I recently started dating this woman who is a very sexual person. She likes to dominate and humiliate me every chance she gets. While we are in the act she sometimes likes to call me names that I certainly can’t type out here. I really like this woman but her antics inside of the bedroom have been getting more and more violent. I find myself with cuts and bruises in the mornings after we make love. She has also started using various “tools” to “explore” parts of my body that have never been seen by a woman before. Is this normal sexual behavior? This is my first, and I’ve never experienced anything like this before. Is there any way I can make her stop?
2007-01-26 04:15:58 · 14 answers · asked by pheco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you obviously have reached your limit, or else you would not be asking all! Tell her what you like and don't like. That's the easiest way. But don't tell her during sex, while she's "exploring" you with "tools" she might hurt you. Alot of people like rough or violent sex but everyone has their limit she has just not found her's yet. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-26 04:26:05 · answer #1 · answered by VEGAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? You have a unique situation which should be explored. Roll with it, enjoy it. As for the cuts tell her you don't like it and not to do it. Also, what's going is not making love, it's her being dominant over you so this is role palying with sex. You know you could turn the tide and ask her to "switch" having you be the dominent one. Enjoy!!
2007-01-26 04:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wouldn't be a sexual partner I would want, personally. As far as being normal goes, who knows these days what normal is? The thing is if you are uncomfortable with it, that is the main thing. Have you talked to her about it? If not, I would. Good luck.
Hope she doesn't beat you up for confronting her...lol
2007-01-26 04:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is a freak.
In short, your only option is to decide whether or not you can hang with this or not; believe it or not, some guys might like this.
She might be a dream girl for a biker, but if she's over the line for you, it's time to move on.
2007-01-26 04:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already opened the door to this type of behavior. If you want it to stop, then you need to have a serious talk with her. If she can not or will not stop then the ball is in your court.
If you want it to stop before it goes to far then you may have to stop seeing her. It is your decision.
2007-01-26 04:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by whitehairblueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if that's what gets her hot, nothing you do or say will change what she thinks is sexy. I mean, try talking to her about it, but you don't seem to be on the same page as her so i would seriously consider finding someone closer to your ideals
2007-01-26 04:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, freaky sadist. Some like it rough; some do not. In any case, you need to talk to her about your concerns.
2007-01-29 05:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you aren't comfortable with what she's doing if she doesn't respect that i'd breakoff the relationship. you need to have respect for each others wishes and feelings and if you don't you don't really care to begin with.
2007-01-26 04:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by foose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a freak on your hands dog..... I'd advise you to get out... Most women are not that bad....
2007-01-26 04:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me her number, I'll take care of her for you.
This is probably more than you can handle.
2007-01-26 05:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Ben B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋