I currently just broke up with my boyfriend whom I had been dating for 3 years, and I think about him quiet a bit, wonder what he is doing, wonder if he would talk to me if I just show up there, because he doesn't answer his phone, wonder if he would get back together with me? I mean he is all I've known since I moved up here, he has introduced me to his friends, which turned out to be my friends, which I don't know why. We don't hang out much anymore, he has a whole thing with not likeing to go out and see people. And, he goes through these phases where he just won't talk to anyone, even his girlfriend for 2 or 3 months. So, that has me wondering, if he cared about me so much, wouldn't he have ended his phase of not wanting to talk to people, and just talk to me? Or was I not that important? Maybe I just miss the sex?
2007-01-09 07:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by amazon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went and saw him tonight after I got done at this Martin Luther Kind chili feed at the school I work at, and he said he didn't want sex. But, when I was leaving he grabbed my coat and kissed me. WTF? So, I did the natural thing, made out with him and was going to have sex but then I put my clothes back down and said I'm tired, he asked what I meant by that. I said I'm going home, because I have to work tomorrow, your welcome to come with me. He asked why? I said my bed is bigger then yours. He didn't, and I thought if we have sex will we get back together, because I want to date other people. But, then the question keeps coming to my mind, where will I meet him; not in a bar, that is where I met my one boyfriend I've been with for 3 years. And, he is depressed, but I'm use to that.
2007-01-09 16:12:20 · update #1
I went and saw him tonight after I got done at this Martin Luther King chili feed at the school I work at, and he said he didn't want sex. But, when I was leaving he grabbed my coat and kissed me. WTF? So, I did the natural thing, made out with him and was going to have sex but then I put my clothes back down and said I'm tired, he asked what I meant by that. I said I'm going home, because I have to work tomorrow, your welcome to come with me. He asked why? I said my bed is bigger then yours. He didn't, and I thought if we have sex will we get back together, because I want to date other people. But, then the question keeps coming to my mind, where will I meet him; not in a bar, that is where I met my one boyfriend I've been with for 3 years. And, he is depressed, but I'm use to that, so no worries.
2007-01-09 16:13:38 · update #2
could it be he's a bit depressive? There's a sign that points at you saying you have lots in common with him (his friends turned out to be my friends). Why don't you send him a message or a card, just one, telling him you're wondering how he's doing? No pressure, just ask.
2007-01-09 07:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by MICHAEL G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex sounds like he has some issues. If he's not answering his phone, I wouldn't waste my time. I know after being with someone for three years, it's hard to just let go. You always wonder if you could work things out and make things be the way they used to be. But most of the time, it doesn't work that way. But, if I was you, I would try to talk with him one more time, Either you'll get back with him or you'll have some closure to this relationship.
2007-01-09 15:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know u know men they don't know what they want. since u want to talk to him that much y don't u call him. give him a friendly call and ask him to meet with u.
2007-01-09 15:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probly the sex..
i'd tease him though and if u really miss him..
dont ever think u werent that important..
2007-01-09 15:30:57 · answer #4 · answered by sr438 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask the question-- he's not.
2007-01-09 15:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by shar71vette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋