He thinks our marriage is fine (so he says), but these are the facts. He started smoking again after having quit for 4 years. He was willing to have sex with me twice in 2006 (I'm not exaggerating...2X). He spends more time avoiding us (two girls 4 & 1) by playing computer games, helping his Mother, or watching TV and movies. I want our marriage to work, but I'm exhausted by the thought that I'm the only one who cares. He ignores me 90% of the time. If I really need him to hear me I have to say (tom tom tom (not real name) like 20 times...then he look over at me). He even had the audacity to say i don't appreciate that he works. I said I do, but everyone works, that would be like me wanting a certificate of appreciation for doing laundry. Do men really think that working is all you have to do to be part of a family? How do you fix a marriage when he thinks its just right? Anyone else have this problem. I plan to leave soon if I can't get my and my kids needs met.
2007-01-09
06:51:43
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Wendy B
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Marriage & Divorce