There is this guy at school who I've found attractive ever since the first day I saw him. I mean, extremely attractive. However, I know nothing about him! I would like to strike up conversation somehow, but I'm not sure how to do it. I'm not looking to ask him out, I just want to get to know him a little bit. I'm not very confident when talking to guys (never had a decent date, let alone a boyfriend), so I'm clueless! Thanks for any help!
2007-01-26 03:49:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to me you can do nothing but improve your chances by talking to someone whether it be a guy or a girl. If there's a situation where you're standing in the same lunch line, or have some sort of similarity point it out, and then just go from there. The important thing is not to think about it too much because then you get all scrambled in your head, just let it be natural, he'll appreciate the fact that some random girl is talking to him regardless of what you say.
2007-01-26 03:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Packin it up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youhave to find a "hook" - know what class he is in? Talk about class - something funny - make him laugh and walk away....
If he does something funny - call him a dork, or clutz "nice move" or other comment.
Comment on his clothes - but not a compliment! If you say "nice pants" it has to be sarcastic. If you want him to remember you, be memorable - negative is fine - he will try to get back and initiate the next contact.
2007-01-26 03:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by Slim Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone I know has someting to talk about regarding the Internet. There is something out there for all. Talk about myspace, Windows, Macs, etc. I found that works sometimes
2007-01-26 04:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by mrfrudd2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start a conversation just start talking about merely anything. This will indeed lead to some type of a relationship by your communication.
2007-01-26 03:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be constantly available and needy. you can have other plans sometimes when he asks you out. don't sit by the phone (don't do it anyway, it's not worth it... there are other things to do besides sitting and waiting for some dumb guy). don't have sex on the first second or evnen 6th date. i don't think this is playing "hard to get" really -- it's about having your own life outside of a relationship. too many young girls these days are all clingy and live for their guy... and they are missing out on being productive in other ways. take care
2016-03-29 03:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what does he think of the local weather, the school,,anything to break the ice.
2007-01-26 04:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by demilspencer@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out what he likes, and talk about it..
2007-01-26 04:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by shorty21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG
2007-01-26 03:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by OMG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋