2007-01-26 03:47:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was on the other end of that. I was always very friendly with my crush, but never asked her out. Why? She was always talking about other guys, so I figured she only liked me as a friend, and I'd mess up the relationship if I asked her out. By the time we graduated, she hated me because I never asked her out!
Maybe you're somehow sending some kind of signal that you're unavailable. If you want to go out with him, ask him out!
2007-01-26 03:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by gamblin man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of reasons on why some guys dont ask out girls even though the signs are there and its obvious he likes you but ask yourself this, When your around him, do you feel connected like do you two share the same vibes as you precieve.
eg, eyecontact: when you two talk is he looking directly in your eyes or around the room, is all his attention focused on you?
Talking: When the two of you talk is he interested in what you have to say.
Jelous: is he jelous when you talk to other guys.
Flirt: He may seem like a nice guy but that can be just part of his personality, Does he tend to talk to alot of girls and talk sweet?
Player: Sometimes a guy that talks sweet can be a player, he is so use to the game and he knows what a lady likes to hear so he talks sweet? He loves the attention of other girls?
These are all things you have to consider before you ask the question does he like me?
If you considerd those and he seems like hes only into you and you just feel the connection then you can start approching him in a different way like: normally you would end the conversation on the phone with a bye. But because you guys show deep feelings for each other and its so obvious you can end the conversation with a love you or Thanks for calling, making your feelings for him more obvious. IF you dont want to rush into things just say or mention your such a great friend and I have such a great time talkin to you I wish we were more though cause latley i cant see you with another girl without me feeling hurt? you know something like that.
Some guys are just really slow in the whole does she like me thing so hes probally thinking the same thing. I bet you anything hes trying to find away to ask you out but just cant because he doesnt know u like him. In order for a realtionshio to work 2 people need to feel the same attraction or feelings for eachother. So show him some signs. Maybe hes the only one being sweet in the whole relationship and you are just being like blank ( if you know what i mean) So try giving him more signals and he will evently get the point. Good luck.
Best of wishes, Kesha
2007-01-26 04:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a possiblity that he could be shy, gay or could be wondering the same about you. I know a guy that does the same thing and all the while he was unsure if I was interested in him. Until I finally made the first step and to find out we were both interested in each other. So just throw the idea out there. (warning: make sure he is single before going with the question!) Hope this helps out with your question.
2007-01-26 03:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by babi_gurl513 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it never hurts to talk with an ex, it doesn't mean u are getting back together. tell her honestly the hurt and pain she caused you, and if you don't trust her, tell her, be open and honest, and also it would be good of you not to leave your current gf out of the loop. tell her you are going to talk with this girl- talk and only talk, if she wants to be present, that would be a plus, and a big trust factor for you both.
2016-05-24 02:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want to ask you out, but is afraid of rejection, no car, out of work, no funds for dating. he may just want someone to talk to as a friend and not a lover.
My advice, is ask him informally if he would like to join you at Starbucks for a frappachino (sp?). That may break the ice and he will feel comfortable enough to ask you out for a real date
2007-01-26 03:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by mrfrudd2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are afraid of commitment, most of them just like to play. He deffentely likes u but he might just be playing with you. Also he might not wnat to go too fast and scare you, so if it doens't change talk to him your self. But only if this is happeneing for about a month.
2007-01-26 03:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by Loco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either likes you alot as a friend or can not biuld up the courage to ask you out he probably has a courage issue most guys do
2007-01-26 03:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by tobosahge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello from SERBIA!
I think that U should ask him out first!Maybe he is just too shy to do it!But he shouldn`t be!And he maybe enjoys in that-just talking with you!Wait for a while to see what will happen!
2007-01-26 03:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by serbian girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be shy and afraid to make the next move. Ask him out yourself, and see what happens.
2007-01-26 03:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by Firienscatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be 2 things: 1. he likes u and he's shy of telling about his feelings or: 2. he's just playing a joke on ya
2007-01-26 03:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by caryL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋