I feel like I am falling out of love with my boyfriend, and I dont know why my mind would do such a thing....Last night every little thing he did bothered me so I just ended up going to sleep.....I couldnt take it anymore....This morning was ok....He woke me up , We made "love" and then he went off to work......I still enjoy his company but I feel like I am falling out of love and that is the last thing that I want...I am supposed to grow old with him :(
Is there any way I can stop all of this?????
PLEASE HELP...PLEASE!!!!
2007-01-09 23:57:05 · 7 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
LOL @ "made love".....you don't have to have those "butterfly" feelings all the time......this is typical of an ongoing relationship. It doesn't mean you're falling out of love with him, it just means that your relationship is progressing. This is normal!
2007-01-10 00:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some time away from each other. I don't mean a seperation. I mean just a weekend visit with a sister or someone like that. Or maybe a romantic night out with just the two of you. I've been married for 12 years. You have to spend some time apart and you have to do some special things together. If you don't then it gets 'boring' and you might start to have feelings like that.
2007-01-10 08:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you make any big decisions, take some time apart. He will be hurt, but I am sure he will understand. I think that at a point in every relationship, you feel like that. Then you realize you were wrong. Your obviously do love him, so tell him how you feel. But make sure you tell him you still love him, you just need to gather your feelings to see what you really want. Best of luck.
2007-01-10 10:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, evaluate yourself do you still love and care for him just like before? then find out the answer and make it sure you're doing the right thing for both of you. don't compare him to others becaused that will destroy your relationship,accept him just the way he is and mostly be honest to each other always have a heart to heart talk about everything. everything will be just fine.
2007-01-10 08:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you two need to talk. good communication is a needed here. open your hearts to each other. you may discover some things that will help!
2007-01-10 08:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Christy E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him about your feelings Hon. He may not even realize what he did upset you.
2007-01-10 08:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Erica R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like menopause...how old are you?
2007-01-10 08:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋