my bloke has got to finish his masters degree, should i wait till he finishes in the summer, hes my sole mate.
I'm not getting any younger and I want to marry. But there is someone else who wants me, and he's ready to settle down, but i don't want him really, what should I do?
2007-01-09 22:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by kate d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know the answer to this already, of course you should wait, marriage is about support.
2007-01-10 02:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart and stick with the man your with, if you love him waiting for a while longer will be worth it. Surely you want him to be a success and behind every great man is a great woman as the saying goes.
Why the rush to settle down? Why would you even consider being with someone you don't really like enough? That is a recipe for disaster.
2007-01-09 22:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already making decisions in your question. You have stated that "your bloke" is your sole mate and you want him not this other guy whose ready to settle now.
I think men generally wants to have certain things in order before making that critical step "committment" So wait for him ie.. if he will wait for you too.
2007-01-09 22:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by singsong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you're even asking a question like this, I'd say neither. You're doubting in your mind about waiting for the university guy, so that clearly means he's not special enough for your time. Whereas guy #2 wants you but you don't want him so obviously you can't marry him. So there's no options left.
2007-01-09 22:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you mean by wait for him. Are you living a long way aprt? Has he asked you to commit to him? The summer is only 6 months away if he has. if he does not by then i suggest you find someone else you really like as its not fair to use someone just to get a ring on your finger.
2007-01-09 22:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wiat for him to finish uni its not long to go just a couple of month and at the end of the day a couple of month is nothing to a life time of misery with someone you dont really want to be with
2007-01-09 22:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by ANDREA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats harsh, get with the other guy and let your bf find a nice girl.
Because he will and not only that he will have a great job and lots of money, beautiful children that will one day see your kids and help them off the sidewalk and buy them a hot cup of coffee and employ them to help clean toilets in their own multi national companies.
....maybe you should not have asked this question!
2007-01-09 23:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait, how old are you? Doesn't sound like a real problem to me...
2007-01-09 22:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're having to ask this question then:
Neither of them.
2007-01-09 22:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by manc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should wait, good things take time....
2007-01-09 22:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by Immortal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋