and recently i found on our computer that he was seaching for his ex girlfriend info and she happens to live in germany, shes 10 years older than me, and not prejudice but she a white women, she doesnt have any kids , that i know of now but the last letter she wrote to him was 6yrs ago saying that she wanted to have his baby, and being the typical guy i dont think that he told her that he lied that he wasnt going back to germany and i know that he told this women to wait on him, but being a woman i can sympathize with another women so i dont think that he gave this women any closer but at the same time we have been together and living together long enough to be married by now i cant help but sometimes and think that he did that intentionaly that maybe one day he might somehow try to fabriacate a story about the military taking him places and try to get back with her, but our relationship is so good and we have went through trials and tribulations should i be worried?
2007-01-09 22:20:24 · 7 answers · asked by tuttifruity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is your agreement and what kind of commitment has he made to you? Aand you to him? This sounds like a good time to clarify your intentions in the relationship, your plans for the future, and the terms of your agreement. Monogamous or not?
And if he is serious about his relationship with you, why would you not ask for marriage after this much time? Marriage is a public commitment and has legal advantages. I know it's not for everyone, but it's something to think about.
Yes, certainly talk to him about your concerns and ask what his feelings are for his ex-girlfriend.
2007-01-09 22:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, see what else u can find about the other lady
and c if u can find any changes in ur man, keep an eye on him!!
and if he did not show any responces and u think he is a nice man and will understand, ask him about it, but remember dont sound like ur jellouse, just ask him like u were just wondering.
but b very honest to him...
and if he said nothing, then dont force him, mayb its some thing that he thinks does not concern u. but dont get angry when time comes he will b honest to u.. btw there is a chance that nothing is really going on, sooo dont let this tiny thing rouin ur relationship, coz it can!!!!
good luck
2007-01-10 06:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by alhan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about this. Communication is key in any relationship.
2007-01-10 06:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wouldn't worry bout it, just go ask him about it. If you've been together that long you should be able to bring up anything and ask anything.
2007-01-10 06:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Fil D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tutti m,this blokes is still having fantasy about his x knock it on the head
2007-01-10 06:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it, tell him how you feel and maybe he will tell you the same and maybe give you some reason for his behavouir.
2007-01-10 06:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should be woried, but dont freak out
2007-01-10 06:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by manny fresh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋