Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

2007-01-09 23:59:28 · 18 answers · asked by nandkishore 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now and I'm really starting to care for her a lot. I've never felt this way about anyone before and I know we are both in love with each other very much. The problem is, she has a past, and it is really starting to bother me about the stuff she has done before she met me. Don't get me wrong, she hasn't done anything illegal or anything, just relationship stuff, like, she's been married before and stuff like that. I don't know why it bothers me so much but it does and I can't seem to just get over it and it is definitely hampering our relationship over the past couple of weeks. Any advice on how to get over this little 'hump' would be great.

2007-01-09 23:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 23:59:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The other day I noticed my husbands penis was raw around the head, red with peeling. What would cause this? Also last night he faked an orgasm? He said he gets raw like that all the time, but I haven't noticed. What could be up? He says he does not masterbate, could this be signs of cheating? We have sex about 3xs a week,and have been married 2 years. could this be an std?

2007-01-09 23:59:21 · 17 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have met a girl that I could see spending my life with.Weve only gone out a couple of times,but she is what ive been looing for,for a long time.I need to know how to show her that I really like her without scarying her off.Are flowers over the top?any ideas?

2007-01-09 23:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by John G 1 in Singles & Dating

Never had a father in my life to teach this lesson.

2007-01-09 23:58:04 · 6 answers · asked by wordistob 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I am falling out of love with my boyfriend, and I dont know why my mind would do such a thing....Last night every little thing he did bothered me so I just ended up going to sleep.....I couldnt take it anymore....This morning was ok....He woke me up , We made "love" and then he went off to work......I still enjoy his company but I feel like I am falling out of love and that is the last thing that I want...I am supposed to grow old with him :(

Is there any way I can stop all of this?????

PLEASE HELP...PLEASE!!!!

2007-01-09 23:57:05 · 7 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I ma due to be married in June. This week out of no where a row started between my inlaws, although I had nothing to do with this I got the blame. My mother-in-law to be called yesterday telling me that she does not like me and never has. She dosent want to come to our wedding and hopes we break up. She also says I am a bad influence on her son and that I have changed him for the worse. She says her husband and other children all agree with her. My sister-in-law to be has also expressed similar views. I have tried to put my point across but they just reject everything I say as lies. I have done nothing to provove this reaction. I am at my wits end, what can I do his whole family hate me:-(

2007-01-09 23:56:45 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What would you do if you found ur best fren flirting with ur crush?

2007-01-09 23:55:18 · 13 answers · asked by 'perfect' gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have tried many options but still she doesn't seem to appreciate me. Desperately need help!

2007-01-09 23:54:50 · 18 answers · asked by Honey J Crowther 1 in Family

2007-01-09 23:52:56 · 14 answers · asked by becca s 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm an 18-year-old Asian male in college. I'm 5'11 and weigh 180. Should I gain more weight or lose weight? I am actually in the process of bulking up, and I want to add about 20 pounds of muscle. What should I do about my face? I have a somewhat oval face, typical slanted, small Asian eyes, and an ugly nose that reveals my nostrils to a certain degree. I know girls, regardless of ethnicity, don't find my facial features that attractive, but I wish I could do something about it. Ppl say it's the inside, not the outside, that matters, but looks seem to matter a lot. Girls, please give me some advice!

2007-01-09 23:52:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean its 4 of us in the family we all are married but she never comes and stay all night with me and she does the others.What can I do? It hurts me alot.

2007-01-09 23:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 23:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by aabrarhussain 1 in Friends

my mother died when i was 9 i am now 27 and i cant get over it especially that i am a single parent and have a son who is 4, i miss her so much but every year seems to get harder for me. any advice

2007-01-09 23:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by cams 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ME and this guy DAted for 1 month 3 yrs ago-broke up for unknown reason-he's confessed he likes me ALOT after. Then pulled away.VERY complicated story so i'm going to tell the important facts.
He tells me in exact words now; HE WOULD DO ALMOST ANYTHING FOR ME - HE FEELS EXTREMELY CLOSE TO ME-CAN TELL ME ANYTHING- he Jokes I think by saying (you know I still love you: I love you: You know I love you) . says alot of MORE THEN FRIENDS(wink) comment.He says WE WANT THE SAME THINGS-but he can't see it working out LONG TERM? We have Everything in common,Same passions,we laugh all the time.Weve kissed before about 3 months ago.He said he doesn't want to be close friends, cause he's afraid he'll kiss me. He always compliments me, but sometimes he gets defensive.Hes dated other girls in teh time we haven't dated,same with me.
I know he EITHER reallly likes me, or HE is playing with my emotions.
What do you think?

2007-01-09 23:50:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will keep answering to the best of my capabilities. All I want is one person to choose my answer as the BEST.
thankyou so much!!

2007-01-09 23:50:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay last night I took my 15 year old to a basketball game at her highschool her and a friend of hers,so they said they'd get a ride back from a couple of friends. I said fine come straight home(school night),the game was over at 9pm.So she didn't come in until about 11:00pm saying that her friends had to drop some other people off and that she didnt answer her cell cuz it was dead,My husband and I were worried.So we were discussing her punishment and he says you shouldn't let her go to school tomorrow.I of course don't agree with it and said why,he says cuz her and her friends are going to laugh about it in school,I said they can laugh about it tomorrow if they were going to or Friday hell!I don't agree with missing school.If I am going to punish her,I'll find some other from like taking her phone away the weekend for lying and disobeying me!

2007-01-09 23:49:55 · 12 answers · asked by Lin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

this guy is like a nice guy and all i just dont like him as a boyfriend but i really dont want to hurt his feelings so what should i do?????

2007-01-09 23:49:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jordannnn 2 in Singles & Dating

There were some guys chasing me,and they treated me like a princess.However, afterI refused them,only one of them still keep in touch with me,the others don't even want to talk to me when we run into each other.And,i like to make friends with different people from different countries on internet,to know about their cultrues.But many of them asked me for my naked pics,when i said no,they said Goodbye to me.

2007-01-09 23:49:38 · 8 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Friends

Tell me your most embarissing moments, please?

2007-01-09 23:48:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they are TEENAGERS. they havent lived long enough to experience hardships or "depression". the funny part about these "depressed" kids is they claim they have it oh so hard. but being someone who actually had it rough growing up(beat by my coked up dad regularly) and knowing others who've had it hard we dont b*tch about how hard our lives are HALF as much as they do. we are actually more inclined to grow a pair and take charge and make our lives happy the way we want it. no longer under control. so wtf?

2007-01-09 23:48:21 · 5 answers · asked by l337gaurd 1 in Singles & Dating

my mother encouraged me to watch porn as i was growing up. (both my mum & dad do it even now) from the age of about 12 i guess i had a regular diet of the stuff & my dad always gave me his porn mags & films.
when i met my wife she told me her view on porn so i hid it from her. i love her so much & didn't want to lose her.
after we'd been married 18 months she found it under the floorboards, well, her youngest son did, he was 14 then.

i dont know why i even needed it cause our sex life was great, my wife's gorgeous & we experiment with lots of stuff. after that our sex life wasn't so good anymore. like she won't dress up for me now & more often than not she needs a drink or 2 before we can get it on.
i've stopped doing it but keep going back. my wife said if she finds me lying to her once more, thats it we're over.
my mother says it's my wifes hangups that are the problem & she should get over it..i'm beginning to hate my mother
i really dont want to lose my wife over this.

2007-01-09 23:46:58 · 18 answers · asked by pooped_over 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 27 years old, and I'm talking to this guy that's 47 years old. Do you think he's too old for me? He's wallet is also very fat

2007-01-09 23:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that when we think we love someone(infatuation,lust) we can fall in love with the idea with falling in love?

2007-01-09 23:44:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 23:43:57 · 8 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Friends

Ok. My boyfriend is obsessed with video games. He'll stay up till 5 in the morning. He's a full-time college student on vacation for two more weeks (lives on campus two hours from my house) so he's just chillin here at my home(he plays games from the minute he wakes up to when he feels sleepy). So he either cuts his video game playing time in half or he has no girlfriend by the time he goes back to college. So any suggestion to what he can do around the house, any activites. Anything! Help!!!!!!!!! or He's gone.

2007-01-09 23:41:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 23:40:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we take it for granted that our doctor is the best but then when you end up in the ER,several times after doing what your doctor said I think there is something wrong don't you?

2007-01-09 23:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by heavenlyangelscent 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have recently met this guy and things have been great...he is quite shy and all which is okay by me.here comes the problem...he is always talking about his mate...like most of the time...i thought that it was okay at first but am starting to thing wrong...like could he be gay or sth????plus he is sooo clean and neat and does the dishes and cooks breakfast for his mate at times...and gets ticked off by things like twisted phone cords and petty stuff like that...am i on the right thinking track or am i just overreacting and reading into something that is really nothing..??
guys your response is very much needed here
p.s if your craving to be rude do it on some other question page...not here damn it!!

2007-01-09 23:38:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating