me and my b/f have been togther for just over 3 years now (were 19 and 20 years old) our sex life has always been great but its getting a bit dull now as if were doing it for no reason!!
any ideas how i can spice things up (and no before you say it none of us are having an affair!!)
we have done everything and anything you can imagine, so was just interested on your thoughts on the matter!!
thanks x x x
2007-01-09 22:33:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ignore all this problems and live ur life with him naturaly
2007-01-09 22:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try new things, go and buy a movie and some stuff at a Sex Shop. Play a game with him, have in mind what is what he likes the most ><
2007-01-10 06:42:04 · answer #2 · answered by Breathless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up by asking about your depest fantasies - then act them out! Try things a bit more extreme, like even pretend violence if that turns you on - but make sure you mix it up with the slow and sexy stuff...
2007-01-10 06:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by jaydelovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex. I know this may be hard but have a period of time where you dont have sex, set a date of when you can start again make it at least a week, by the time the date comes round you will both be randy as hell
2007-01-13 20:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by disney princess whore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just slow down a bit that is all it takes.I Mean be sexy for him but you dont have to have sex all the time.Play games with him and stuff like that,It will get better.And if you cook for him do it and a sexy way.
2007-01-10 06:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
outdoor sex? filming? role playing? in water? on water? heights? on web cam? mums bed? mums bathroom when they are downstairs? bath? shower? public loo? dogging? tied up? spur of the moment(public place)?and many more imagination is a a great tool>Or come round mine and ill film it>x
2007-01-10 06:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by stevieboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know what?
It happens to all couples. Pity u r too young.
Best thing is, lay it to rest for a while.
Starve urseles, & then, aftera while, u'll again find ur same old styles satisfactory enough.
2007-01-10 06:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to surprise him now and again........try wearing just a long coat with zilch on underneath....and open the front door to greet him.......once you've tried that one i'm sure you'll both be inspired to think of new and exciting things to do.
Goodluck
Have fun.........and lots of it!
xx
2007-01-10 06:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
music can really set a mood and candles, or try dressing up, nothing better then seeing your man in a james bond suit! he'll like you in an ann summers outfit!
2007-01-10 06:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Keira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There`s more to life than Bed & Board
2007-01-10 06:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should have waited a bit longer, maybe you shouldn't be intimate for a while, and then have a reason for doing it, maybe an anniversary or something special?
2007-01-10 06:39:57 · answer #11 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋