am a b-i-t-c-h. It's like he's starting to live in my head. Even when he is not there.. I hear the critism.... What should I do. I can't talk to him about it or I am being a high maintence woman? What to do?

2007-01-26 03:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

who did it
when
how old
where
did they report it or
did they get caught
how long
did they have help is she okay now
will she ever get over it?
are you still there for her?

2007-01-26 03:40:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-26 03:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by deeksha 1 in Family

2007-01-26 03:39:37 · 5 answers · asked by Honest Injun 4 in Singles & Dating