Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Im so tired of the guys that i date and i know what my problem was-i was enjoying been chased and chasing.I love the game but realize that im not gona get anywhere with guys like that in my life.Realisation that players just dont do it for me.So how do i meet guys besides going on line,going to clubs or church?I just want to meet an ordinary guy that can love me as much as i love him.

2007-01-09 22:49:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the best valentines present for your boyfriend???

2007-01-09 22:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Singles & Dating

she is always hurting my feelings and i can't really talk to her cause she backstabs me . She gets mad when i call and ask for my dad , and not her. i only talk to my dad cause he doesn't treat me bad . i've tried telling my dad what she does but he doesn't want to hear it . what should i do ?

2007-01-09 22:46:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If you could have an hour this afternoon just to please yourself - what would you do ? No-one else need ever know, you'd never have to explain or defend what you do, you'd never feel guilty, and there would be no negative consequences. What would you do, where would you do it, who would you do it with and why ?

2007-01-09 22:46:34 · 11 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

this man has magic power of speech, when i hear his voice , it makes my bones melting and my sense tell me that i have fellen in love with him, but will i have the right love somebody outside the marriage? cheating? cheap? God knows what's going on.

2007-01-09 22:45:52 · 9 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I want the precious weekends to spend with my kids too, since I work till their bedtime every weekday. What problems will my kids have (if I ask them to forget they ever have a father) when they are used to having me only for the past 5 years?? I repeated asked him over a span of 2 yrs to choose either the kids+me (our family) or that *****, he wanted her. Now he says he regret not wanting the kids as well then when we separated. But this is not fair to me. He is the meanest, most selfish man I have ever heard, he want the whole world for HIMSELF!

2007-01-09 22:44:55 · 28 answers · asked by IKnow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bloke has got to finish his masters degree, should i wait till he finishes in the summer, hes my sole mate.
I'm not getting any younger and I want to marry. But there is someone else who wants me, and he's ready to settle down, but i don't want him really, what should I do?

2007-01-09 22:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by kate d 2 in Singles & Dating

what should i dress as for my mates 19th we are going round town and then to the pub then to a nightclub. i am qute shy so dont like to show too much skin and i like to wear gothic things and it very cold outside also i want to get guys to notice me and i need pockets for my stuff as i dont carry a purse any ideas?

2007-01-09 22:43:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whatever or i'm green .....i m very sori

2007-01-09 22:41:59 · 2 answers · asked by miss pau 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't think so. ex: yesterday, a friend of mine decided that he's no longer going to talk to me. no reasoning, no indication, nothing happened, like a fight. that's fine with me..i'm a big girl and i can handle that. it'd be nice to have a reason but whatever. then within an hour after that two of his friends that were also my friends stopped talking to me to 'keep the drama to a minimum'. the thing is i'm 24, i have no need for drama and nothing to say about him, i wish him all the best. it's funny because they're all in their late twenties too(26, 27, 29). so my question to you is that some sort of clique mentality because high school never ends, or is it like an evolutionary herd instinct? lol.(really this whole thing amuses me i just wanted opinions on it =])

ps-will you be my friend? hahah

2007-01-09 22:40:52 · 7 answers · asked by Kismet 7 in Friends

....he's gonna kick my A S S!! What can i do?? He's gonna be back in less then two hours and even though i sorta fixed it with some duct tape but still it looks awful and its also kind of a little loose but you cant realize except of course for the duct tape i wrapped around it. What can i do??? Please tell me something useful and quick!! Thanks alot already and hope to hear from you in SOOO VERY LITTLE TIME!! please i desperately need your advice.....

2007-01-09 22:40:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i find it really difficult to talk to my mum bout 'things' if u know what i mean, and just things in general. i can't even hug her, i'm really worried coz i've got a boyfriend and i'm gonna have to tell her bout him soon. i'm worried what her reaction will be. i just want to be close to her so i can talk to her whenever i need to. how do i do this? plz help.

2007-01-09 22:39:34 · 16 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 7 year old daughter, our marriage has failed, my daughter is with her mother and I have moved out, irrespective of the capability of mother and father, who do you think would be better suited to her, or should i force to live in that relation just for the sake of my child.

2007-01-09 22:38:40 · 15 answers · asked by regatta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i just started college and ive met this guy and from the beginning we clicked. we started talking as more than friends, but soon decided to just be friends because he was talking to someone else. over a month time, we became best friends and have shared "romantic" moments as if we were a couple. its been 5 months now and it is pretty obvious we like each other. however, we dont want to risk losing our friendship or missing out on a good relationship. on top of that, he keeps telling me how he "really really cares about me, probably more than i would think", speaks about me being his college sweetheart, and many other things. at this point, i really dont know what to do. can someone please tell me why he is doing all this, if he is confused about being in a relationship? should i go for it and just see what happens? im really confused and i need advice. ASAP! =(

2007-01-09 22:38:35 · 8 answers · asked by <3 me 1 in Singles & Dating

I got served with divorce papers around 20 days ago and it also said i had 20 days to reply to it. I think i may have gone over the 20days, so anyway my husband is having second thoughts and said that his lawyer had told him, he could do nothing and could leave it open for like 6 months as there might be a chance of reconciliation, and work our marriage out. I guess my question is, have we left it too late? will the divorce go through now, since i havent replied to it? or if we both do nothing..it will be left open??? or does my husband need to do more paperwork in order for it to go through??

2007-01-09 22:37:40 · 8 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well my dauther moved out at 18,now stays with b/f with 2kids but not hers.He did have a very good job,but not now and I know she can do better but she says she loves him and they do fight alot,she cant even call me anymore bc he didnt pay his phone bill.How can I get her out? She needs out.

2007-01-09 22:37:07 · 10 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I sometimes join my coworkers for drinks after work. There is a single woman who hangs out with us. She doesn't work with us and think it would be great to ask her out on a date.

What do you think? I'd be very embarassed 'cause we are both very shy.

2007-01-09 22:35:59 · 3 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my b/f have been togther for just over 3 years now (were 19 and 20 years old) our sex life has always been great but its getting a bit dull now as if were doing it for no reason!!

any ideas how i can spice things up (and no before you say it none of us are having an affair!!)

we have done everything and anything you can imagine, so was just interested on your thoughts on the matter!!

thanks x x x

2007-01-09 22:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend ... we have been together a long time now .. but recently i was told by a friend of mine and his that he was cheating on me i was devistated and when i spoke to him he dennyed it and promiced me that i was the only girl he wanted and he was really sorry id heard what i heard. i forgive him ... but since then ive not been able to feel the same i did about him as before ... i do love him but im just kiking myself because i dont know what to do ... anyone who has been in a situation or knows what i can do please help me because i need to get things back to how they were... do i stay with him or ditch him??

2007-01-09 22:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by vikki b 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm one of the best students, I prefer to stay at home, so I only go out on weekends to the cinema or to a restaurant with my friends, and I never brought any problems to my parents, but when I ask them to spend some time with me, they always have something more important to do, which is not true, and to 'shut me up' the buy me everything I ask for. It's not like I don't appreciate the gifts, but sometimes I would like to spend time with them.
I asked them a while ago why they couldn't go to my room, since I had done a few drawings, but they said they were busy (doing nothing)
Can someone help me?

2007-01-09 22:32:11 · 6 answers · asked by Breathless 2 in Family

My friend who is a very deep thinker anyway has just said something to me that made me stop and think.... she said that do you know the people you pass in the street this moment this second could die today?.... so she said thats why we should not allow our judgements to cloud the way we see others.

But she also says that people who make judgements shouldn't because they do not know what is in store for them also. Is my friend wise? or a deep thinker?

2007-01-09 22:30:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't think its ever gonna happen...my life sucks..

2007-01-09 22:29:03 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

my hubby is filing a divorce again, he does'nt want the custody of his 3 children and I 'm not working for the past 15 years, women on experience how to prepare for divorce.

2007-01-09 22:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by ICE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Somewhere that does a cocktail/hors dourves reception!

2007-01-09 22:26:45 · 3 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2 in Weddings

2007-01-09 22:25:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi i know i have posted a few times on this but its starting to eat me up! I erally like this guy and i am almost sure that he likes me too but i really want to tell him but i am afraid that he will not feel the same way and then i will totally embarass myself and we hand around in the same group of friends so it would make it really arkward. He been texting me saying how perfect i am and that i am beautiful and have a great personality (blush) and when we were in the pub the other night he hugged me but then kept his arm around me for about 10 minutes afterwards. He is always stitting close to me and touching me i.e. stroking my arm etc. God this is really killing me cuz i like him sooooo much. I have just got out of a relationship 2 weeks ago but i broke up with him as i liked this other guy and i wasnt happy. I dont want to rush things or anything i just really cant help how i feel. I have liked this guy for about 5 years. What should i do. Do you think he likes me too?

2007-01-09 22:23:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 22:22:41 · 17 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm bored and looking for friends.

2007-01-09 22:22:14 · 2 answers · asked by wordistob 2 in Friends

and recently i found on our computer that he was seaching for his ex girlfriend info and she happens to live in germany, shes 10 years older than me, and not prejudice but she a white women, she doesnt have any kids , that i know of now but the last letter she wrote to him was 6yrs ago saying that she wanted to have his baby, and being the typical guy i dont think that he told her that he lied that he wasnt going back to germany and i know that he told this women to wait on him, but being a woman i can sympathize with another women so i dont think that he gave this women any closer but at the same time we have been together and living together long enough to be married by now i cant help but sometimes and think that he did that intentionaly that maybe one day he might somehow try to fabriacate a story about the military taking him places and try to get back with her, but our relationship is so good and we have went through trials and tribulations should i be worried?

2007-01-09 22:20:24 · 7 answers · asked by tuttifruity 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 22:20:19 · 2 answers · asked by Daniel 2 in Family