I mean its 4 of us in the family we all are married but she never comes and stay all night with me and she does the others.What can I do? It hurts me alot.
2007-01-09 23:52:29 · 9 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I ask her to come to my house all the time. 2 or 3 times a day I will ask and it is still no. I Love her with all my heart and always will.....
2007-01-10 01:52:48 · update #1
YES, please don't be discouraged by her not staying. There may be many variables for this. Are you the youngest? Maybe she is pressured by one or more of your siblings to stay when she may not actually want to. Who lives closer? Do you have kids? Hard to admit to...but it happens to the best of us: is your place messy or lack of space?
Pay a personal visit to you Mom and have a heart to heart talk, just you and her.....always bring your Mom some flowers or something nice.
But I am more than certain that she loves you!
2007-01-10 00:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned that the only way to know what someone is thinking or feeling is to ask them. Maybe you could pose it this way..."gee Mom, I feel hurt that you stay over everyones house but mine. Is there something I could do to make you want to stay at my house too?" I would really like it if you stayed at my house once in a while too. And, maybe tell her you love her, because the things we want to hear from people, we have to give to them also. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-10 00:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Linny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to your mom, Mom I've noticed that you spend time at the other family house but not at mine-could you tell me why?
Then you would be clear on Why she does what she does.
Also you can ask her that you would really like it if she does spend overnight at your house. That would give her the opportunity to accept /decline.
Maybe the problem is that you've never asked.
2007-01-10 00:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix up an area for her and invite her. Tell her in the invitation that since she hasnt ever come and stayed you are really looking forward to her visit. I doubt if its intentional that she hasnt come and stayed maybe she is just waiting for an invite.
2007-01-09 23:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your mom will always love you. If you want her to stay the night at your home, ask her to! I'm sure she will.
2007-01-10 00:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tami H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, you cant continue like that forever.. i know it is awkward at first but you'll get that hurt out of you in the long run. there's nothing wrong in having a personal conversation with her.
2007-01-09 23:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by AutumnMemoirs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her maybe it hurts her to see you like that
i don't know the ages or situation of the others
best thing to do is sit down and talk
2007-01-09 23:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you invited her??? Perhaps you need to ask the difficult question of her...
2007-01-09 23:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be a problem, u must ask here first
2007-01-09 23:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋