we have two years together but now she started cheating on me. when i confront her she say she does all that because she was lonely we don't stay in one place should i believe it she say she loves me she is just passing time with them.
2007-01-09 22:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by Tshepiso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her words say she loves you her actions prove that she doesn't. Actions always speak louder than words. Move on with your life.
2007-01-09 22:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by The Pig! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I really loved someone and they told me they were cheating, I would see if it could be worked out first. I know that years ago I was dating someone and the person told me that they cheated months after it happened. I had no clue it was going on. I forgave them and we were okay. It depends on how much you love them. Just because someone cheats doesnt mean that you need to end everything. That is what life is all about, working on issues and solving problems. Life isnt a story book, there are real things that have to be worked out at times.
2007-01-10 14:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dragon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. She's just not right for you if she can't stay loyal. There's definitely someone better for you! It will be hard to break off the relationship because you do love her very much but what's the point of being in a relationship if she can't stay with one person? What if she is "just passing time" with you? That's just my opinion. Good luck with everything.
2007-01-10 06:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by falala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not believe her. She is trying to get the best of both worlds without the comittment. If she is your girl friend then it should be exclusive and cheating is termination of this relationship....no questions asked.
2007-01-10 06:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she says its because she's lonely so spend more time with her.but loneliness does NOT give her the right to cheat, so you need to set a limit, tell her if she does it again it's over. if she doesn't do it again you know that she loves you. if she does, it means that she doesn't deserve you-although you might be heartbroken-MOVE ON.
2007-01-10 06:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by shawna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is patient.
if she loves you, ask her stop her adultery. if she continues.. she might have feelings for you but they are not strong enough to end her "habit" of cheating.
also, don't neglect her. take time to show that you appreciate her. she might be thinking that this is the only way to grab your attention. flowers? little surpirses? telling her and taking time to talk about the life you two are leading? little things go a long way..
2007-01-10 06:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by impasse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What AA said. Try to work it out if you think she really loves you and you really love her. It happens sometimes, like if she was really drunk. Give it another try if she had a believable excuse and she really loves you. If she does it again, break it off.
2007-01-10 17:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by tarzan428 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yu need 2 get somtins clear here don't be blinfolded by emotions yu need to aslk yurself if she's just making friends or dating, to me I felt if she really loves yu she wont be cheating on yu irrespective of the distance.
2007-01-10 06:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by bolawatomy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is desparation.....not love....Thids girl does not care about you...stop wasting your time and move on..
2007-01-10 06:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mechelle C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋