I'm pretty, attractive and have a interesting personality. I always know how to make my man happy. I've never been dumped before. I'm 25 and i have gone 4 relationships and I dumped them all.
I am Not being cocky or promoting myself, I'm just being honest. and yeah.. i'm confident or maybe over-confident. I'm a perfectionist. I know they tried so hard to give me what they have, but I just can't get enough. There are always someone better out there for me. I always have guys admiring me and chasing me all my life. so i have a high expectation.
Don't blame me for that because i just want to find the best one for me. But i really don't wish to hurt any guy that's with me. and yeah... I can simply tell you I AM NOT HAPPY! because i might be alone all my life! I really wanna know how I can change my thinking?
2007-01-26 04:21:10 · 16 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh COME ON! everybody wants a better lover!!
2007-01-26 04:30:56 · update #1
Come down to earth a little, and quit being so stuck on yourself.
2007-01-26 04:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you think the level of pride you express is appropriate? I am not certain, but it looks like others think you are a little more than over-confident. It also appears that you have a strong personality and you may be subconsciously settling for less than what you feel you deserve.
I also wonder where do you meet these men you are finding, and how long are your relationships lasting? If you are willing to invest so much time with a man, why would you throw it all away? What types of problems have the relationships had?
Finally, can you accept that:
1. Being a great lover is nice, but doesn't make a successful relationship,
2. Any relationship you've been in that has failed isn't only the guys fault
?
2007-01-26 04:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Wire Tapped 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can change the way you think by doing the following: 1.) Pull the stick out of your @ss (stuck up), 2.) Stop being so dam shallow, 3.) Always remember, there is someone out there way better then you, 4.) If you are so perfect "Perfectionist", you would not be on Q&A asking for our opinions, and 5.) Dont be materialstic, the way they love and care for you is what counts. Cause honestly, you sound like a high price "call girl" bitching about what you can get from guys!
2007-01-26 04:38:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, realise that you are not perfect. Everyone has faults. Also, there is nothing wrong with having high standards. Some people find the perfect one for them early in life, and other times it takes some time. As long as you are not mean to these guys and do not get pleasure out of dumping them, don't wotty about it. Mr. Right will come along soon enough. You just have to know that NO ONE is perfect. Everyone has something annoying about them. You just have to figure out if you can live with their quirks. Good luck.
2007-01-26 04:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be a perfectionist but you are not perfect. There is no man on this earth that will probably meet your standards because no one is perfect. You have probably passed up a lot of great guys by over analyzing them and yes you will be alone forever with that thinking. You should try to think to yourself what is more important being alone or being with a man with a few flaws and that will love you like you should be loved. There is a dvd called soul mate. Check it out. The trailer is http://www.soulmatefilm.com/thetrailer.htm
2007-01-26 04:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know those commercials: "Life comes at you fast"? Well it's true. If you keep searching for perfection, you might find that time may leave you in a physical state that can't even attract an "average joe".
I got married at the peak of my ability to attract women. Now that I'm 42 and have been married for 16 years, I'm glad that I enjoy the kind of love with my wife that is much deeper than infatuation, lust or the superficiality of "the game".
2007-01-26 04:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly feel sorry for you. You make yourself sound very conceited, shallow and having no substance. Only the shallowest of people will talk about themselves as you have. How do you fix yourself? I don't have the answer. I think it's time to seek professional help from a therapist. The way you think of yourself now, nobody will ever be good enough for you and from a man's perspective...he'll lose interest and make himself look less desireable in front of you just to get away from your shallowness.
2007-01-26 04:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you want to come off sounding great about yourself but what I read is that you have no real confidence about yourself. When people have to tell everyone how great they are it is usually because they don't feel so good about themselves. What is missing in your life that you feel you need to be in control? I think until you find that out you will be very lonely and always looking for the next conquest.
2007-01-26 04:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you just want to find that "right one for you".......and there's no problem with that. It doesn't matter if you're a good lover or not* the question is Are you a good Person * You may think so but others may not*~ Yes they may stare at you alot and chase you but probably to have sex with you not to get to know you*
2007-01-26 04:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gain a little bit of self confidence (but not to much) because the the good men like a girl with a self confidence and it will help you get along in life
2007-01-26 04:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by JILL B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋