What do I do if a 17 year old girl has a crush on me....Im 25 and her parents are o.k. with the whole thing..?

Question

The crazy thing is, her Dad likes me a lot, and tells me all the time how his daughter likes me,and talks about me constantly....what do I do!?!?!? Do I date the 17 year old....or what? So far I have avoided her totaly....I've kissed her once thats all....But trust me she wants more....Waaayyyy more. AND IT'S SO HARD CAUSE SHE'S DROP DEAD GORGEOUS!! I think it's just a faze....she says otherwise....what do I do.....SERIOUSLY

Answer 1

Sorry Pal, find someone your own age! Is that to hard to do?

Answer 2

Are you really considering this? Think back to when you were 17 and what YOUR maturity level was then.

If you're completely uninterested in having a family, then go for it. You're 25, you date for a year or so, get engaged for a year, then get married. If you don't meet someone worthwhile and serious in the next 5 years then the pond gets a LOT smaller. This is at best just a waste of time, 17 year old girls don't have relationships that last a lifetime, she hasn't even been to college! Think of what happens at college! Not only that, but you could really break her heart. She's infatuated, unless she's super mature and you have a lot in common, you'll move on to someone and something new. Yes, hotties are nice, but I've dated them too and there's not always a whole lot else to keep one interested long term.

Also any woman over 23 who finds out you dated a 17 year old will consider you immature and a little desperate. You really like her? Consider it when she's out of college and has some life experience to share with you.

Answer 3

You're a virgin aren't you? Not that I care, but honestly you're a grown man(or supposed to be) trying to get assurance to see a 17 year old little girl. Man up, grow a pair and go find a WOMAN.

This may sound cruel but in the future, I think you will look back and thank God for the advice that put you on the right path.

Good luck

Edit: I agree with Krysti, below. Any woman that finds out you dated a kid at your age is going to be creeped out think of you as a desperate pedophile. Forget about legal implication of sex. Even if you waited three years, then broke up later on; it's going to look creepy.

Answer 4

WOW!! I dont think thee will be a problem with the whole dating thing if you wanna deal with a 17... I'm not saying that all 17 year old girls are the same some are very mature. But really you're better off with someone your own age. Let her live her life she'll get over you...

Answer 5

Are you seriouse you get the hell out of dodge not to menchan its illigal (depending on where you are at) lets say you date its doesnt work out and she presses charges then what you get the hell out of there. Of course you dont date her. And what is a 25 year old doing hanging out with a 17 year old any how. what are you guys gonna do go to the bar......No, go to the club and dance........No, ohh maybe you guys can go to a rated R movie she sold enuff for that.

Answer 6

MY ADVICE......stay off the beer go for multiviamins, drink water and milk nothing else, exerciese 5 days a week, eat oats NEVER EAT MCDONALDS or crap like that and then run round a lampost with your trousers down.

BTW she is far too young u r being creepy

Answer 7

never trust the words of parents because the second you start to date her and you have a fight she'll get upset and they will flip and call the cops blah blah blah. wait until she turns 18 and then date her. you cant be that hard up that you wont wait. are you??

Answer 8

I would wait until shes 18

Answer 9

Wow, her parents agree with it.They need help.You are simply a faze she's going through.

Answer 10

wait till she turns 18 then see if she still wants to date. If your not interested just tell her.