She wants me to call her and say love things so we can go back out. she also wants me to leave my thugs and friends so i can spend all my time with her
Should i do this?
what do you think of this?
2007-01-09 22:10:15 · 17 answers · asked by EZ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i personally feel that talk it out wid her u can give her more time than ur friends but not all ur time .............u cant just leave ur friends 4 her .ask her wud she do this ??????
can she leave her friends and be wid u ........to be happy and together it has to mutual i srsly dont thinku shud sacrifice all that ..and if she actually cares abt u then it shudnt b like" i want him "in stead she shud believe in watever u do u shud be happy.....u can get a gf again but old friends will never b the same and ur goin to regret that...........
i think its stupid of her to ask 4 so much ..whereas sayin love things ...................actions speak louder than words!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 22:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about what SHE wants, it's about what YOU want.
If you don't want to say love things to her, if you like to be with your thug friends, then don't call her.
It's your life, do what YOU want!
2007-01-10 06:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave your thugs and friends, spend time with both your friends and your girlfriend evenly so you're all happy.
2007-01-10 06:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do whatever you wish to do. She can't just boss you around like that. A relationship will never last if it is like that. Take some time to think about what YOU want, not what she wants. Then do what you want. If she is not happy about it, then she is not ready to be in a relationship because a relationship is not all about her, it is about what you want/need, too. Good luck.
2007-01-10 06:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by falala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an immature relationship.Calling and saying "love things" should come more naturally and spontaneously between two people in love, don't you think?
Two people in love don't mean you leave everyone behind and go live on an isolated island on your own BUT be aware of priorities, meaning who is more important.A nice relationship would mean accepting each other's friends as long as those friends don't seek to destroy you.
2007-01-10 06:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then you should try leaving your thug friends.
2007-01-10 06:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Gabriela I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you know you're boys. Girlfriends only act the wat they need to until they get you in position. Then they turn into Goldlust all of a sudden. Do yourself a favor and rid yourself sooner than later.
You know if you were a guy that didn't like your girl's friends, they would call you emotionally abusive btw.
2007-01-10 06:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do this what she want to for short time and then she would understand that she also want to meet her friends too and you will have some free space ;)
2007-01-10 06:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by mrozonek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to make her happy and u really love her than I'd say do it. But if not don't bother.
2007-01-10 06:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right for you; don't allow anyone to pressure you into changing. If you change for her, it won't last. Only changes you want, because you want them, will last. Hope this makes sense to you. Good luck!
2007-01-10 06:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋