From the start she has told me that she is in the process of a divorce but that was 11 mo. ago and I haven't seen any signs of it. I have even met her husband and that was weird since he knows about us and seemed casual about the whole thing. Is it me or is this kind of creepy? she is 45 and I 39. Maybe she just enjoys the great sex we have and the financial stability from being with her husband, i.e. she is using us both. I sometimes wonder if this is better since I don't want her to leave her husband for me but I feel I deserve better. I do love her and she says she loves me but what do I look forward to? Girls, I need your help here.
2007-01-09 19:53:53 · 12 answers · asked by hawkeye1248 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very creepy.
Honestly, if she really loved you she would have gotten that divorce a long time ago. Are they even separated? Is she living with you or him. If she is still in his home I believe you are wasting your time with her.
But if you really believe in your heart that you guys are in love, wait it out and see.
2007-01-09 20:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by sweetnbitter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will not leave her husband. You have to decide if it is a married woman that you wish a relationship. And think about it, would you want to marry her? She's already cheating with you. Do you think this is the first and last time that will happen? Take a step back and take a look at the whole picture.
2007-01-10 04:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO.. and you're worried about the amount of partners she's had? Perhaps you are not the first of her little love triangles eh? If the hubby is still supporting her financially, i'd be worrying about when he wants to join in.
2007-01-10 03:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you yourself might have a problem with commitment considering that you are dating a woman who is committed to someone else. "No strings attached" if you know what I mean. She obviously isn't a loyal person considering her married status, so how can you expect her to be completely honest with you? Are you sure you want to take such a risk since you are sleeping with her? I wouldn't!
2007-01-10 04:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl but I can tell you from personal experiance get out of it and get out of it quickly.It will not turn out well. Love is a verb you can find another woman and fall in love. just make sure shes not married.
2007-01-10 03:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by xgreenerx2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky her, that husband doesn't seem to mind.
You deserve better though, but seems to me that you quite like the situation and feeling used.
2007-01-10 03:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by SOL SIREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the husband can't get it up any more and he wants his wife to be happy. I don't think you deserve to be used in this way find someone that cares for you.
2007-01-10 04:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh what tangled webs we weave when at first we practice to deceive. Your in deep!
2007-01-10 03:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by Timothy S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mr. LoverMan: Let her go- You find someone, who is NOT married. You want someone who only wants to be with you. She doesn't.
2007-01-10 03:58:49 · answer #9 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she most likely will not leave him for you..better just move on cause you do deserve better :)
2007-01-10 03:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋