Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Me and my boyfriend go to bed, he waits for me to go to sleep and then he gets up and uses the computer and goes into chat rooms, and he also has a bebo page and ive found out that he chats up other women! I found comments last night from one woman and they have swapped mobile numbers and he was talking dirty to her over msn I know this because i have been into his bebo page and read all his comments. ( bebo is another myspace) I cant confront him because he will know that i have his password and i wont be able to keep an eye on him if i stay with him after this. He always tells me he loves me and i stop round his every night. We are both 21. What am i going to do? Is it worth confronting him and ending the relationship. Or does everyone deserve a second chance?

Please help. Much apprecaited.

xx

2007-01-09 20:08:25 · 23 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies and gentlemen, please help.
I am meeting my ex for a friendly drink for the first time in five months. Unfortunately, I am not quite over him yet......
Basically, we are just meeting in a pub for a drink and a chat to catch up. I am not sure what to wear.
I want him to think that I look great, but I do not want to overdo it and look as if I'm trying too hard, because that just screams out ''I am not over you, but I am desperate for you to think I am!''.

2007-01-09 20:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i think im falling in love with the guy that i know who doesn't love me.

2007-01-09 20:05:54 · 4 answers · asked by claire d 1 in Singles & Dating

A coworker borrowed a movie for like 2months I ask for it many times to no avail. I gave her the silent treatment and then she gave me an email with this: " I was smart enough to figure out that your silent treatment today, or should I say your childish display today, had to do with your precious movie. So, I will have your movie in the office tomorrow. Please do not mistake my bringing it back as a sign that I was saddened to have you ignore me today. On the contrary it was one of the best days I have had at work for a long time so please, feel free to continue on that path."

2007-01-09 20:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by reme14u 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my boyfriend has been on and off he has hurt me in the past and i always say yes to takin heim back then a day later hes dumps me .i love him to much to let him go.

2007-01-09 20:04:26 · 11 answers · asked by teri c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 20:03:16 · 5 answers · asked by DIAL-A-DICK 1 in Family

What do you think of them and why?

2007-01-09 20:02:45 · 14 answers · asked by The Pig! 5 in Friends

I've been seeing this guy for 4 months now, and I'm absolutely in love with him, and he says he loves me too. Sometimes during our phone conversations, out of the blue he'll just ask "why do you love me?"...and everytime, I don't know why I haven't made myself ready for this question yet, but it catches me off guard..and even though I know all the qualities I love in him, I can't think of anything to say, and I get flustered, nervous...and dont even want to respond?...I feel really bad, like I'm a little kid again or something. This is not really an urgent question...but can someone help me?

2007-01-09 20:02:44 · 14 answers · asked by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 20:02:28 · 13 answers · asked by DIAL-A-DICK 1 in Family

I wonder, what makes a guy like a girl? Maybe I can learn so i can please. Make my future man happy.

2007-01-09 20:02:24 · 15 answers · asked by pretty shy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 20:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 19:59:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly 2.5 years, but only "Serious" for about a year.Recently, he has made me part of his family, his brother & sister are good friends of mine and his dad calls me his daughter some days. His friends are my friends too...but we are both at extremely stressful points in our lives and he is out of town alot working for his dad's company. Just recently, we have gotten extremely close, but along with that, everyone has been asking us if we are getting married...including family. He told me he is considering marriage to me, and I just froze. The day I met him I knew I wanted to spend my life with him, but all of a sudden, I am terrified? What's wrong with me?

2007-01-09 19:58:57 · 16 answers · asked by rissagirl05 2 in Weddings

I m involved with my gf in sexual relationships due to which she has lost her virginity, so if there is any possibility to regain Virginity then let me know

2007-01-09 19:58:00 · 13 answers · asked by mani786_mani 1 in Singles & Dating

I currently have a situation with a guy. I toke his virginity while at college. We have become really close and are currently on christmas break from college. He is now moving to LA to become a model and not coming back to college. I just recently found out he is going on a DATE with a girl this weekend, that I found out who is absolutely gorgerous. I know we don't have a title. I live in the United States but have a boyfriend in London. My boyfriend does not know about the other guy. But having a boyfriend that lives so far away is hard. Should I be jealous of my guy seeing another girl? How should I react to this situation?

2007-01-09 19:57:45 · 3 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

we just started talking on the internet
i am the aide for a teacher she has
and she is in the class before the one im in
anyways we've been talking and
its been an ongoing joke how she ran
out of goldfish the snack and she wants
me to buy her more cause she ran out
haha so she was like sooo see you tomorrow?
and kept on like hinting really hard that i should
get her a box of goldfishh and bring it to her tomorrow .......... so what do you think? and what should i do? i know this sounds really dumb haha but i just want to make sure there is no like bad sign of something or etc.
thanks for your time.

2007-01-09 19:57:11 · 4 answers · asked by jeff c 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 19:54:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend has been bugging me and keep on asking me again and again about the guys who have a crush on me and ends up being sarcastic and mad even at times. he's always jealous and i ended up cancelling my account with myspace. now i have a new account and he's the one i can message, i can't add male friends who've been very nice to me. what's the best way to deal with this?

2007-01-09 19:53:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

From the start she has told me that she is in the process of a divorce but that was 11 mo. ago and I haven't seen any signs of it. I have even met her husband and that was weird since he knows about us and seemed casual about the whole thing. Is it me or is this kind of creepy? she is 45 and I 39. Maybe she just enjoys the great sex we have and the financial stability from being with her husband, i.e. she is using us both. I sometimes wonder if this is better since I don't want her to leave her husband for me but I feel I deserve better. I do love her and she says she loves me but what do I look forward to? Girls, I need your help here.

2007-01-09 19:53:53 · 12 answers · asked by hawkeye1248 1 in Singles & Dating

I talked to him online in Septermber of 2001 and we are stil talking to eachother and we've been on and off with eachother in the last year. We were i guess together and for the 4 years we were together we talked on the phone and online almost every day. When i broke up with him in Oct. Of 2005 I left him for a guy here in California and it turned out bad. He got a Girlfriend there and that went bad for him too. He's been dating around and i've been just been going to college and working on my degree. I don't know what to do anymore I love him and he says he loves me but we're so far apart and we're both scared of meeting eachother. I don't know what is ever gonna happen to us. Recently he confessed to me that my weight was a problem to him and i have been so confused about my feelings and I'm unsure of what i should do or even say to him. He says he still loves me but he gets hot and cold all the time. Him and I have been through a lot and i just don't know what to do.

2007-01-09 19:53:04 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet_Agony 1 in Singles & Dating

Ofcourse, the first remark would be, "Only the kind you date." Or "not me and my friends." Sure there are exceptions to every rule, but I've dated everything from Black, White, Asian, Africans, Iranians and ofcourse my favorite Latinas; And White girls are the easiest. A lot of people get angry when I say that, but it's true. And no, i don't date fat chicks, nor do I date ugly ones; I'm very picky.

The truth is, Men of every race like easy.

2007-01-09 19:52:58 · 6 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Singles & Dating

...... whos a decade younger than me? Over 19, and I'm not interested! What do these crazy kids go for these days?

2007-01-09 19:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I faced somany problems in life and learnt to take life easy.
But this is hurting me a lot.
i have a friend (Male). We became vclose from 6 months. I thot him to be very good. But from a friend i realised he is a great flirt and very fond of girls. I said him strongly not to talk to me anymore.
But the problem is i am unable to forget him. It's killing me.
What can i do now?

2007-01-09 19:51:53 · 8 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 19:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by John D 1 in Singles & Dating

Do women push away men when they are depressed? Or does it make you want a person more. What are some symptoms of depression that you have had? Trying to figure out if my ex was depressed, crazy, liked someone else, or all three.

2007-01-09 19:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 19:45:44 · 8 answers · asked by mon 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 19:45:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually i really love a guy who looks beter than me, he says that he wants a beautiful girl as his partner

i really love him and feel bad that i m loosing him because of my not so gud looks

2007-01-09 19:44:02 · 12 answers · asked by ann 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl who I work with, who I like a lot. She is foreign, and 2 years older than me. On the other hand, I am her supervisor. She will only be able to work with us until the end of the semester, but I think she is amazing, and would like to get to know her better.

I don't know if she's into me, but she is always following me on my rounds, and we talk about relatively intimate subjects. That could just be the fact that my co-supervisor treats her like crap. Anyway, are there any signs I should look for, in order to determine whether or not she likes me? Any idea whether or not this could work out?

My biological clock is ticking! Just kidding, but there is a dance at the end of the month that I could take her to . As you can see, I am very confused! Any help please!?!

2007-01-09 19:43:52 · 4 answers · asked by Benny 2 in Singles & Dating

In classes i sit with some people who i think will include me...and then, no one talks to me, not even the people who i thought would include me...i get really embarrased because its easy for everyone around me to notice that i've barely got any friends. what should i do to make it less noticeable?

2007-01-09 19:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends