ok so i like this guy and he likes me to but he had a gf, i went to go see him and we were sitting in his car when he wanted to kiss me but i pulled away and told him im not interested in him if he has a gf so he sms'd her that its over!! i told him that he should at least phone her and he said that she's not worth it and he kissed me!! ok so i spoke to him today and i asked him if he spoke to his "gf" and he said no that he does'nt care!! but now his not acting like himself with me?? why??
2007-01-26 00:41:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
whats ur point??? i don't like u n that gury don't 2!!! ha ha ha you wanna make a laughing matter out of some1 real questions then don't be surpize if they make a laughing matter out of yours!! u got that ur lil b*tch?????? cuz u don't no me n trust me if u did u would have gotten ur self a NEWARK beat down ho!!!!
Ohhh and thanx 2 the 2 points!!!! HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
~~~n 4 u other ppl reading this u have to read what she wrote me be4 u judge me~~
2007-01-26 10:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, he really was taking the coward's way out not being willing to discuss breaking up with his girlfriend.
Strangely, a lot of guy are only attractive to other girls when they already have a girlfriend. It's a self-confidence thing. You're not instantly his girlfriend, and he might be having second thoughts about his ex. And now she hates you.
He doesn't like having you ask questions or tell him what to do. Now you're something he HAS instead of something he couldn't get when he had a girlfriend. Play hard to get. Don't sell yourself cheaply. Since you were so easy to get (and he obviously likes instant gratification with no arguing) he's going to start treating you like DIRT if you cater to his "needs" instead of making him earn your affections.
2007-01-26 08:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Finish Reading Ugly Rennaissance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids will be Kids. You hang with a CHILD! You get just that. Show the Clown, that you're better than that. Let him know that, when you're both Adults? Have him see who you are then. Take a stroll to Respect Blvd. Go walk down Happiness Lane. And get away from Disrespect Drive. Luck!
2007-01-26 08:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello
most likely here is because he is still with the girlfriend you mentioned, you said he did not phone her ? well he might have told you that but based on his behaviour i would hazzard a guess differently, and that phonecall wasn't to call of anything in all likelyhood. perhaps i may be wrong and he has ended it with her but is acting strange because of it ? anyway i would suggest being carefull, i mean if he says he does not care about the previous girl to actually phone/see her to call things of then you have to ask the question, does he also not care about you enough to give a straight answer,
2007-01-26 08:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by aerobatic22405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother with this guy he sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it to. He probably still has feelings for his girlfriend. Why don't you call the girlfriend and see if they really broke up or not. That way you could be sure. He may be having second thoughts about you vs. the gf.
2007-01-26 08:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, leave him alone. The way he treated his girlfriend by breaking up with her via text in order to kiss you means he doesn't care about her or you. This guys an asshole and if you don't head my advice, you'll be the one getting a text saying it's over, that is if it ever gets off the ground. WATCH THE SIGNS!
2007-01-26 08:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would bother me is that he was so cold and callous towards his "gf"....he sounds like a jerk, and yet you want to be the next "gf" he breaks off with over a text message? You can do better than this and you know it!
2007-01-26 08:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
cause he is guilty inside his heart or may be he is lying that he has gf as it not soo easy to break apart this kind of a relation through a sms
2007-01-26 08:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by amu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day you're going to be the girl that he won't even have the decency to call. Do you want to be that girl? I think you've seen an excellent example of what your future could be if you stay with him.
2007-01-26 08:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by Dean 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think his problem is that he's a jerk. Come on -- he broke up with her by text message? And that's the way he'd break up with you, too. Dump this guy if you want respect.
2007-01-26 08:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by oaxaca_so_long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋