Guys, how do you know if your girlfriend/wife is a virgin without asking her?

Question

I am twenty-two years old and is a virgin. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months without sex. My girlfriend had had a boyfriend before she met me, and they broke up. I can feel that we are about to have s_x very soon, and I am just curious if my girlfriend is still a virgin. How do you know if your girlfriend/wife is a virgin or not (without asking her). (Assuming that she and I are willing to have s-x).

Answer 1

I see that this question is directed to men, excuse me for answering.

There is noooo way a man can tell without hearing it directly from the womans mouth. If you've been together five months, you shouldn't feel disrespectful to simply ask her what it is you'd like to know. This is sex you're talking about here, virginity is only a tiny part of the questions you should be asking each other. ( How about your most recent AIDS tests, and important questions related to such).

If you really don't want to ask, for whatever reasons you may have, you should just listen to her closely, I'm sure in day to day conversation, she will drop comments insinuating whether or not she's experienced. Just listen closely.

Whatever the case, I'm sure you will find out before y'all do the do. When it's a woman's first time, I think she would make that known to her partner, particularly in respect to taking it easy.
Virgin or not, we are usually pretty good at articulating what we want and need. She'll drop hints if she doesn't come out and just say it. Pay attention.

lol Enjoy...

Answer 2

its normal to feel like you do at your age- even if you think you are the only one who feels like that! When I was 18 the thought of sex made me feel ill...but then i had sex and all was fine! I used to really worry about being naked- and about feeling embarrassed over orgasms and not really knowing what to do etc but it all was fine in the end because i was with somebody who i loved for several months before we had sex (we have now been married many years and have children) though we were not married. Definately dont have sex with somebody outside a relationship- this would spoil your chances of a very special relationship with a girl. There are lots of lovely girls feeling the same as you and you just need to find one of them. I doubt there is a young girl who would be put off by your concerns- its most likely to make them like you more! Just give it time0- i know lots of peole have sex very young, but you are still young at 18 its not uncommon!

Answer 3

it does not matter and even if she is it is difficult to tell sometimes --- so forget about it and concentrate on the important thing --- your relationship