Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I am so ashamed, my girfriend of a year just found out her ex husbands dad died today . She was married to him for 16 yearas and they have kids together . I am so ashamed to say that I am jealous that she wants to go and be part of the funeral . Her ex has been a real jerk to her and does everything to keep us apart . when her parents died while they were still married he never cared about her . He has been nothing but a problem and now she wants to be there for them , They have not seen her for a year . I am so concerned bout this but I know I can't tell her about it because I will seem like an uncaring jerk . We have been together for over a year and are serious in our relationship I hate feeling this way when somebody is suffering the loss of a loved one.What should I do to put this behind me and sould I even be concerned ,

2007-01-09 06:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by el diablo 1 in Singles & Dating

would you let a man kiss you on a first date?

2007-01-09 06:30:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've never had what we call true love....some people get astonished from that and they always tell me that love is essential...so why its so needed and is it really that nice?!!

2007-01-09 06:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by noni297 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a teacher. My assistant is a young female who the men all flock to. They constantly come to check her out and talk to her. One of these guys is nice, but he tries to hard. He recently told her that he was taking out to dinner and a movie. She said ok because she really didn't think it would lead him on and she doesn't like him like that. What can she do without hurting his feelings?

2007-01-09 06:30:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

"So tell me... what kind of man do you respect?"

2007-01-09 06:29:47 · 39 answers · asked by angies_angel_eyes2 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:29:04 · 28 answers · asked by silly2 1 in Singles & Dating

i need a girlfriend that is nice and all that

2007-01-09 06:28:41 · 8 answers · asked by blacksabbath200000 1 in Singles & Dating

"So tell me... what kind of woman do you respect?"

2007-01-09 06:27:31 · 39 answers · asked by angies_angel_eyes2 3 in Singles & Dating

I been hanging out with this guy since October, till now. We have not had any physical contact. No kissing, no hugging, or sex. We have alot in common. I told him that I liked him and was attracted to him. He said he liked hanging out with me and he liked me too. He said, " he never looked at me any other way other being a friend." He still calls me to go out, even though he knows what is going on. Help me please!

2007-01-09 06:27:21 · 13 answers · asked by Delicious 4 in Singles & Dating

I am divorced after finding out my husband cheated on me. I have moved past that and have met somebody new. We get along great and share laughs. We are even considered by others to be a serious couple...but...other than kissing me he doesnt seem interested. I am not one to jump into bed with every man I meet but he doesnt even seem interested in me at all in that way. I know that I doubt myself sometimes because of the past and my ex cheating but should I be worried that something is missing in my new relationship. If we continue seeing each other and I hope we do, will this change or I am never going to feel wanted again. Please no answers about being glad he isnt just after sex. I am glad. I just wonder if something is wrong or is it me.

2007-01-09 06:27:07 · 9 answers · asked by nascargirl216 2 in Singles & Dating

way and had the initial meeting and were interested in a dating this person or at least having a second date, and considering the fact that you live 35 miles from this woman and she didn't have a car or even if she did, would you drive to her home to pick her up to go out to dinner or would you expect her to drive half way and meet you? I am talking to a guy with this attitude and I am trying to break some sense into him to change his attitude if he wants to meet someone. I think a gentlemen picks his date up and doesnt' expect her to meet halfway (without it was a long distance, which might be understandable). I say leave the meeting have way for the married men who are having affairs are sneaking around. Am I wrong to believe a guy should come to his date rather than meet halfway?

2007-01-09 06:26:21 · 27 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 06:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 22, he's 38

2007-01-09 06:26:10 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance asked me to move out after a fight on New Years? About a week later she starts talking to me again and says she wants us to start over, take it slow, not talk everyday, go on dates on the weekends. But she also told me she didn't want to make any promises that things were going to work out or we would be together. I asked her if this was just a slow breakup, she said she didnt know. I asked her if we were together, she said she didn't know.
But today I talked to her good friend. Her friend told me that she told her we were together and were going to take it slow and rebuild the relationship.

What are her true intentions? What is she thinking? What manner of game is this? How do I procede?

2007-01-09 06:25:20 · 15 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

I find this very interesting and I am considering experimenting with it.

2007-01-09 06:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by newton_jon 1 in Singles & Dating

Been date rape drugged. Been married and divorced while under such influence. More $ than you can count changed hands but no jury trials? Ten years later the fog has cleared somewhat, but only had 30 days to repsond to child support issues? This has got to be insane. Mean the "wife" gets rich! Got an order to earn $30,000 per year or else; self taught, ended the marriage a cripple after shot. Now can't go to school cause can't support the children of a person made rich by fraudulent marriage? And can't see the children, so don't even know if she's sold them to white slavers? You should read the statutes. Drug dealing "judges" find decoys to mislead us while raping us with law! 2.5 yrs Federal Prison is a nut! 13 months per failure to pay is another nut! They never use it (!), but need censure 'for the kids sake!' Who they kiddin'? They hide robbery & kidnap from the public eye & say its best! Does anyone agree with me the law is corrupt and needs impeachment? How to start the process?

2007-01-09 06:24:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was talking to my friend rose's friend nick on line and she was there telling me if wht he said was true or not. i was beging to like him after an hour we were talking. he seemed really nice and i was in to him. he had to go after about an hour and a half of talking and i told him that he should im me at 9 the next morning and he said he would. i asked him if he would beawake and he siad yes. then i told him i wished he wouldn't go and he said i wished to too. then the next morning at 9 he was not on. i was on for 2 more hours and he never came on. i even went on that night at 9 just incase he got mixed up and he wasn't on either. should i get mad or what? what do you think?

2007-01-09 06:24:43 · 4 answers · asked by princess-of-somany 3 in Singles & Dating

Now that Beyonce is popular??

2007-01-09 06:24:39 · 9 answers · asked by Mizhani 5 in Singles & Dating

My ex bf broke up with me 2 weeks ago. It's weird that he didnt block me on aim since it seems that he wants me totally out of his life. When he broke up with me he was very firm begging me to let him go and stuff. After the break up, the only convo we had was a week ago on aim and he was very cold too. After that I felt akward since both of us are on aim for hours and dont talk to each other. So I let myself disappear by being invisible. Then i noticed that everytime my ex signed in he only stayed for like 5 minutes and then signed off. This is weird b/c when i was visible both of us would be online for hours. I dont know why he does this now. Is it possible that he is looking for me?but he never talks to me when he can see me online. i just wonder why he is doing this sign-on-sign-off trick. Btw, the reason of the break up is he doesnt want a relationship right now, which i believe him. he really has trouble balancing everything in his life.He's a senior in college and i'm his 1st gf

2007-01-09 06:23:53 · 4 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this girl tiffany are doing this dating thing...im dating only her but she is dating me and a kid named justin..but she also is in love with her ex still (they still hang out)..here is my question...she can talk about her ex and justin to me all she wants and i try not to say anything dumb and i bite my tongue...but if i even mention my ex g/f name she flips a jealousy fit on me...why does she do that?

2007-01-09 06:23:15 · 20 answers · asked by piece of work 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's aunt and daughter are staying with us until they get into their new house, that was 3 weeks ago. She only asked for 2 weeks, I can tell this is going to be a problem, but I don't want to get into any more fights over it! What should I do?

2007-01-09 06:22:37 · 3 answers · asked by Eniee 1 in Family

when you just dont ever see eye to eye?

2007-01-09 06:22:16 · 21 answers · asked by *never give up* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 06:22:02 · 2 answers · asked by geordiesteph 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 06:21:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son is 7 yrs on going to be a 8 in the up coming months and very angry about my possible upcoming marriage among other things?.I had my son when i was 19 and in my second year of college he is the son of my first bf and well everything else.I graduated from college as a liberal arts major and buisniess minor.A few months later i went to persue history and become an archeologist after going back to school for 2 more years i did.My parents were a big help through all of this especially watching him.But after i graduated and began working it was hard on my son moving around a lot even spending time in Mongolia but he never had a problem with me dating till my current bf proposed?Now my well behaved child has turned into a monster!

2007-01-09 06:21:34 · 15 answers · asked by Mercedes l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been best friends for ever !!!!!!!

2007-01-09 06:20:45 · 13 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Friends

My radio in my car wont work because I need a code I can't get, I just got a bunch of returns so I will be poor this week(sales), and someone I loved lied to me when they know I hate liars. So what do you do when you had a bad day to fix it?

2007-01-09 06:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love to be naked and want to goto a nude beach really bad but my girlfriend doesnt like the idea. She wont go with and doesnt want me to go. She doesnt understand that it is not for sexual reasons....any sugguestions? Should I go and not tell her? What do you think?

2007-01-09 06:19:02 · 12 answers · asked by idiot_for_a_day 2 in Singles & Dating

2006 was horrible for me, for numerous reasons. I tried to deal with some of it by going into rehab. It worked, for a while. But I stopped the counseling and their meds. I find myself beginning to brood again, to go into my dark places. I have driven past the old haunts, but have not gone in. Yet.

2007-01-09 06:18:17 · 22 answers · asked by desertskieswoman 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2 years younger

2007-01-09 06:17:29 · 34 answers · asked by La'bruha 2 in Singles & Dating