Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

i tend to get tongue tied around guys (thats around my age ) , even when i dont have a crush on them ..especially if im alone and theres a couple of guys .. why ? im not a shy kinda gal ..this starts occuring when im 2nd yr in college but before that like in high school , im not at all nervous . What should i do ? Does anyone experience this before ?

2007-01-09 22:18:35 · 25 answers · asked by Cassie 3 in Singles & Dating

I always get Girls asking me why they cant find a nice man like me? Im single and they know that but always ask that question, am i invisible straight after they ask or is there a different planet between there ears!

2007-01-09 22:18:24 · 29 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Singles & Dating

resently she has been with lots of difffrent coloured lads she likes them and i dont want her to get hurt but she tell me to keep out of her buisness and they treat her badly please help;

2007-01-09 22:15:58 · 13 answers · asked by teri c 2 in Singles & Dating

My G friend was 10 days late on her period and there was a brief moment of OH MY GOSH WE COULD BE HAVING A BABY! but period made a fashionably late arrival this morning. that's GOOD news, I have a student loan to pay off, we're early 20's and not ready to get married etc etc we both know it would have been BAD timing for a baby, but she seems a little bit disappointed? girls is this normal?? what should I do???

2007-01-09 22:15:30 · 13 answers · asked by surf_skate_sun 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently wrote a letter to the man I was sleeping with a letter to ask him some questions as to why he up and left a perfectly good frienship and have not recieved a response. what could this possibly mean?

2007-01-09 22:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found pictures of my boyfriends ex girlfriend on our computer, i only looked at one but she was standing with her breasts on show and no face, i confronted him about it and he has apologised, but we have been together over 2 1/2 years, and i know he has looked at these pictures on more than one occasion, this is very distressing to me because this was a girl he had an affair with while he was engaged to his ex, and in the end it broke their elationship up, he saw this girl on and off for five years, he says he no longer has feelings for her, and before he knew that i had found out about the pictures he had broken the disk they were on, this was a few days before christmas and i am still annoyed and very hurt over it, i know that men have thoughts of other women but it gets a little more serious when its someone that he has a past with. He insists that i am the only one for him, but why would he be looking at these pictures? What should i do?

2007-01-09 22:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend has always been boring to be around, but in bed she is a beast. My wife has recently become suspicious I think, though she has not said anything specific. She says stuff when there's a cheating partner on tv like "that's awful" and then she looks at me and I say yeah and then she looks at me for another second or two.

So I need to find a way to dump my girlfriend, but I want to keep her for sex at the same time. I just can not afford to take her out in public anymore in case my wife hires a PI to follow me, etc.

At first I was just her sugar daddy but now she says she loves me & I've been promising to leave my wife for a while... but my wife is really the one that makes all the money I give her, so I can't divorce her or that would dry up.

So how is the best way to let a girl down easy but keep her for sex? Thanks.

2007-01-09 22:14:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong, I do like it a bit. confidence in small doses is fine, and confidence when in a friendship/relationship that is mutual and both people feel completely comfortable is fine.

All I see on here is people saying that confidence is the biggest turn on, or the most attractive personality trait. I really do not think so. It has put me off people in the past. Confidence can be a persons cover, their way of masking over things. It can also be a comparable thing. 'look how good I am compared to ...'. It can also be just plain ego boosting bull ****.

I personally like peoples weaknesses as well as their strengths. But if they cannot see them thereselves or do not have any, I get bored.

2007-01-09 22:14:13 · 7 answers · asked by As You Like It 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 22:14:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my b/f of 6 years last year. Since then ive meet a lovely guy who treats me so well and is often doing little things round the house for me, ive never been treated so well. At the start s*x was pretty good but recently its gone totally downhill. He never seems to be horny and cannot come from hand or blowjobs. When its comes to me he now seems to make very little effort to turn me on. I really like him and would love to fall for such a nice guy but i find myself gettin so bored and it starting to make me loose confidence in my sexual ability. Ive never had a problem making a man come b4 him :( What should i do???

2007-01-09 22:13:35 · 7 answers · asked by Mind ur business!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 22:13:02 · 6 answers · asked by sach 1 in Friends

i want know how to tell some one about me

2007-01-09 22:12:46 · 3 answers · asked by vinod m 1 in Friends

She wants me to call her and say love things so we can go back out. she also wants me to leave my thugs and friends so i can spend all my time with her

Should i do this?
what do you think of this?

2007-01-09 22:10:15 · 17 answers · asked by EZ 3 in Singles & Dating

Men appreciates women by all the occasional romantic dinners, flowers etc, but women is constantly supportive of him, and appreciates him in other ways on a daily basis. So, who gives more? Women or men?

2007-01-09 22:10:10 · 14 answers · asked by Natasha H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 22:09:50 · 23 answers · asked by swetha 1 in Family

I'm 18and I'm gay. I went out with guys this week. But I think I have to choose one because it's not right. So I have to dump one but I don't know who should I dump. I want opinion from all of you guys.

First guy is really good-looking. He is really attractive and He got the most cute smile. But he's personality is kind of bad. He makes me uncomfortable. he said "You can't put your pants tomorrow if you eat butter like that."And He said really mean jokes about not manly gay guys. I think I should this guy who I bump but he is so so cute. It's like my all kind of sexual fantasy is in him.

Second guy is not attractive. (I don't want mean...but he is little fat.) But he has really really sweet persnality and homor. He is really funny. He makes me laugh so much. Spend time with him is the best time I ever felt. And he really cares about me.

So It's pretty much about two guys.
Who should I dump? (I think I should dump first guy, but I'm not sure. I want a lot of opinion.)

2007-01-09 22:07:59 · 10 answers · asked by esprit967 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok yeah yeah im sure its time for the barrage of fetish comments but lets try and avoid those because I have already accepted the fact I most likely have a mild fetish. So without sugar coating anything... why do I find women who have soft pretty feet appealing to me? Is it because on some level I might be thinking "any woman who takes care of her feet takes care of herself"? Also I have noticed that if a woman has large yet soft and supple feet that its even more of a turn on. Like if a woman has some size 11 or 12 feet I cant help but look lol. Ok does anyone else have any ideas where this can stem from? Do you all think its disgusting? Slightly odd? Normal? Does anyone else have this going on with them? As for the women do any of you find this disgusting or do you find it common in alot of guys? Anyways have a nice day everyone.

2007-01-09 22:06:50 · 7 answers · asked by dragoneye814 2 in Singles & Dating

he always does anything and every thing to please me, this saturday i have arranged to go to the cinemar with him but my dad is having a bbq how can i let him down?

2007-01-09 22:06:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for about 4 weeks now and we have a great time together - chemisty is great - we have not had the girlfriend/boyfriend chat yet and I am starting to feel a bit vunerable about it all and not so great. I do not intend to bring it up with him as worried about him running for the hills/me making fool of self etc. I am wondering if I should try and cool off the sex for a bit and see what happens? any views are welcomed!

2007-01-09 22:06:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 22:06:10 · 10 answers · asked by seema a 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 22:04:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that I don't seem to go well with brown girls? I am south asian/Chinese, although I like every girl, it seems the brown girls I meet are exclusive to their own, if they're Guju they'll only date Guju, Tamil only Tamil, etc. All the brown girls I've been in relationships with end very badly; I grew up in a brown community and absolutely love brown girls. Is this a racial thing? or is it something else? Plus I don't see too much brown/asian love in my city and I live in a very multicultural city.

2007-01-09 22:04:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you get served by someone from the family court with divorce papers , and you sign the piece of paper he asks you to sign, does that mean you are just acknowledging that you have received it? or signing that you agree to the divorce that if you dont reply to the 20 day dealine, the divorce goes through?

2007-01-09 22:04:20 · 11 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

not suspicious?

2007-01-09 22:03:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have two years together but now she started cheating on me. when i confront her she say she does all that because she was lonely we don't stay in one place should i believe it she say she loves me she is just passing time with them.

2007-01-09 22:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Tshepiso 1 in Singles & Dating

come on...disprove this saying...i dare you...;0)

2007-01-09 22:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just want to know that is it possible for girls to turn into boys?? i heard that this is possible by sex transplant...but some says that even if you sex transplant you wont be able to have a baby with the opposite sex is this true??

2007-01-09 22:01:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this guy friend at work and we get on really well. We've been out as mates for like pictures etc. Thing is i really like him and i just get this feeling that he likes me too. Problem is he's been talking recently about girls and he wants to find someone, and if theres an attractive girl on a picture or tv he'll say she's nice etc. And he's on about going to a nudist beach (for the obvious!) but i don't know if he's saying all this just to see what my reaction is or if he's serious. I mean is he just trying to make me jealous? It's working if he is cos it makes me feel horrible, but the thing is as soon as i say i like someone etc it's as if he don't like it he goes all quiet and that. Like the other day i said ooh find me someone like Johnny Depp and he kind of turned away and said he wouldn't be good enough! He's very mature and only jokes around for fun not because he's immature, i just don't know what to think, i mean if i made the first move what things could i do?

2007-01-09 22:00:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 21:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 21:56:58 · 15 answers · asked by nazmur r 1 in Friends