ive been with him for 8 months.
&& hes going czy talking about kids.
marriage. FUTURE...
i dont even know if were gonna last!!!
i hate this. cuz i have a feeling that by the i wanna leave him, it gonna be so hard for him....
what should i do?
2007-01-26 02:59:32 · 16 answers · asked by miichellee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you two really need to talk. Then, tell him that all of his talk is way too soon for you and that you are just beginning to get really secure in your relationship but that you both have a lot of growing to do before you want to settle down and raise a family and file joint taxes. And, if he doesn't appreciate your feelings then he should think about whether the relationship would last. Then get up from bed, put your clothes on, and go home.
2007-01-26 03:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the problem is you guys don't talk or better still you don't talk when he tells you about his dreams.You know what girl, you better tell him you are not ready for all that now.Possibly ask him when he wants that to happen.Maybe he is thinking like 5-7years from now.If he thinks about future and kids in5yrs, I think ther is no problem depending on your age, for me I am over 25 and waiting for a guy to say that to me.Ask him
2007-01-26 11:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't prolong the agony! Leave him now... you don't want to be with a guy that is talking marriage and kids after 8 months anyway... geeze!
2007-01-26 11:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying to push you into something that your not ready for yet.. and right now he is pushing you away from him, not closer to him.. if/when you break up with him and he gets upset.. remember this.. he is human and he will get over it.. in time.. no man is worth the trouble of all that.. i met my husband in Aug of 2005, fell totally in love with him the first night I met him. Two days later he told me he was married, I got scared and told him to go back to his wife.. he told me he's been trying to get away from her for 2 years now.. and he finally found the perfect reason too.. ME.. 9 months later we were married, about 2 weeks after his divorce was final. we dont fight, dont argue or disagree, he is my best friend, my true love, my true soulmate..
2007-01-26 11:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get going while the going is good, honey!
If your not feeling him anymore, why continue to string him along if he's all head over hills for you? That why men turn psycho on us! We build up their hope and dreams just to let them down. You've already said he's going crazy...Try ballistic you keep playing with his emotions.
2007-01-26 11:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm lets see be honest say hey its only been 8 months I am not ready to settle down and have kids. So lets not talk about it and if you keep on I will have to rethink our relationship... do you really want that??? that might wake him up and if it doesn't dump him...
2007-01-26 11:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by samshel1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play your faverotie song and in the backround say im breakingup wit you and if he wants to get back woit you just go away and find a nicer man
2007-01-26 11:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by ~pay~pay~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put off childbearing until at least 16.
2007-01-26 11:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by somanyquestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that he is going too fast for you. You are not ready for all of that. Start seeing less of him. And please let him down easy. Tell him that you just aren't ready for a serious relationship.
2007-01-26 11:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest if u dont want him dont waste his time anymore just leave its bad to play with emotions esp a man it hurts
2007-01-26 11:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋