my girlfriend has been on the pill for id say a good 5 months now and yet she still makes me use a condom every time and freaks out if i even think about not. i think its a little overkill. does anyone else do this? what can i do to convince her its ok to not use one every once in a while?
2007-01-26
01:49:58
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jeez you guys are f-ing harsh!! haha. we both know eachothers sexual past and we plan on getting married. shes had sex with more people than i have! which just answered my own question. i dont want to be where many men have been before. im wearing a condom
2007-01-26
04:36:06 ·
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she mostly has preganacy-anxiety (Made it up).. Was she pregnant before???.. give her a minute.. be spontaneous.. not so predicatbale.. if she cant tell when you want it and you make her want it.. she would get so "caught -up" in the act... that she'll forget that you dont have one or be too hot too care..
On the other hand.. dont be a jerk about it..if you love her do what pleases her..
2007-01-26 01:59:13
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answered by CHELAKIKI 2
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I know your probably sick of hearing this but too bad, you shouldnt have asked such a dumb question. The pill doesnt always work but with the protection of a condom and the pill she has way less stress because obviously she doesnt want to have a baby with you. Either she just isnt ready or she thinks your not ready (which your probably not) She is being smart and thinking about what is best for the both of you in the future. If you really love her maybe you should mention getting married. Then she would know you were being serious. But if your not, you shouldnt be having sex with her anyway.
2007-01-26 10:40:44
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answered by CountryGirlygirl 2
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It ISN'T "ok" to not use one every once in a while. As many people have already pointed out, the pill is not 100% effective, nor does it prevent std's. Your girlfriend has no assurances regarding who else you are sleeping with/have slept with, or even how often you wash your underwear. Using a condom is NOT overkill. It's her body and her life. Stop being selfish.
2007-01-26 10:02:43
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answered by badkitty1969 7
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Is there an issue with a STD in the relationship? Have both of you been tested? As far as contraception goes, the pill is everybit as effective at preventing pregnancy as a condoms. Just look up some statistics from planned parenthood and the FDA for validation on this point.
2007-01-26 09:59:01
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answered by cyclotrode 2
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The pill is so she doesn't get pregnant and the condom is to make sure the pill works! Sometimes they don't! Plus condoms are used as not to spread a disease! Just in case someone either of you have been with in the past had something catching!
2007-01-26 09:57:29
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answered by Gerry 7
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Birth control is not 100% effective, me and another girl in the office that I work in are both pregnant and we were on methods of birth control. So your girlfriend is being the safe one, it's not over kill and if you respect her you will not pressure her to have sex without a condom.
2007-01-26 09:55:03
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answered by Torey♥ 5
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She is being very smart and cautious and she needs to be. It sounds like she is the one who is thinking with the head on her shoulders. Just continue to wrap it up and you will be thankful down the road she was thinking clearly for the both of you. Stop thinking about getting more pleasure in the now man!
2007-01-26 09:58:58
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answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6
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The Pill does not protect against STD's and it's not 100% guaranteed to prevent pregnancy. Suck it up man,your girlfriend is using her head.WEAR THE RAIN COAT!!
2007-01-26 09:58:23
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answered by ? 7
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The pill is NOT 100% effective - nor does it protect against STDs. Therefore, if she does not feel comfortable you had best keep the goods covered.
2007-01-26 09:54:45
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answered by lunasage 6
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Condoms prevent disease and birth control isnt 100% so you should always use a condom plus its her body
2007-01-26 09:57:00
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answered by Bubblez707 2
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