Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

well weve been friends for 5 yrs in a jr in highschool and she like me i like her but she wont date cause of friendship, i went ahead and assked her to the prom and i havent got a note back yet, so what do u think that means? lol

2007-01-09 07:36:21 · 9 answers · asked by proxy.sk8t3r 2 in Singles & Dating

When we were first married and I graduated from collage I worked off in another town. Both of us had jobs and a house so I just rented an apartment in the town I was working in for 2 years and came home on the weekends. We were 23 and 24 and had only been married for a year. This was because she liked her job and we planed on her keeping it until we sold the house so she could move down with me. Now during this time she told me there was an older man who would come in an flirt with her. I knew she thought he was good looking and she would talk about him sometimes but I did not think anything was going on. Now the other day we were talking about our sex fantasies. We have talked about her being with someone else during sex but it was always just that fanatics and we were clear on that. So she tell me that she has something to tell me if I promise not get upset about it. She proceeds to tell me this guy came over one day during that time and they had sex. I was shocked. She stepped through what happened. She brought up things like her first thought when he showed up was that this was not a good time for this because she had been late one talking the pill a few times that month. And when I ask her what she was thinking as things went along she said at first she was scared but then got so horny she did not care. All the details and the things she said I feel were real. You do not explain made up things like she explained this. After she finished she saw that I was upset not happy about this and then has gone back and forth saying she made it up and then it really happened. I feel that it is true. A lot of things fell into place with what was going on back then. What should I do? We now have 3 kids. To my knowledge she has not done anything like this again.

2007-01-09 07:36:12 · 33 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I left my ex-husband after many years of abuse - emotional, financial, physical, verbal - you name it. He cheated on me with any woman who would have him, witheld money from the family, gave me two venereal diseases, etc. I found out yesterday that he has been telling everyone that I CHEATED ON HIM and that he threw me out. He's told people that I have "mental issues" and all kinds of things that make me look terrible when it was me who kept that marriage together by forgiving and praying that he would change. Now all these people think that it was all my fault.

I know that I should just blow it off and not worry about it, but darn it, I was a good wife and mother and it's not right. There were so many times I should have called the police on him or asked others for help, but I held my tongue so that I wouldn't damage his reputation or career.

Now I want REVENGE. What would you do? I can think of several ways to get him - including losing his professional license and jail

2007-01-09 07:35:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 07:35:44 · 11 answers · asked by fab 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He agreed it was ok, now we we're together,the cell phone rings and is a friend, and he gets upset.Why ? i don't answer the phone.e even told me, tell your friend not to call again.In a serious tone of voice.What should i do or tell my b/f ?

2007-01-09 07:35:23 · 15 answers · asked by lady F 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do I keep talking to my husband’s girlfriend?
Yes my husband cheated on me for almost a year, I finally busted him (I thought something was wrong just never thought the worst...) Well they worked together, he lied about everything.. Even went on a "business trip" umm... I mean it was a trip with her and she thought that since I was Jason’s EX-Wife she would post the pictures of the trip... LONG STORY.. Ok I sum it up...
Well My EX would not confess and kept lying he never thought I would leave him.. But I have filed for divorce... it is almost finale and I kept talking to “his girlfriend" I guess his Ex GF... she says they are not talking... because he lied to her as much as he did to me... This whole thing is a nightmare! I just want to wake up and it all be over!!!

2007-01-09 07:35:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 07:34:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you say, what do these people think about me?

Or do you say, what do i think of these people?

2007-01-09 07:34:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All I see on here so far is what teenagers do. I am terrible at reading the signs that a guy likes me. I am out of school and in the work force and all that. Back in HS. I never noticed anyone. Man or woman. (Otherwise I would be here asking this questions.) Plus I am vissually impaired so that makes things harder when it comes to reading people.

2007-01-09 07:33:21 · 1 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that's a very general question but I'm trying to help my sister. Any advice you can give will be appreciated. I will be emailing her your answers.

2007-01-09 07:32:47 · 14 answers · asked by Cori 3 in Weddings

2007-01-09 07:32:39 · 8 answers · asked by Patienttraffic 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 07:31:53 · 8 answers · asked by toonice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a girl in my class we have become friends , but she keeps calling me Carly ( which I hate , Long story ) Instead of Carla . I have told her once , but I feel embarassed to keep telling her . WHAT do I dooooooo?

2007-01-09 07:31:48 · 19 answers · asked by C 3 in Friends

2007-01-09 07:31:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a friend and I thought we were getting along and having fun and now were not. We are just friends or acquaintances who talk. I wanted to be fun friends but no longer we are. Its just business now. Its a shame.

2007-01-09 07:30:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a caring person who is always trying to help others. I stick up for my friends, am always there to listen when they need a shoulder to cry on, love to give gifts, and always try to care for and help the people I work with. But my efforts are never recognized. Should I just resign myself to the fact that people will never care about me like I care about others?

2007-01-09 07:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by Meghan M 2 in Friends

When is too late?

2007-01-09 07:30:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-09 07:30:26 · 11 answers · asked by Patienttraffic 2 in Singles & Dating

TURNS U ON!!? TOP 5 THINGS!

2007-01-09 07:30:17 · 5 answers · asked by SEXY CRML 3 in Singles & Dating

Last night me and my bro had this big fight over something kind of stupid now that i think about it. But i ended up saying how i hate him and i wish he wasnt my brother Well This afternoon i tried to apologize. and he wouldnt listen i said i was all mood swingy from my period. and he didnt believe i was on my period. And this lead to another fight. What should i do?

2007-01-09 07:29:21 · 10 answers · asked by smartypantsleen 3 in Friends

How do those lovely brides, with their beautiful flowing gowns, the luscious lips and flashing eyelashes, and the sweetest voice in the world turn into complaining, nagging, irritating, maniacs? What happened to that sweet, adorable woman I married? Does ANYBODY know?

2007-01-09 07:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She ignorne me all last week and just sat in her room. I tried making conversation with her and ask her how her day was....but still got nothing. Then FINALLY on Saturday I just came out and asked her if she was mad at me and she said no. Well, she still continues to ignore me?? What should my next move be? Let her be until she comes around? Or talk to her more?? I don't want to be pushy, yet I'm almost over this childish action she's displaying! I can't think of anything I could have done wrong (besides not clean constantly like she does).

2007-01-09 07:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she's going through some harsh times, and the harder i try to show her my support, the faster she pushes me away. She's a really strong, independent woman, and says she'd rather not be with me till things have cooled down a bit, but i still want to show her i care, What can i do? Back off?

2007-01-09 07:28:03 · 14 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

LISTEN PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!....

Listen kk i agree!...School uniforms arent a waste of money but im doing the pros and cons of school uniforms on a very very important speech so if anyone in the world thinks school uniforms are a waste of money please tell me why!

Dont just say...yes they are...
I Need to know why and dont say i agree with school uniforms...or i dun agree with school uniforms....please please pleae tell me why they can be a waste of money...

Even if there not explain why they might/can be!

Thanks Loadsss

2007-01-09 07:27:39 · 4 answers · asked by tickingclocks 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 07:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by Virginia S 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have had a crush on this girl since the 8th grade, we were the best of friends,we talked about everything, and we were super close. then she went out with this guy. i told how i really felt about her, she said she had felt that way about me since we met, but she was going out with this guy so she couldnt go out with me. we stopped talking when they went out. and she finally broke up with her b/f that she has been dating for a 2 years. we just started talking again and there is a concert coming up, so i asked her to it and she said hell yea. but it turns out she is going out with some one else. i dont knw what it means... can you guys help me out?

2007-01-09 07:27:02 · 2 answers · asked by chewbacca0429 1 in Singles & Dating

Any ideas

2007-01-09 07:26:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I currently just broke up with my boyfriend whom I had been dating for 3 years, and I think about him quiet a bit, wonder what he is doing, wonder if he would talk to me if I just show up there, because he doesn't answer his phone, wonder if he would get back together with me? I mean he is all I've known since I moved up here, he has introduced me to his friends, which turned out to be my friends, which I don't know why. We don't hang out much anymore, he has a whole thing with not likeing to go out and see people. And, he goes through these phases where he just won't talk to anyone, even his girlfriend for 2 or 3 months. So, that has me wondering, if he cared about me so much, wouldn't he have ended his phase of not wanting to talk to people, and just talk to me? Or was I not that important? Maybe I just miss the sex?

2007-01-09 07:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Singles & Dating

i need opinions...

a couple years ago I was at 5'8" and 127 lbs, he told me he thought I needed to lose ten pounds. I was an avid runner (20 plus miles a week) and thought I was fine, but it shocked me and sent me into a spiral of crash diets, after which, a year later, I had GAINED ten pounds... then he says to me, he's sorry and he likes me the way I am and he never would say anything like that to any girls, even his friends, so he shouldn't have to me...
so, I kinda doubted he'd really changed. now he still makes remarks like 'if we ever get married, I expect you to stay at the weight I married you at" What do you think??? makes me nervous and feel scrutinized...

2007-01-09 07:25:56 · 42 answers · asked by hiyahowyadoin 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been going out with a fella 4 5years n we r due 2 get married but lets just say hes not very well endowed so much so we dont need protection hs ot exactly great in the bedroom department either and 2 b honest the only bulge he has is his bank balance and wallet. if we marry and he "accidentally" gets sick the money and his assets go 2 me. THIS IS THE ONLY REASON IM WITH HIM. i have recently been bringing random men home 2 our love nest and lets just say i now have a great sex life. i have even been 2 swingers parties etc if i tell my fiancee he would cut me out his will and not marry me. i cant settle down though as i have a high sex drive and will more or less go with anything that comes my way but im not a tart when my fiancee came home from work lastnight i hid one of my lovers in the ensuite and blackmailed my fiancee 2 leave as i was having the most amazing mind blowing sex with this man he said he loves me and i shouldnt marry

2007-01-09 07:25:55 · 55 answers · asked by dellyboppers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships