I been hanging out with this guy since October, till now. We have not had any physical contact. No kissing, no hugging, or sex. We have alot in common. I told him that I liked him and was attracted to him. He said he liked hanging out with me and he liked me too. He said, " he never looked at me any other way other being a friend." He still calls me to go out, even though he knows what is going on. Help me please!
2007-01-09 06:27:21 · 13 answers · asked by Delicious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want the relationship to move ahead, you will need to make the first move. Unless, you fear losing him as a friend, which he may also fear.
Let nature take its course and if it was meant to be, it will happen.
If not, consider him a really good friend and look elsewhere for romance.
2007-01-09 06:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Schlump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's telling the truth. Wake up! He's already told you that he has never looked at you in any other way, than a friend. And he has not bothered you for sex either. So there you have it. It sounds like he wants friendship and you want something more from him. Accept him as a platonic friend or move on.
2007-01-09 06:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sam Darren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm well I tell the truth I don't know about the other guys out there.
2016-05-22 23:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he has changed his view on it. Just because he never thought of you any other way doesn't mean that is still true today. He might have enjoyed being your friend because he thought that you were out of league so to speak. Perhaps if you inform him that he in fact has a good chance with you, he will take that chance and you can see where your future will lead.
2007-01-09 06:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling you exactly how he feels. Listen to him. He doesn't see you in a romantic light right now. It may change later but he'll let you know when and if it does. If it is painful for you to be around him because you like him too much, don't hang out with him. It'll be tough in the beginning but it'll get better.
2007-01-09 06:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It very much sounds like all he wants to be at this point is just to be friends. Keep in mind that the best relationships often start off as friends, so try to relax and just take it one day at a time and see what happens.
2007-01-09 06:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have to be friends I guess. If he wanted more, he probably would have told you. I had the same thing happen to me and nothing ever came out of it. We just remained friends and I had to move on. Hope you can do that too. Good luck.
2007-01-09 06:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Mouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you just respect his wishes for a minute? You should be so have to have a "gentleman". Somebody who is not in a hurry to jump into your pants. Enjoy the relationship and allow it to blossom into romance it was mean to be. Thank God for men like him............Geez.
2007-01-09 06:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do YOU want out of this? Do you want an intimate relation with him? Do you want tongue, sex, etc.? Let him know what's up and he can decide for himself. Then you'll know what's up.
2007-01-09 06:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he says and he says he just wants to be friends.He may be gay and not ready to say so.Just be his friend.
2007-01-09 06:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋