Last night me and my bro had this big fight over something kind of stupid now that i think about it. But i ended up saying how i hate him and i wish he wasnt my brother Well This afternoon i tried to apologize. and he wouldnt listen i said i was all mood swingy from my period. and he didnt believe i was on my period. And this lead to another fight. What should i do?
2007-01-09 07:29:21 · 10 answers · asked by smartypantsleen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Give him time to not be mad a then apologize to him. A family’s love is strong and he will be fine, he just needs some time to heal.
Remember words are sharper then a two edge sword - things we say can really hurt and effect people - always know your own limits when you get mad so you don't hurt the people you love - sometimes you need to cool off and think about what’s bothering you and then express that to that person - this will allow you to choose your words wisely and you will less likely say things you regret.
Good Luck
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2007-01-09 07:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by Dianna R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time. He's your brother, so you're not going to lose touch with him. Once he's cooled off, you can talk to him, if you see that as necessary. More than likely, once you two speak again, you will just pick up where you left off.
We all get mad and say things we don't mean, so don't get down on yourself for being human. All we can do is try to not lash out like that against the ones we love.
Good luck!
2007-01-09 15:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him some breathing room and in another day or two try making him a special dessert or give him a card telling him how sorry you are and what he really means to you.
2007-01-09 15:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it till tomorrow and then try again, it is normal to argue and say things you don't mean to brothers or sisters but normally things go back to normal.
2007-01-09 15:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him time to cool down first, say you are sorry & that you are glad he is your brother & that you love him, the words i love you dont seem to be said often enough to our parents brothers sisters ect, so tell him you love him and you need each other, life is to short as it is. good luck.
2007-01-09 15:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by lynda w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time perhaps he is still hurt. Discuss it after a few weeks and make up
2007-01-09 15:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you are family.. probably apologize. Blood is thicker than any problem. And family can get through anything.
2007-01-09 15:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mizhani 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Treat him in a normal manner, and try to avoid further unnecessary hurt
2007-01-09 15:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apologize again.
2007-01-09 15:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
do something nice for him and just keep apolgizing over & over.
2007-01-09 15:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by angel_lynn_7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋