My girlfriend has always been boring to be around, but in bed she is a beast. My wife has recently become suspicious I think, though she has not said anything specific. She says stuff when there's a cheating partner on tv like "that's awful" and then she looks at me and I say yeah and then she looks at me for another second or two.
So I need to find a way to dump my girlfriend, but I want to keep her for sex at the same time. I just can not afford to take her out in public anymore in case my wife hires a PI to follow me, etc.
At first I was just her sugar daddy but now she says she loves me & I've been promising to leave my wife for a while... but my wife is really the one that makes all the money I give her, so I can't divorce her or that would dry up.
So how is the best way to let a girl down easy but keep her for sex? Thanks.
2007-01-09 22:14:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that you are a pig headed jerk! Be honest with your wife and your girlfriend. Get a real job so you can make money to take your girl out instead of having your wife pay for it. That is just wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 22:21:54 · answer #1 · answered by mandy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all - you are an ******** on about 3 different grounds buddy, and I hope you posted that question as a joke. I didn't know men could be so horrible to a woman who loves tham AND pays for everything!
But - for the sake of anyone else who reads this answer. Men need to understand a little thing about women - we want to be LOVED! ADORED! Showered with affection every second. Nothing is too romantic or extravigant!
The thing to understand though is that it is a two way street. If you wake up in the morning, kiss your wife and tell her she is the most beautiful thing in the world, offer to do the dishes, ask her how you can spoil her this weekend, come home with a bunch of flowers on occassion, maybe some of her favourite ice-cream, pay attention to her day and ask her questions - she wont CARE if you are shagging every woman in the office! Or vice versa, the girl on the side will be happy to give you all sorts of sexual favours if she gets told she's the sexiest woman in the world every time!
Here's another girl secret - we don't care if we know in our hearts you don't really love us - if you keep giving us a self-esteem boost (even a fake one), if we feel special in your company, we will give you anything you want.
Try thinking of it as points. If you want a girl to fulfil your wildest sexual fantasies, that might cost you 10 'points'. Make sure you give her back 11 points in return. Offer to cook dinner = 1 point. Actually do dinner = 3 points (bonus point if it's a complicated dish and/or her favourite). Do the dishes = 2 points. Tell her she's so beautiful you smile every time you think of her = 2 points. Ask her about her day = 1 point. Give her a hug and say 'you're realy special to me, you know that' = 1 point.
Its that easy! She really will do anything you say.
PS look into her eyes and say 'I love you' = 10 points. Try not to puke, but we love those sweet nothings!
2007-01-10 06:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by jaydelovell 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not try to be a man? C'mon now, you're married and sleeping around on your wife?!?! Divorce your wife and do whatever the hell you want. Personally, I think your wife already knows and is just waiting for proof. Wake up someday and realize that you can't have it both ways, if you're married, stay faithful. If you're not in a relationship, sleep with whoever you want. If your "girlfriend" never wants to talk to you again, I wouldn't blame her.
2007-01-10 06:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you deserve is for the girlfriend to dump you cos you are boring too; and for the wife to divorce you and leave you penniless, cos you are a cheat. You will still have Mrs Palm for sex.
2007-01-10 06:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you mad.... your married..... if your not happy in your marriage i think you know what needs to be done, talk to her, let her know how you feel cos she will eventually find out that your sleeping with this other woman and imagine how she's going to feel. would you like it if she was sleeping with other men behind your back?
about your girlfriend i think you should tell her the truth as well you cant have both as it will wear down on you an you'll go mad,
Decide who you love and want and then go with your gut instinct.
2007-01-10 06:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow what a fine example of manhood you are if she loves you and you think she will stay around for the sex think again she will see right through you boy what a cad you are the lowest of the low.both of them should leave you how about earning a quid yourself lazy BUM you deserve no one
2007-01-10 08:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by flossypants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. it't kind a hot story. The best way to do that is show this question to your x girl. Either you will win or die. But be careful that she will forword this to your wife. In that case you will have to stay alone.... good luck.
2007-01-10 06:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest, do you really want to remain married to your wife? If not get a divorce.
Good luck !
2007-01-10 06:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Phillip 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
GOD YOU ARE SUCH A SCUMBAG!!!! I hope your wife and girlfriend leave you!!!! You deserve to be alone for pulling that sh*t!
2007-01-10 06:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by franxie03 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow,talk about having your cake and eat it too, just how mercenary can you get?
2007-01-10 06:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Trixie Bordello 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋