Family & Relationships - 26 January 2007

I have been dating a mortherl for 5-6 months now and she is moving in with me with her daughter? the daughter is 5 years old and they are moving to the east coast from the west coast. the daugher likes me and is affectionate with me but has not said I LOVE YOU to me yet, but I don't know if/when I should be telling her I LOVE HER? Do I wait for her to say it? Do I say it first?

2007-01-26 00:57:32 · 9 answers · asked by moondoggie1966141 1 in Singles & Dating

What they say about shoe size and if so what size are you if you don't mind me asking?

Sorry I am not being a slapper before you girls moan at me I am just here at work having a girly discussion and thought I would ask!

2007-01-26 00:57:27 · 34 answers · asked by Peachy Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 00:55:51 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am seriously considering moving to Baltimore in September. I have been living here in Michigan for about 5 years now and I am sick of the lack of job opportunites in this state. In Maryland I have friends and family that will look out for me. The only bad part about leaving Michigan is that I have a 5 year old god son here that I love very very much. He is my little baybeee and has been a part of my life ever since he was 4 months old. His mother and I don't get along very well and only really keep in contact because of him. I know that if I move out of Michigan she will not allow me to see him and if I did come here for a visit, I wouldn't want to stay in her house. What should I do? I really want to move to Maryland because I have no family or true friends here in Michigan and I'm tired of the lack of jobs. But I will also miss my little baybeee very very much.

2007-01-26 00:54:51 · 9 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Friends

I have had a falling out with my sons wife and she has cut me right out of his life and that of my grandchildren. I saw my grandson on his 1st birthday and have never met my granddaughter. Do I have any rights at all as far as visiting them? I miss the close relationship that I had with my son....or thought I had for so many years.

2007-01-26 00:54:49 · 19 answers · asked by Nan L 1 in Family

2007-01-26 00:54:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

now, and a hug too

2007-01-26 00:54:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls help me. i dont knw what to do

2007-01-26 00:53:54 · 4 answers · asked by chioma cassy 1 in Singles & Dating

tell and be honest!!!!

2007-01-26 00:53:45 · 11 answers · asked by fireman f 1 in Singles & Dating

we and my mate were by the pool, in our bikinis when these boys walked past and whistled and said we were fit, where they telling the truth?

2007-01-26 00:53:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He claims...He's not happy, I can't make him love me.I've tried everything including therapy.I;m the only one who went half the time.He goes out and stays out over nights sometimes the whole weekend.I left before, don't know why I came back same crap dif. days.I told him to give me til June so kids r out of school.He once said I could have everything including kids but now He wants me to leave the 7yr old with him.I told him I would leave it up to the judge.We r in Japan and he took our passports!!He's in the military on shore duty and claims he will go to legal so I don't take the youngest. What should I do? I've told him to leave the house permantly b/c he gives me mixed signals with sex he said he dont have to. Help!

2007-01-26 00:53:03 · 21 answers · asked by Jerry S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this boy i know that i really like and i know that he likes me too but he's so busy during the day that he doe'nt pay much attention when i flirt.

2007-01-26 00:52:30 · 3 answers · asked by nanay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 00:52:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

mine is dusting.

2007-01-26 00:52:05 · 19 answers · asked by havingfun 4 in Family

If it's a contribution, what is acceptable? I don't wish to offend.

2007-01-26 00:52:00 · 23 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6 in Weddings

i want to contact an old friend from college. i know what city she lives in. i tried smartpages.com...no listing...i confirmed that is the city she lives in through a link...but i dont want to pay a subscription to find out more. how do i find out her address or phone number?

2007-01-26 00:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by outofmymind 4 in Friends

Isn't my baby cute? She's my Avatar...What do you think?

2007-01-26 00:49:40 · 8 answers · asked by jonah 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-26 00:48:14 · 16 answers · asked by CrisTynutza 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a huge crush on this guy. He doesnt know it but i want him to know before it gets too late. I dont have a job or anything so im not so sure what to do. ANY IDEAS!!!????

2007-01-26 00:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by barbarau17 1 in Singles & Dating

Cliff notes of my marriage: See other postings to get the most information #1 post “Will My Wife Turn into my mother-in-law?” #2 post “Need some help with my wife” Both posted today 01/25/2007.
My wife has depression which I found out(she knew) after the I do’s Wife has continues to lie, steal, deny, be stubborn, difficult, (on things that made no sense) and maybe cheat (not sure on that one) I have two step children, she’s been married twice, my first time. Treat them very good. She moved from the south to the NE where my job is. Within a month noticed my wife undermining the me/ family. So much that my step daughter underwent counseling for depression (cutting, “can only be happy in the south” her mom’s doing, and unsure of her sexual orientation. Spent thousands but, she worth it I was to work & she was to be the home keeper (One of our pre-marriage agreements) did the opposite till I said OK to her working ,now doesn’t want to work(and isn’t) Gave her plenty of cash & a credit card for emergencies. Used that card 15 to 30 times a month for 10 months (till she gave it back/ I said enough, I was very kind and loving) all while I am tending to my terminally sick mom (Talk about blind sided). Went through many more card methods nothing worked (no trust/keeps lying & stealing in other ways to) Find out that I have been supporting my mother-in-law during that time and funding my wife’s secret bank account. Within 6 months, M-I-L hit me up directly for money (which I gave to her) and later found out she expected monthly handouts because I have a good job.(wife denies all)
Found out I was going to lose my job in a couple months (airline down cycle) she refused to get a full time job cause “I don’t want to do any of those jobs” Said it will be temporary and let’s keep the kids(hers) in private school and keep the house. Still wouldn’t get a job. Sold my motorcycle, golf club membership and my SUV to lead the cutbacks. She demanded new furniture while I downsized. Luckily I found a job. Said she could have a reversal (before marriage) not true .Feel really doped on that one, I’m sure she knew that). Don’t think I want kids w/ her now There’s been some good times, she is nice looking , can be a sweetheart, sex is good, my family all likes her (but they don’t know any of this). Just this week found out that my wife also has secret PO Box, she got 3 more cards in her name, pays her cards debt w/ my (families) money. I could write about her behavior for hours. I would kindly forgive all this stuff but it keeps on happening. It’s been bottled up for years except for our two councilors. I’m afraid nothing is working. I’d also like my own children. Do I stay in this mess?

2007-01-26 00:43:56 · 16 answers · asked by Concerned Husband 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do I sometimes feel like my bf doesnt like me anymore? Eventhough he doesnt really do anything to show me he doesnt like me, if anything he's always being nice to me. Why cant I just believe he loves me? Why do I sometimes wake up feeling like he hates me just because he didnt call enough or some lame stupid reason like that? I'm on my period, could that be why? BTW I'm not a kid and I'm not a drama queen either.

2007-01-26 00:42:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy and he likes me to but he had a gf, i went to go see him and we were sitting in his car when he wanted to kiss me but i pulled away and told him im not interested in him if he has a gf so he sms'd her that its over!! i told him that he should at least phone her and he said that she's not worth it and he kissed me!! ok so i spoke to him today and i asked him if he spoke to his "gf" and he said no that he does'nt care!! but now his not acting like himself with me?? why??

2007-01-26 00:41:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I let her go down on me last night...problem is she is mentally retarded and I kinda forced her into it....should I own up to it to my girlfriend?

2007-01-26 00:41:28 · 21 answers · asked by Turc 1 in Singles & Dating

I've always been more comfortable with listening, rather than talking, so it doesn't bother me too much when others talk about themselves. But my girlfriend talks about herself and her life ALL THE TIME! She says she cares what's going on with me as well, but when I do talk about myself, she acts like she isn't that interested. How do I change our way of communicating?

2007-01-26 00:40:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

especially when i speak to him on the phone...

2007-01-26 00:39:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean that every one know that he will die..what will he do with money in his tomb

2007-01-26 00:37:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-26 00:35:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i cant believe it as im writing this i feel like gonna cry again you see the guy i USED to like (the playboy) called me UGLY! all bcoz told him to hurry up he suddenly said "oh stay away from me ugly!" i nearly cried but instead i pretended i didnt hear it then he started flirting wid our new classmate i was so mad at him that in our last period i ignored him,didnt laugh at his jokes and made him look like an idiot when i got home i cant stop my tears! huhuhu do u guys think i look that bad?

2007-01-26 00:35:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i realli like this guy Marc but he just broke up with his ex so... now idn what to do...we talk and we have a great time laughing but i don't think he likes me because he mostly goes out with PREPS!! n im not a prep and im not going to chnage who i am to be with him u no? But i also like his best friend Nick but i know Marc better cuz he is sweet, funny, cute, and we have a great time, but i no Nick by looks! lol can any1 help???????? Please i would really like GOOD PPL to answer all u RUDE ppl ur JERKS!! and u should b leaving stupid messages!!

2007-01-26 00:34:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plzz help me

2007-01-26 00:34:03 · 9 answers · asked by fireman f 1 in Singles & Dating