Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I met a girl after she gave me her number and met for coffee. She felt very comfortable with me from the get go because was beet red alot when I talked to her and she would extend her arm out towards me with her palms up and ask me a lot of questions about myself. She also had me sip her drinks a couple times, and asked me if I wanted to go out for drinks with her at a nice mexican restaurant after coffee. Her and I flirted some more and she laughed at practically anything I said. She also wanted to show me her new house she was trying to buy.and when I asked her for dinner she smiled broadly and said "I'd love to".

We were supposed to go out again tonight and she hasnt' returned my calls. What's the deal? It's been a week now and she's always returned my calls and has taken lengths to get in touch with me.

I know it's not me. Or is it? Why are they usually so insincere?

2007-01-09 06:14:30 · 9 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I know we love each other. Not sure if he's cheating....a month ago, I listened to his voicemail (yes I know that was wrong of me but it's hard for me to trust) and there was a msg from a girl "I want to hang out, etc. MAYBE I'LL KISS YOU AGAIN." I freaked, confronted him,he claims it's a girl at work who pecked him when they were having a drink after work (he works at a restaurant). I believed him, but I was upset that he didn't tell me about it. I told him to cut things off with her, don't be her friend, don't talk to her on the phone, etc.....he said he felt like I was being controlling, and he swore up and down he wasn't doing anything with her. He claims he just views her as a friend, but that she is into him. I spend every night and every weekend w/my boyfriend. BUT, last night I found out that he was at his friend's house, and she was there too. He tried 2 lie 2 me about it, but I knew she was there b/c I heard her voice in the bkground - what should I do?

2007-01-09 06:14:21 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy off and on since June of 06. We recently started to date again in November. He is really all about him self most of the time, but i can deal with it. recenly he has had some legal issues which he may be going to jail for 90 days. Anyway I have not heard from him since saturday and he has not returned any of my calls or text messages. He had his court date yesteday. I am truly concerned and worried about him. I think that he has stepped back from our relationship due to everything that is going on in his life. I made one last call to him last night that said i was concerned about him, and i cared about him, but i also cared about how i was treated. I said I would leave the next step up to him. Is this being selfish on my behalf or should i continue to make an effort to try and help him?

2007-01-09 06:14:04 · 26 answers · asked by livlie23 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:12:48 · 10 answers · asked by sheep_and_cows_go_quack 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:12:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year I began dating someone who was seemingly ideal. He is intelligent, handsome, sweet, attentive and great in bed. After a month he told me he was in love with me and started backing off. He lives 400 miles away from me, I was ok with that. I wasn't asking for a commitment. I understood he was a college senior and wanted to put his time to "good use." After not seeing him for 3 months, i began dating someone else. This upset his and he asked how I could do that to him. I think he's an asshole now...he says he wants to work it out when he graduates and returns to so cal in 6 months.

My question is.....what should I do?

Is this just a bunch of BullS***?

2007-01-09 06:12:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

addict. She got mad that I answered the phone and when I gave it to him she started yelling at him. He then turned to me and asked me to give him a moment alone to talk to her. When cameheback in the room he got mad because I answered the phone. She didnt call in a month but when she did she asked for money. Should I call her and asks what is her problem or do I let her look like the bad one?

2007-01-09 06:12:10 · 12 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i have this friend...and she talks sh!t about me all the time. she wrote a poem for a class about me, and it was really mean.
heres the poem
"heather is such a disgrace. i wish that she would hide her ugly face. she likes to cut, shes an emo slut, and i wish that she would die and leave this place."

she WASNT kidding. so what do i do about this?
should i stay friends with her, or should i dump her on her @ss and let her talk sh!t somewhere else?

good helpful answers only please?

2007-01-09 06:11:26 · 36 answers · asked by once_upon_a_dream 2 in Friends

I need an opinion. I have been happily married for 3 years and have a wonderful sex life. I am a stay at home wife and recently I asked my husband if he mind that I bought a vibrator (ie I explained I would not let it affect our sex life, he can still get booty every day from me.) He acted very rude and said that if i bought one he would never ever have sex with me again!! This hurt me because i feel that he is being selfish. Now should i a) buy one and not care what he said b) lisen to him and get myself off during the day with something else i can find c)buy one and have him believe that I dont care what he thinks

2007-01-09 06:11:22 · 39 answers · asked by cireniod 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey, i was just wondering what are your thoughts on karma and fate. My boyfriend cheated and lied to me for awhile about what was really going on with us and texted me to let me know and officially end it. Will karma catch up with him? Whenever we hurt someone, do they get what they deserve? and does fate always play its cards right? .. share your thoughts. Thanks.

2007-01-09 06:10:45 · 10 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by ero e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

june months girls r not suitable for october guys cos girls born in jue r not able to make decissions n they r preflexed minded they can bring a good guy in trouble, wht do u people thin n its not just horoscopic its personal exp

2007-01-09 06:09:40 · 7 answers · asked by nayim s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:08:01 · 14 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

ive kissed guys before. im not like a kiss ho im just saying. but my boyfriend has never kissed a girl before. the last time i tried to kiss him his lips went inside my mouth, and it was super gross. its not like our whole relationship is gonna revolve around it but he told me the other night how selfconseious he is about the whole thing.
i felt so bad and now i dont kno what to do. he is so great and i love him not only for his body but also his personality, i dont want it to be weird espesally when we r alone and im waiting for him to do it. he just pussys out and gets nervious. how do i kiss him without him being uncomfortable?

2007-01-09 06:07:44 · 23 answers · asked by Ali D 2 in Singles & Dating

I an very shy so it is hard for me to just walk up to someone......also i am overweight...but still attractive...do you think that might hurt my chances of finding someone??? Only serious answers please..thanks!!

2007-01-09 06:05:39 · 15 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

i just broke up wit ma boyfriend but i know dat he still loves me and i havnt talked to him since saturday and today is tuesday.and the thing is dat he found out dat some gurl is "pregnate"wit "his" baby.i honestly dont believe her! but before we broke up we talked and he kept telling me tad he lovd me and that he wantd to be wit me.and dat he didnt want to be wit her dat he wantd to be wit me.i just......i just dnt noe wat to do i kant get ovr him!im still really hurt!!HELP!!1

2007-01-09 06:05:01 · 15 answers · asked by mrs.garcia16 2 in Singles & Dating

ONE OF THE QUALITIES AND SKILLS OF A SOCIAL WORKER IS MATURED, FRIENDLY, RELIABLE, PATIENT, HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOUR AND INDEPENDENT WORKER. WHY SPECIFIC SKILLS & QUALITIES ARE NEEDED IN THIS JOB?

2007-01-09 06:04:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

were the type to want it all the time, would you view her as too freaky? What are your thoughts?

2007-01-09 06:04:22 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel like I am falling out of love with my boyfriend. He's great and I dont know why my mind would do such a thing...Is there any way to stop myself and how?

I told him about it and he said that my affections havent changed so he doesnt think i am but i am so scared....I want to love him forever...How does it feel to fall out of love?

2007-01-09 06:04:00 · 2 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is so lazy. He will not even water the grass or take out the garbage. This is a new relationship, and he moved into my house under unusual circumstances. I am a clean person and I really would like to have a man that is similar to me. He even has a problem with making the bed if he is the last one to get out of it. We both work fulltime and I go to work first. It really gets irritating when I have to come home to a unmade bed. His view on this is that the bed shouldn't be made all of the time since we will be getting right back into it at the end of the day. This man does not even know how to wash his own clothes. He has never had a place of his own and he is 44-years old. He is use to living with women. He is a very nice and giving person but for me that is just not enough. Any suggestions?

2007-01-09 06:03:46 · 21 answers · asked by tina M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:03:46 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up because we felt that we needed space for each other to know new people, to experience new things as we are only 19. We were very good together and everyone expected us to be together for a long time. But maybe at a point of time, his love for me did lessen a little because of i dunno wadever reason, maybe we were too close together? (more like friends then lovers) We broke up for about 3 weeks now, but im still obsessed with him. He wants to be friends still, and still asks me out for movies and dinner. But he will tell me that it's not a date. He'll purposely say things such as, "we're not related anymore", "non of your business". just to provoke me. Because he know that i still like him. He did help in consoling me, advising me to move on and stuff. He's really a great person. I miss him dearly, but i still see him often, but its painful cuz u know that he's not urs anymore. I want to stay away from him abit, so that he will experience life without me. But i dunno how to

2007-01-09 06:03:32 · 8 answers · asked by Mimi P 1 in Singles & Dating

will I lose him forever? I just want him to change and grow up. So i am giving him time.
Do you think he will come back?
Should I talk to him at all?

2007-01-09 06:03:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:03:02 · 19 answers · asked by bigboobsucker 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my girlfriend for six year and about a year ago asked her to marry me. This summer we will wed. The problem is that she heard a rumor about not having sex six months prior to our wedding night. I was never told this fact and is driving me up the wall. We have been having sex until last month. The question that I am asking is this a rule or something because she seems to be really caught up on it. We dont live together and see each other maybe twice a week because of our jobs. If there is someone with a catholic belief please respond.

2007-01-09 06:01:41 · 16 answers · asked by M R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we met six months ago.......when we met he asked me alot of questions? like what religon am i in? would i ever want to move out of state to another to live? Do I want children? Do I want to get married in the future? we have crossed the line with us just being friends he introduced me to all his friends and his co workers. he is always telling me what his mom will expect from a girl that he takes home, he tells me what his mom will not like from a girl that he's with. he's always telling me personal stuff about his family and will ask me for advice on what they should do or what he should do about it. i'm confused one day he sounds like he's interested and then one day we sound like we are just friends. I'm afraid to ask him where we stand i just got out of a 4 year relationship and he always tells me the way i act that if a guy wanted me that he will have no chance. how can i show him that i'm ready to give him a chance? I feel that im ready. after 6 months of knowing him.

2007-01-09 06:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:00:56 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The overwheliming advise I got was come clean with your wife. This was my post...

At a holiday party I did my wifes sister -- she's 20 my wife is 35 - It was hot and we both want more -- but I'm conflicted. I love my wife but the sex is that -- only sex. What woould you do? Come clean with my wife? Cut it off and hope no one finds out (the sister will be mad) or keep it up (which is what I really want to do but...


Well I decided to tell my wife and hope for the best -- as several poeple pointed out my sister in law would splii the beans eventually -- better to cut my losses. What happened next is firghtening and I don't know how to deal with it. My wife seems to break down crying -- but after she got under control she informed me that she had been havinf an affair with our neighbor -- she apparently had given this a lot of thought and she wants a polyamourous relationship. We love each other and neither want do stop--she knows all about polyamourus -- anyone know if this works?

2007-01-09 05:59:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a reformed cheater. After cheating on him, I have decided that because I love him that I would never do it again. As a result, I am finding that I am not getting all the "attention." that I need.I am a person that craves a lot of attention. If it were possible "attention" ten times a day. So, I talked to him told him that I need him more than usual. He said that he would try. He did pick up the pace a little bit. But it is still not enough. So, I talked to him again. I told him maybe he should consider the blue pill. He was greatly offended. A week passed and I purchased an "item" for my own personal use. When he could not any longer. I went to plan B. He was not happy. He said that we were better than average and he felt that he could not please me no matter what he did. I do not want him to feel that way. We have been together 6 yrs. We are active five to six times a week. On a good week maybe 9 or 10. So, what did I do so wrong?

2007-01-09 05:59:48 · 18 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Singles & Dating