I'm 18and I'm gay. I went out with guys this week. But I think I have to choose one because it's not right. So I have to dump one but I don't know who should I dump. I want opinion from all of you guys.
First guy is really good-looking. He is really attractive and He got the most cute smile. But he's personality is kind of bad. He makes me uncomfortable. he said "You can't put your pants tomorrow if you eat butter like that."And He said really mean jokes about not manly gay guys. I think I should this guy who I bump but he is so so cute. It's like my all kind of sexual fantasy is in him.
Second guy is not attractive. (I don't want mean...but he is little fat.) But he has really really sweet persnality and homor. He is really funny. He makes me laugh so much. Spend time with him is the best time I ever felt. And he really cares about me.
So It's pretty much about two guys.
Who should I dump? (I think I should dump first guy, but I'm not sure. I want a lot of opinion.)
2007-01-09 22:07:59 · 10 answers · asked by esprit967 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First guy is model. And second guy is do his own band. It does not matter what they do but It's just for your information.
2007-01-09 22:23:53 · update #1
i'd keep the one with the best personality, the one who makes you laugh and who cares about you.... its not worth staying with a pretty boy who cares only for himself and know one else
good luck mate x
2007-01-09 22:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by nutti_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you've already answered your own question. If you're looking for a committed relationship, guy #2 is the answer. If you're looking for a fling, strictly just sex...number one could be ok. But if he's putting you down like that and disrespecting you so early on, he doesn't deserve to have you in the first place..you sound like a good person, so you deserve a good guy! Don't be superficial, it's the worst mistake people make when getting into a relationship. I hope you make the right decision...good luck darlin!
2007-01-10 06:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't judge someone by looks. The first guy sounds like a loser..because he was making fun of you.. The second guy you said has a sweet personality and you enjoyed your time with him..
doesnt that answer your question who you should chose.
2007-01-10 06:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first one. Coz i think dat u should be wid the guy u r comfortable. Just bacause of the looks u cant dump someone.
2007-01-10 06:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should consider the one u are comfortable to be with. once i hung out wif a guy that i used to like, then he made comments about me which weren't very nice since then i thought i rather hang out wif a guy who is humane than just being good looking.
2007-01-10 08:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get to know them both a bit better, so why not see them both again before you decide? Just don't let it get physical.
2007-01-10 06:12:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely pick the second one , with the good personality ,
the cute one sounds obnoxious ?
so what if the second one has a little fat ? he can loose it ......:-)
2007-01-10 06:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by HJW 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should dump first guy
2007-01-10 06:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who should you dump...Well, try yourself first, down a mineshaft.
2007-01-10 06:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well heres a better idea, dump them both and find a girl it's better promise........
2007-01-10 06:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋