I broke up with my b/f of 6 years last year. Since then ive meet a lovely guy who treats me so well and is often doing little things round the house for me, ive never been treated so well. At the start s*x was pretty good but recently its gone totally downhill. He never seems to be horny and cannot come from hand or blowjobs. When its comes to me he now seems to make very little effort to turn me on. I really like him and would love to fall for such a nice guy but i find myself gettin so bored and it starting to make me loose confidence in my sexual ability. Ive never had a problem making a man come b4 him :( What should i do???
2007-01-09 22:13:35 · 7 answers · asked by Mind ur business!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be he's stressed about something in his life. Maybe a work issue or something he hasn't told you about. Or could be a health issue. Given your statement where you say he cannot climax receiving a ******* makes me think it's a health issue.
Age hasn't been mentioned here so i'm thinking the guy is younger than 40.
I get alot of younger couples in counseling sessions, this isn't an uncommon situation. However, i've seen where many of the younger men went to see a doctor and found out they had Diabetes which can cause Erectile Disfunction. But even if a guy doesn't have this problem he should still be able to *** while receiving a *******.
2007-01-09 22:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear,sex is important only wen u're married n even if u're sex should not b d order of d day bcos too much of it can affect u mentally n u'l not b able think straigth.And if u're a single though u're engaged but dont make the mistake because d man dat claimed to hav love wil turn to be ur greatest enemy.Also consider d risk in contacting sexual diseases.thanks
2007-01-09 22:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Folajimi Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try analingus. It's awesome and it never fails. Heck, he might even reciprocate. I wish my wife would do the same thing. The longer you stay together, the kinkier it should get.
2007-01-09 22:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Allen T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--I don;t know you--but i;m almost positive your not the problem----he never seems tobe horny---he never comes on to you---he can not come from a hand job or a ********--this is scary--the worst ******** i ever got--WAS GREAT--yes he;s the problem---talk to him abouy this---i;m sure theres a simple solution to his problem--good luck girl.
2007-01-09 22:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
S*x is not important, it's basically for love making and having kids.
2007-01-09 22:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with him and talk it out. Its actually very simple.
2007-01-09 22:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. See what he thinks about it and if there is something that you can do to change the way he is.
2007-01-09 22:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋