Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I recently paid for a session with a professional dominatrix. While I won't go into great detail about this session, it was something that I have wanted to experience for a long time and I knew that my wife would not actively participate at home. While I feel very guilty over doing this behind my wife's back, I am wondering if the women out there would consider this as a form of cheating. There was no intercourse or sexual favors exchanged.

2007-01-09 07:56:47 · 31 answers · asked by John D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend wants to get back toget her what do i do

2007-01-09 07:56:17 · 2 answers · asked by Megan L. Rinehart 2 in Singles & Dating

I see my ex just about every single day (unavoidable) I don't want to be friends any longer as I still have feelings for him and need to feel disconnected to get over it. Any advice on how to get some self control and not talk to him as much as possible?! (i hope this makes sense)

2007-01-09 07:56:02 · 4 answers · asked by xoheidixo10 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Or have you blamed it on someone else?

2007-01-09 07:55:30 · 7 answers · asked by Still Standing 4 in Singles & Dating

been called a sl*ut, wh*ore or a sla*g in any of their questions?Or is it just us woman that get the honours?

2007-01-09 07:55:21 · 19 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 07:55:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok heres the story i asked him a question once for the newspaper and i found out he was totally sweet he 11th i am 9th he is in my lunch thats it and it would totally werid if i sat next to him during lunch. so how do i meet him with looking to desperate!!!!!!!!!!! and werid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLZ HELP!!!!!

2007-01-09 07:54:42 · 3 answers · asked by shawn s 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm sorry I have not picked the best answers to all the questions I have been asking. I'm new. A HUGE THANK YOU to everyone for all the answers to the questions I have been asking. Thank you all very much. My job is going great. My husband is moving to Augusta, GA for now and I might join him in 6 months (travel to see him once a month on red eye flight) and see what happens. I don't know if I'm going to move out there yet but I'm willing to try and work on our marriage but live and work here in CA for right now and see him once a month on the weekend, etc. My job is going great. I have been here for 3 days and I have a GREAT boss. Once again, thanks everybody and I will keep in touch! connie

2007-01-09 07:54:42 · 5 answers · asked by cottontail34@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

calling me,also my ex,who calls me because i have kids with him.SO, since i don't keep secrets from my b/f should i tell him that my ex called me and asked me if i had something sexy on and that he wanted to come up to my apt. ??? I want to tell my b/f, but he might react badly.what should i do ? I the same time,i feel
guilty not telling him.PLEASE , tell me , what should i do ?

2007-01-09 07:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know. And I really want to go to this party. what to do?

2007-01-09 07:54:35 · 8 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1 in Singles & Dating

He's such a f*cking annoying dork who I cant stand being around. He sits at my art table, but so do my other friends, and I don't want to sit near him anymore but I still want to sit with my friends. What should I do?

2007-01-09 07:53:53 · 3 answers · asked by bltmr_rvns2006 2 in Friends

i've had just 1 gf and she cheated on me. since then i've never really been with a girl other than some light flirting with a couple of girls i dated (and that was the only 2 i dated.. i'm shy to go out to clubs and stuff and dont have many friends. yet i'm quite good looking, i'm a model and i've met girls who have been contestants at ms world and stuff. what is wrong with me

2007-01-09 07:53:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was seperated and then moved back in with hubby but doesnt have sex with him. We still have a relationship though. What would you do?

2007-01-09 07:52:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well not very often . I mean Where Im from ( London) you get all sorts mixing together to make one big lovely pot . But Ive noticed that Asians just dont seem to be jumping on the band waggon . Why not ? I mean some asian men and women are gorgeous !

2007-01-09 07:52:47 · 15 answers · asked by C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this friend of myne a lot!! I think that he likes me to, BUT he thinks I like someone else!! Then later on last year he told me he likes my friend!!!! But se knows i like him to?? We go to parties together and to movies!! And things that couples do!! That he doent do with this girl 'he likes'!! Does he likes me?? And must i tel him how i feel??? He is like my best friend and our friendship is on the spell!!! What should I do??

2007-01-09 07:52:30 · 16 answers · asked by Alicia 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year, and he recently got this new job . We both go to school and after school he goes into work ... he works 5 days a week and i only get to see him on the weekends. Although i use to see him 4 to 5 times a week. This has been really hard for me. When we talk he never has anything to say to me on the phone he jsut sits there...and he is always so hateful to me i dont know. I feel like our relationship is just falling apart . Its like i use to feel so important to him and now i feel like im just baggage. Does anyone know what I should do?

2007-01-09 07:52:25 · 3 answers · asked by booboo 1 in Singles & Dating

so lately he is blowing wind when he has to take me somewhere. i started finding ways to go when hes not around. so when he does be around i dont have to ask him. cuz i dont want someone to take me somewhere mad. so what should i think about a situation like this?

2007-01-09 07:52:25 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

we both want the divorce but do i need a lawyer or can we just get it done somewhere?

2007-01-09 07:52:04 · 4 answers · asked by urlildolphin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, so in a confusing situation. have spent some time with a very awesome person. we are sleeping together as well and at first it was kind of a "let's just be friends with benefits" type deal..but now i'm a little confused at some of the actions b/c they don't really scream "booty call to me" b/c to me a booty call is someone you call up at like 12:30 at night when you know you've struck out in the bar and still want to get laid (get what ya need and head on out).. so either i'm out of the loop or he's a little interested in more than just sex
-we've spent the night together several nights
-we've spent time together and NOT had sex
-wanted me to call ane let him know i made it home okay
-cooked dinner together, went grocery shopping and even did some pda while buying groceries.
-called a couple of times to just check and see what's going on.

he's been really burnt in the past in relationships and so do you think it's booty call situation or is there some interest

2007-01-09 07:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 07:51:40 · 2 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this boy but i never told him. im not sure if he likes me though. im to shy to tell him i like him. i dont know if he like me or not i dont think he do but u never know any advice

2007-01-09 07:51:39 · 14 answers · asked by Brittany S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 07:51:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems to be socialably acceptible to use pofanity around women, but I was raised not to speak like that around women. So women, what do you think??, do you care if you boyfriend or male friend uses profanity around you???

2007-01-09 07:49:54 · 26 answers · asked by Mattness615 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife found a bra that did not belong to het under our bed. Immediately, she accused me of cheating on her. In a sense I am. You see, the bra is mine and I wear it and other female clothing when no one is home. This time I got careless and did not pack everything up and put it in its "safe place." I am scared to tell my wife that I am transsexual and want a sex change, but I also don't want her thinking that I have been unfaithful. I need advice.

2007-01-09 07:49:48 · 31 answers · asked by John D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know. And I really want to go to this party. what to do?

2007-01-09 07:49:01 · 4 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1 in Singles & Dating

i lost my place and let my son go live with his dad about 6 months ago now he won't give him back what could i do please help i need my baby back

2007-01-09 07:48:52 · 2 answers · asked by MALISSA 2 in Family

2007-01-09 07:48:51 · 15 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i m in board class nd 16 years old.i m in love .is there any way to maintain both studies nd love at same time.though i m not able to meet him but i remember him everytime.i m ok in studies but is it ok?to love nd study at same time at 16.but i really cant help it.tell me what to do?

2007-01-09 07:48:46 · 6 answers · asked by nidhi s 1 in Singles & Dating

and i asked him out and he said he doesn't have time for a girlfriend right now, and i completely understand, b/c he has wrestling and we have homework(he also played football) and NO he's not gay! but girls should understand this feeling, and should i just give up on him?? or should i wait??

b/c yea he might like me, but what should i do??

2007-01-09 07:48:18 · 4 answers · asked by Autumn 2 in Singles & Dating

to make things brief, my bf & i broke up about 6 months ago, but we both couldnt let go- we loved each other too much. we are finally starting to talk again and considering getting back together

but both of us have really changed over these months, and although there is conversation when were together, there are also a lot of awkward pauses. i dont think this is an indication that we wouldnt work, i just think were not yet used to each other like we used to be

part of it is my fault, i cant seem to be relaxed around him. i feel like i need to be an AMAZING gf and win him over completely, and this makes me tense when i talk to him.

so how do i avoid the awkward pauses? every pause makes me less hopeful for our relationship..thanks

2007-01-09 07:47:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships